u/DraftyRookie

I'd love to chat casually, Im 20 years old and greek and I have troubles with an old best friend. If you've nothing else to do lol

Context: I am 21 years old and i've moved out of my hometown for uni. Ever since 1st grade I had this friend, K. K and I hang out since but formed a really strong friendship when we were aroynd 14 years old. Like we were REALLY close. Things started going south when she and I started hanging out with a guy, H, during the last year of high school, forming a trio.

We graduate and I move cities, things are going smoothly between us 3, until they came over to visit me in my city, where they ended up fighting and not speaking again. I was friends with both for a while, hanging out with them at different times and it didn't become a issue.

But K short of changed, she would trash-talk H to me all the time even though she knew he was my friend (let me mention here that the fight was kinda her fault and could have been avoided easily).

Whenever I was back in my hometown for the holidays and would stay with my parents in my old house, H was doing a lot of travelling at the time, so K was the only person I would hang out with during my stay. But usually she would be too bored to meet up and we would end up just texting (even though my parents' house is a 5 minute walk from hers). It got to a breaking point last christmas where she didn't even bother to ask me to meet for those two weeks I was in my hometown (mind you she hadn't seen me in 3 months and I'm supposed to be her best friend).

I was miserable for that reason the whole two weeks and so, I took my mother's advice: Decided not to text her for a while. But then I took it too far and kind of dissapeared. Restricted her on instagram and everything. She probably got mad and never tried to reach out.

It's been 1 year and a half since then. This year's christmas I panicked one night and decided to delete my isntagram account and make a new one. Before I deleted it I removed the restriction, texted her how I was sorry we cut ties this way and that I missed her. Now I think about it every time I'm visiting my hometown. I keep looking her instagram up wondering if I should reach out again.

I know she might not have been the most mature friend but I miss her. However I'm scared she'll still be mad at me. I'm in my hometown now and will be for another week or so.

Should I reach out? Ask maybe if she wants to meet and talk things out?

I'm studying math at uni, I'm halfway done (4th and final year starts in october but I have lots of classes to retake so it'll take me at least a year more). The way I study is that I usually try to keep up with the classes throughout the semester, and for exams I solve as many exercises as I can, usually focusing on ones appearing in previous exams. This has barely worked. I have exams again in September and I feel more confident this time, whoever I think that, once again, I'll fail more than half of the classes. Especially Real Analysis has me on my knees and the professor DOES NOT help AT ALL. Am I doing something wrong?

I'm studying for an exam on Differential Geometry for uni and I don't get how I can describe a curve geometrically. For example, how could I have known this curve is in the shape of a star?

γ(t)=(4α(cost)^3, 4α(sint)^3)

Like, what's the thinking process?

If anyone has any tips or can help at all please leave a comment

Guys, I'm on an android but I don't have that fancy mood lighting, I still have the old way of lighting in the game. I have updated it. Why is that? Do I need to do something? I really want the fancy lighting

It's my first Lammas this year and besides making bread, I don't know how else to celebrate! How are you celebrating?

I see a lot of people online talking about casting love spells or spells to bind someone to them, I was wondering what everyone's take is on them.

I think they seem a bit unethical, isn't it kinda weird to cast a spell on someone to be obsessed with you or fall in love with you given that there's no consent at play? Also if the spell does end up working, wouldn't it feel weird knowing that this person feels the way they feel just because of a spell?

I'd love to know different views on the matter, maybe I've misunderstood something. Sort of a baby witch and English isn't my first language so be kind please! Blessed be.

I have a beaded necklace I wear constantly and I was thinking of enchanting it to protect me or bring me good luck. Do you guys have any tips?

I just did a cleansing ritual for my study space. Just before I got to do the ritual it started raining which is weird since the weather has been nothing but sunny. It was a very simple ritual since I'm begginer. I cleared out the space, meditated for 2 minutes, played some guitar and sang a melody to cleanse through sound. I also used candle smoke over my study space. The moment I stopped and sat down, the rain stopped. Could this mean anything regarding the ritual? I doubt it was a coincidence. Blessed be!

I can't find info on wether it's tied to Israel or not. I know it's a Greek skincare brand (I'm Greek and it's super popular here, pretty sure it's popular internationally also) and I'm pretty sure they work with Greek-only sources. I also know they're cruelty-free but I can't find any info on whether they are affiliated with Israel. Does anyone know? I love that brand and I get all of my skincare from them but I obviously don't want to keep doing that if they support the genocide.

I want to build a church, what lot should it be on?

Drop your sims or storylines in the comments so that we can all get inspo!

Here's mine

Already created

• Household #1: Hippie/Boho yoga influencer who is also a single mother to a baby daughter and works as an art teacher
• Household #2: Typical Nuclear family: Dad is a real estate agent, mom is a teacher, teen daughter is goth, preteen son is a gay artist
• Household #3: Gay dads with toddler daughter (loosely based on Cam and Mitch from Modern Family
• Household #4: Lesbian power couple: One is the mayor, the other is an olympic athlete
• Household #5: Cafe owner and her teen daughter
• Household #6: Outdoorsy couple and their toddler son
• Household #7: Grocery store owner and his teenage son
• Household #8: Parents with twin preetens: Preteen #1 is a high-achiever, preteen #2 is a troublemaker

Want to create in the future

• Coastal Grandma
• Cottagecore grandparents
• Surfer polycule
• Rich family with an only child
• Eccentric girl
• Loner detective
• Cowboy
• Eco-friendly college student
• Green witch
• Old scientist

I thought I'd make a post with all the build ideas of mine and I urge you to drop yours in the comments

• Cafe (bonus points if its themed e.g. cat cafe, board games cafe etc)
• Diner
• Pizzeria
• Flea market
• Cathedral/Curch/Mosque/Any place of worship
• Cemetery
• Camp
• Concert Venue
• Wedding Venue
• Pregnancy event house that looks like an actuall gyno's office
• Community garden including a building for all those crafting stations (I don't know about you but mine are currently in an ugly basement.
• Townhouse
• Nightclub
• Daycare
• School
• University
• Cinema
• Restaurant
• Playground/Park
• Gym
• Secret Garden
• Public Library w/ study cafe
• Boutique
• Plant/Flower shop (PRO TIP: LOOKS GREAT IN BOATHOUSE LOTS)
• Art Gallery
• Grocery store
• Bookstore
• IKEA for all the furniture you never use
• Farm
• Animal shelter
• Motel/Hotel/Apartment complex
• Gas station
• Off-grid house/Bunker
• Witch's house/Haunted Manor/Gothic House/Any Spooky build
• Container-turned-house (Works well with eccentric or eco-friendly sims!)
• Mediterranean-style house
• Rich family estate
• Hobby center with cooking class room, salsa room etc
• Office (Works well in a penthouse)
• Pharmacy