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Sometimes I feel tired during the day even after sleeping 10+ hours. I sometimes feel like I’m choking and gasping for air right before falling asleep, this doesn’t happen a lot but enough that I noticed. Lately, I’ve also noticed that I have a hard time breathing through my nose like it’s plugged but it’s actually not, it’s like a blocked or something and that forces me to sleep with my mouth open which I never had to do before. Also, my mom recently got diagnosed with it. Is this concern for seeing a doctor? Could I have sleep apnea?

My bf loves when I’m on top and wants me to try riding him but specifically up and down as I always go back and forth. I’m scared that if I go up and down I’ll hurt him. He’s a bigger man too but he’s also 6’3 and I’m 5’5 and we weigh basically the same😔 but anyway he keeps saying he wants me to try and that he loves whatever I do. I’d like some tips on how to like position myself so I don’t put as much weight on him or really any tips would be helpful with this thanks

My bf (19M) and I (19F) are long distance and recently he suggested a Polaroid picture of me to keep. I’m just wanting advice on how to position the camera since I’d be taking it by myself and how I’d pose for it as I’m a bigger woman and am a bit self conscious.

Is there something your partner or ex did that you can’t forget, or something you did that you know works wonders? I’m asking because I’m having trouble spicing things up for my boyfriend. I think he’s okay with what we’re doing now, but I want to surprise him. If it helps, I was a virgin before him, so I don’t know too much, and he does most of the work (I try, but honestly I’m a bit bigger, and I’m pretty shy). Any help would be appreciated!

My bf likes it when I talk dirty but I’m usually pretty shy and only do what I know he likes and I won’t feel too embarrassed after saying. What I usually say “Daddy”, “you did so good”, “you feel amazing” and I moan. I would like to spice it up and I’m clueless as to what I could say. I was a virgin before him so I don’t know where to start. I would like some ideas. Thanks

I’m in my first relationship and also no longer a virgin and he’s had experience. Anyway, when I’m giving him a blowjob or a handjob and he's close to finishing he always wants me to stop and wants me to talk dirty to him ( which I’m okay with) and he continues by himself. The only thing is I want him to finish when I’m doing it. It makes me feel like maybe I’m not good enough, and I know practice makes perfect, but he’s said multiple times already that I do it better than him. The only times he didn’t need to finish himself were when he had to pull out because he was too close ( I know stupid we weren’t using protection). Anyway, I’d really like some advice on how to bring this up, or even if I should. And I really don’t want to hurt his feelings by bringing this up but it is important to me more so my feelings for not being enough.

So I’ve had anal twice with my bf and it was both our first experience with anal (I was a virgin before him). It was good I actually enjoyed it lol and he finished inside but the thing is the next day I was in terrible shape idk if it was the mix of his fluid and my stool or something but my stomach was very upset. Anyway, we tried it again without him finishing inside, thinking that was the problem, but the same thing happened, and my stomach was upset. If it helps he’s on the bigger side and I would really like some advice on how to go about this because my bf and I both enjoy it. Has anyone else been through this and if so how did you solve it or is it even possible?

For instance, I lost my virginity to my bf ( he’s also very experienced) about 2 months ago. I’ve had clitoral orgasms before by myself but I’m having trouble in front of him. I have squirted once with him but didn’t notice any big feelings that are usually described by women like to the point where I wasn’t sure if the liquid came from him or me. Maybe I was too in the moment and now I don’t remember what I felt but I’m very sure I didn’t feel what I was supposed to feel. For vaginal orgasms is it supposed to feel different or the same as clitoral ones? I’m just not sure since I’m new to this. He said he’s felt me finish but how does he know when I don’t? I’m really confused.

For instance, my bf and I are long-distance, and he told me he is 7 inches and a bit (he told me exactly but I don’t remember) and that one time he reached 8 inches. I don’t even know if it is possible to grow a little more than normal if you are extremely turned on or if it takes a long time. Anyway, when I finally saw it in person ( I saw it in pictures and it looked big just as he said) it didn’t look like it was 7”. And I tried to measure discreetly by my fingers because when I make phone sign with my fingers. Between the thumb and the pinky it’s a little over 7” so I tried to do it that way. It was a bit smaller than my fingers. And I also went to Spencer’s and looked at some dildos and saw the ones that said 7” and it looked a lot bigger than his but it also looked bigger than when I would measure with my fingers. I didn’t measure with them. I was look. After all,t with my bf cause I was looking for a vibrator for when I get back home. Anyway how do I bring this up or do I ask if he could like measure it in front of me? Maybe he’s measuring it wrong idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ I would really like some feedback thanks

EDIT: It’s my first time ever seeing a guys private part and have nothing to compare it to ( like idk if it’s considered big or not) and wasn’t sure if even seeing a dildo being labeled as the same size as him is something to go off of because idk how reliable/realistic they tend to be. And also I don’t care about his size it’s only the fact he felt he needed to lie even if it’s a white lie. I would not have cared if he told me it’s 5” just as long as he told me the truth. I’ve only been looking for advice on how I could possibly bring it up to him without hurting him and if I did I wouldn’t berate him and make him feel bad about it or even how I could go about it without asking/telling him.

I live 26 hours away from my bf and to keep the sex life going we usually just use hands and recently he brought up that he wants one that he can control when I’m gone or even with him. We have found one at Spencer’s that is wireless with a remote but not sure how well it would do. Has anyone tried wireless ones from Spencer’s and did they work for long distance and if not are there apps that can be used instead?

I live 26 hours away from my bf and to keep the sex life going we usually just use hands and recently he brought up that he wants one that he can control when I’m gone or even with him. We have found one at Spencer’s that is wireless with a remote but not sure how well it would do. Has anyone tried wireless ones from Spencer’s and did they work for long distance and if not are there apps that can be used instead?

I ordered from JoliSlime a while ago and made a post because I didn’t know if it was legit or not and from my post it said it was but now I’m concerned for a different reason. I got an email from my banking app that JoliSlime took $70 from my account however I was only supposed to pay $48 for the things I ordered. And I haven’t gotten any updates about shipping at all and it’s been 5 days since I ordered. I know it takes a long time to get them from my other post but not even an email to see if it’s being shipped for 5 days is strange unless that’s normal for them I’m just not sure about my money situation. If this happened to anyone I would really appreciate some advice.

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Update: I emailed them and now just waiting for a response.

For reference, I just lost my virginity to my bf and had trouble giving him a good bj. One because I’m new and two because he’s big and I’m having trouble figuring out how to not use my teeth and to use my tongue because when I try to I start gagging. Also, some tricks in general would be great. Thanks 😊

I ordered from JoliSlime for 3 squishes/ stressballs cause I saw some review it on TikTok and did a little bit of research about it late at night before ordering but now I’m seeing some people say they never got their package. I might’ve gotten scammed I’m not sure because Google says they are legit and some other people I’m just seeing now say they have never received their package. I really hope I didn’t get scammed. But I would really like to know if anyone has actually received their package from them. I would really like to know if they are a legit company.

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Update: I just got an email from my bank app and it said JoliSlime took $70 out but that doesn’t make sense cause I was supposed to pay $48 for it and that’s including shipping. And even if it wasn’t it said shipping was $12 so I still don’t understand why they’d take out $70? Need advice please 🙏 I have pictures to show for proof but idk how to upload them through editing the post.

Also how do I track my package?

I’m just wondering how long after losing your virginity should you visit a gynaecologist? I lost my virginity and I don’t think there is anything wrong down there but should I get checked just to make sure since we didn’t use protection?

I lost my virginity to my long-distance bf after dating for 7 months, and it was sore the first time, which I heard was normal, and it got better, and I never even bled. But after having sex more than just once 👀 I found that it hurt to wipe myself after using the washroom. To specify, it doesn’t hurt inside, but it’s extremely tender on my outer lips. Is that normal, and if so, should I expect it every time? Also, is it normal to feel like you have to poop/ fart before having an orgasm? It only happened twice out of all the times we did it. Sorry TMI I’m so confused.

So about a week ago, I decided to take a bath instead of a shower, and I did everything, like shaving, washing my hair, and washing my body. I was in there for about an hour and a half because, damn, shaving everywhere, I had to do some gymnastics, but anyway, after that, I started noticing a strong itch down there, and the more I itch, the itchier it gets. That’s the only thing that I have done differently, or think went wrong. Could I have been in there too long, and maybe I got irritated? And TMI, but even when I tried masturbating, all I felt was relief that I was itching it like almost no pleasure at all, even if I was really horny. I also noticed that since then, I have been having trouble getting as wet as I normally do, but idk if it’s connected or a separate issue. Also, I’m going on vacation and will leave tomorrow, so I won’t be able to visit my family doctor for some time. I need advice. Has anyone been through this or something similar, and how did you take care of the itch without a prescription from a doctor, if you did, because I don’t think I can wait 2 more weeks of this DAMN ITCHING.