u/Dry-Buffalo8134

Yesterday, my boyfriend decided to text me, saying that instead of seeing me in another month, he wants to leave that same night or sometime this week. I’m not mentally prepared to see him so soon without more prior notice. I can’t believe I’m actually going to see him, and I feel like I’m going crazy. I’m very excited but also really anxious. Is that normal? I’ve been with him for 7 months, so it’s definitely time to meet up. We have a 24-hour drive between us, and we've talked a lot about him visiting first. Last night, we finally agreed that he should come at the end of this week. I’ve been awake all night trying not to think about it because I’m so excited, but I’m also overthinking and worried he might be disappointed when he sees me. He knows exactly what I look like and calls me beautiful every day, so I’m sure it will be fine. But before him, there was another guy who led me on, and after that, I lost confidence in myself. Now I’m not sure what to think. I’m very scared (like to the point I feel nauseous) that he might want to leave once he sees me in person. We call every day, and he’s never once put me down and only said positive things about me, which really helps when I overthink. We talk about everything and are very open with each other, but I’m still finding it hard to tell him how I’m feeling. Has anyone been through this or something similar? How did you bring it up to your partner or overcome it on your own?

I was on the Mya birth control pill for 4 years as I had extremely bad periods. However, coming off the pill I’ve noticed that I’ve started growing hair right underneath my eyes in the corner as well as on the cheek. I’ve never had this before if I did it was only 2 hairs my the side of my eyes. It’s not peach fuzz but it’s not super thick facial hair like men get it’s very similar to eyebrow hair. I’ve been to the doctor and he said it’s normal and not to worry about it. I have a hard time believing this. I know I shouldn’t have but I googled it and apparently because the Mya suppresses androgens and this could be a temporary symptom from coming off the pill but I’ve already been off it for 10 months and it just slowly growing more hair. It’s ruining my confidence. Has this happened to anyone before and how did you deal with it?

For context I just finished my first year of university and at first everything was going okay but I would sometimes get into a depressive episode and have trouble going to classes/ finishing assignments. This only happens during the winter so I get really bad winter blues. Sorry for how long this post is.

Anyway in the first term I had a gpa of 2.25 still not the best but I was at least in the average and would not receive an academic warning. Now that I finished the second term it was better until I registered for a class that was extremely boring and could not focus and I was honestly just in a bad place. I got Cs in all my other classes and did good in some of my exams and assignments just not one class. I failed a class the first time in my life and that dropped my gpa to 1.90. I’m freaking out, I haven’t gotten an academic warning yet but I’m sure I will. It’s also only my first year and I’m still new to all of this but I know that’s just an excuse. I had an average of 80% in high school I honestly don’t know what happened to me. I have thought about talking to an advisor to help and honestly I really need it for my mental health and not just academically.

I haven’t told my parents because we are short of money and the only way to get through the remaining years is for a loan and I’m 99% sure I won’t be able to get it because it’s so low and I’m sure I need at least a gpa of 2-2.5 for a loan. My parents are gonna be so disappointed in me, idk what to do.

I have a friend I’ve been talking to that is long distance however she takes a very long to time respond and I need advice PLEASE