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I live 26 hours away from my bf and to keep the sex life going we usually just use hands and recently he brought up that he wants one that he can control when I’m gone or even with him. We have found one at Spencer’s that is wireless with a remote but not sure how well it would do. Has anyone tried wireless ones from Spencer’s and did they work for long distance and if not are there apps that can be used instead?

I live 26 hours away from my bf and to keep the sex life going we usually just use hands and recently he brought up that he wants one that he can control when I’m gone or even with him. We have found one at Spencer’s that is wireless with a remote but not sure how well it would do. Has anyone tried wireless ones from Spencer’s and did they work for long distance and if not are there apps that can be used instead?

I ordered from JoliSlime a while ago and made a post because I didn’t know if it was legit or not and from my post it said it was but now I’m concerned for a different reason. I got an email from my banking app that JoliSlime took $70 from my account however I was only supposed to pay $48 for the things I ordered. And I haven’t gotten any updates about shipping at all and it’s been 5 days since I ordered. I know it takes a long time to get them from my other post but not even an email to see if it’s being shipped for 5 days is strange unless that’s normal for them I’m just not sure about my money situation. If this happened to anyone I would really appreciate some advice.

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Update: I emailed them and now just waiting for a response.

For reference, I just lost my virginity to my bf and had trouble giving him a good bj. One because I’m new and two because he’s big and I’m having trouble figuring out how to not use my teeth and to use my tongue because when I try to I start gagging. Also, some tricks in general would be great. Thanks 😊

I ordered from JoliSlime for 3 squishes/ stressballs cause I saw some review it on TikTok and did a little bit of research about it late at night before ordering but now I’m seeing some people say they never got their package. I might’ve gotten scammed I’m not sure because Google says they are legit and some other people I’m just seeing now say they have never received their package. I really hope I didn’t get scammed. But I would really like to know if anyone has actually received their package from them. I would really like to know if they are a legit company.

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Update: I just got an email from my bank app and it said JoliSlime took $70 out but that doesn’t make sense cause I was supposed to pay $48 for it and that’s including shipping. And even if it wasn’t it said shipping was $12 so I still don’t understand why they’d take out $70? Need advice please 🙏 I have pictures to show for proof but idk how to upload them through editing the post.

Also how do I track my package?

I’m just wondering how long after losing your virginity should you visit a gynaecologist? I lost my virginity and I don’t think there is anything wrong down there but should I get checked just to make sure since we didn’t use protection?

I lost my virginity to my long-distance bf after dating for 7 months, and it was sore the first time, which I heard was normal, and it got better, and I never even bled. But after having sex more than just once 👀 I found that it hurt to wipe myself after using the washroom. To specify, it doesn’t hurt inside, but it’s extremely tender on my outer lips. Is that normal, and if so, should I expect it every time? Also, is it normal to feel like you have to poop/ fart before having an orgasm? It only happened twice out of all the times we did it. Sorry TMI I’m so confused.

So about a week ago, I decided to take a bath instead of a shower, and I did everything, like shaving, washing my hair, and washing my body. I was in there for about an hour and a half because, damn, shaving everywhere, I had to do some gymnastics, but anyway, after that, I started noticing a strong itch down there, and the more I itch, the itchier it gets. That’s the only thing that I have done differently, or think went wrong. Could I have been in there too long, and maybe I got irritated? And TMI, but even when I tried masturbating, all I felt was relief that I was itching it like almost no pleasure at all, even if I was really horny. I also noticed that since then, I have been having trouble getting as wet as I normally do, but idk if it’s connected or a separate issue. Also, I’m going on vacation and will leave tomorrow, so I won’t be able to visit my family doctor for some time. I need advice. Has anyone been through this or something similar, and how did you take care of the itch without a prescription from a doctor, if you did, because I don’t think I can wait 2 more weeks of this DAMN ITCHING.

For some information, I’m 19, in a long-distance relationship, and have been off the pill for a year, I only just noticed this change when starting the relationship. (My bf is great, so I'm sure it's not him and that it’s just a coincidence) I used to get wet easily, or I guess whenever I was in the mood, but now I’ve noticed that even when I’m in the mood, I can’t get as wet as I used to. And sometimes when I do, I go dry; it’s frustrating. However, when I’m ovulating, I’m always “ready”. It could be that I’m stressed, and I’m not in my right mind, as I’ve been having money troubles with university, and that really occupies my mind a lot of the time. But even with starting university, I was completely fine; this change only started when I started dating my bf, specifically when we finally met. I’m just confused, I don’t know if it’s all in my head or maybe something medically wrong is with me, or I’m just too stressed with everything going on with university.
Masturbating has always been a stress reliever for me and is one of the things that always makes me feel better, so I’d really like some advice if anyone has been through this before, or maybe this is completely normal. I honestly don’t even know anymore.

Yesterday, my boyfriend decided to text me, saying that instead of seeing me in another month, he wants to leave that same night or sometime this week. I’m not mentally prepared to see him so soon without more prior notice. I can’t believe I’m actually going to see him, and I feel like I’m going crazy. I’m very excited but also really anxious. Is that normal? I’ve been with him for 7 months, so it’s definitely time to meet up. We have a 24-hour drive between us, and we've talked a lot about him visiting first. Last night, we finally agreed that he should come at the end of this week. I’ve been awake all night trying not to think about it because I’m so excited, but I’m also overthinking and worried he might be disappointed when he sees me. He knows exactly what I look like and calls me beautiful every day, so I’m sure it will be fine. But before him, there was another guy who led me on, and after that, I lost confidence in myself. Now I’m not sure what to think. I’m very scared (like to the point I feel nauseous) that he might want to leave once he sees me in person. We call every day, and he’s never once put me down and only said positive things about me, which really helps when I overthink. We talk about everything and are very open with each other, but I’m still finding it hard to tell him how I’m feeling. Has anyone been through this or something similar? How did you bring it up to your partner or overcome it on your own?

I was on the Mya birth control pill for 4 years as I had extremely bad periods. However, coming off the pill I’ve noticed that I’ve started growing hair right underneath my eyes in the corner as well as on the cheek. I’ve never had this before if I did it was only 2 hairs my the side of my eyes. It’s not peach fuzz but it’s not super thick facial hair like men get it’s very similar to eyebrow hair. I’ve been to the doctor and he said it’s normal and not to worry about it. I have a hard time believing this. I know I shouldn’t have but I googled it and apparently because the Mya suppresses androgens and this could be a temporary symptom from coming off the pill but I’ve already been off it for 10 months and it just slowly growing more hair. It’s ruining my confidence. Has this happened to anyone before and how did you deal with it?

For context I just finished my first year of university and at first everything was going okay but I would sometimes get into a depressive episode and have trouble going to classes/ finishing assignments. This only happens during the winter so I get really bad winter blues. Sorry for how long this post is.

Anyway in the first term I had a gpa of 2.25 still not the best but I was at least in the average and would not receive an academic warning. Now that I finished the second term it was better until I registered for a class that was extremely boring and could not focus and I was honestly just in a bad place. I got Cs in all my other classes and did good in some of my exams and assignments just not one class. I failed a class the first time in my life and that dropped my gpa to 1.90. I’m freaking out, I haven’t gotten an academic warning yet but I’m sure I will. It’s also only my first year and I’m still new to all of this but I know that’s just an excuse. I had an average of 80% in high school I honestly don’t know what happened to me. I have thought about talking to an advisor to help and honestly I really need it for my mental health and not just academically.

I haven’t told my parents because we are short of money and the only way to get through the remaining years is for a loan and I’m 99% sure I won’t be able to get it because it’s so low and I’m sure I need at least a gpa of 2-2.5 for a loan. My parents are gonna be so disappointed in me, idk what to do.

I have a friend I’ve been talking to that is long distance however she takes a very long to time respond and I need advice PLEASE