u/Dry_Improvement_4720

I am a 21yo M

I think i m in love with a girl(21) i used to sit with back in my early primary classes....

we were close friend back then but as we moved ahead to senior classes our friendship faded. i hardly remember anything about our friendship.

after 10th our streams changed and we totally lost contact...

she was suggested by insta almost like 2.5 years ago so i followed her but at that time i had no feelings for her...

me mutually followed each other and then when she posted story of her birthday i simply replied happy birthday "...." after that she extened chat with me and we talked about life and career...

even at this time i had no feelings for her

after that we had few conversations during this 2-3 yrs period ocassionally .

i never approached her i never tried to extend chat with her.

whenver we had a chat she always extended it...

i remember i felt something for her like 6 months ago but it was not that intense but this feeling gradually increased...

in april 2026 i finally accepted and realised i am in love with her...

after that i tried to put stories in a way thinking that she might reply on it and i got a reply and i extended chat with her... but i forgot our past chat we had in which we discussed about career etc... so I asked her some questions in reply of which she told me that we already had a chat on these questions...

conversation felt less enthusiastic this time by her side....

in the end i wanted to make her feel special so i replied "nice talking with u, i discussed with a school friend almost after 3 years"

then she replied "well, we had chat previously too but whatever"

this reply using this word "whatever" made me feel so bad...

I think this was so rude from her side as i didnt text her a single word which might make her think i am simping i was just hsowing concern for her career...and after that i tried posting stories on which i was expecting her reply but she didnt reply to any of them after that chat... (usually she doesnt reply to stories and she never likes any story).

btw she is a fan of korean band

To me all this love etc.. were so cringe but recently when i fall into this feeling i feel so bad and good at the same time...

her thoughts are just unstoppable sometimes... not even single day passed without day dreaming about her... my sleep is disturbed tooo...

i started working on my physique and career aggressively hoping she would accept me someday...

but sometimes her thoughts distract me from my schedule...

This one sided shit is making my condition worse day by day...

bs esa lgta h ki use jaake bta dun apni feelings...

I searched my condition over internet and got to know about infatuation and limerence...

but to be honest i am not able to accept that its just an attraction.

but sometimes I doubt that how can i love her when i actually dont know her properly.

Should I stop thinking about any possibilities of us being together(which is close to impossible for me) but i can stop extending chat with her and not replying to any of her story ( she hardly post anything)... or should i try my best to give some meaning to these feelings 💔

Any senior bhaiya or didi please guide me

btw Sorry for any grammatical mistake

I am a 21yo M

I think i m in love with a girl(21) i used to sit with back in my early primary classes....

we were close friend back then but as we moved ahead to senior classes our friendship faded. i hardly remember anything about our friendship.

after 10th our streams changed and we totally lost contact...

she was suggested by insta almost like 2.5 years ago so i followed her but at that time i had no feelings for her...

me mutually followed each other and then when she posted story of her birthday i simply replied happy birthday "...." after that she extened chat with me and we talked about life and career...

even at this time i had no feelings for her

after that we had few conversations during this 2-3 yrs period ocassionally .

i never approached her i never tried to extend chat with her.

whenver we had a chat she always extended it...

i remember i felt something for her like 6 months ago but it was not that intense but this feeling gradually increased...

in april 2026 i finally accepted and realised i am in love with her...

after that i tried to put stories in a way thinking that she might reply on it and i got a reply and i extended chat with her... but i forgot our past chat we had in which we discussed about career etc... so I asked her some questions in reply of which she told me that we already had a chat on these questions...

conversation felt less enthusiastic this time by her side....

in the end i wanted to make her feel special so i replied "nice talking with u, i discussed with a school friend almost after 3 years"

then she replied "well, we had chat previously too but whatever"

this reply using this word "whatever" made me feel so bad...

I think this was so rude from her side as i didnt text her a single word which might make her think i am simping i was just hsowing concern for her career...and after that i tried posting stories on which i was expecting her reply but she didnt reply to any of them after that chat... (usually she doesnt reply to stories and she never likes any story).

btw she is a fan of korean band

To me all this love etc.. were so cringe but recently when i fall into this feeling i feel so bad and good at the same time...

her thoughts are just unstoppable sometimes... not even single day passed without day dreaming about her... my sleep is disturbed tooo...

i started working on my physique and career aggressively hoping she would accept me someday...

but sometimes her thoughts distract me from my schedule...

This one sided shit is making my condition worse day by day...

bs esa lgta h ki use jaake bta dun apni feelings...

I searched my condition over internet and got to know about infatuation and limerence...

but to be honest i am not able to accept that its just an attraction. I lost my lust after this. I am not able to watch p*rn after this kyunki ab mn hi nhin krta. Lust to jese mr si gyi h.

but sometimes I doubt that how can i love her when i actually dont know her properly.

Should I stop thinking about any possibilities of us being together(which is close to impossible for me) but i can stop extending chat with her and not replying to any of her story ( she hardly post anything)... or should i try my best to give some meaning to these feelings 💔

Any senior bhaiya or didi please guide me

btw Sorry for any grammatical mistake

i m 5'4 age 21 M curent wt 78 kg

i am in a deficit of 800 calories

on 30 april : 78.6 kg

5 may : 77 kg

16 may : 77.8 kg

its been 16 days and on 20th may my goal is to reach 76.6 kg

but i dont know what happened after 5 may ...

i am check my wt daily and its not going down than 77.6-78 kg

is there any problem with my metabolism?

preparing for 2028

background

12th : pcm

UG: BA general

interesting subjects : geology, anthroplogy (no prior knowledge of these subjects but i have gone through syllabus and its exciting for me to study such stuff)

i am thinking of choosing anthropology but i read somewher that its saturated because high number of students are choosing this as optional.

please guide me !!

i want a customised haircut that i generated using AI...

how much would they charge and how reliable they are?

21M here...

i am bad at singing but i like to sing i want to level up my vocals...

any suggestions?

Anyone in this sub who have purchased this batch?

i have also purchased this batch...

i got 0 friends...

Is there anyone from the batch who would like to join in with me on telegram or whatsapp?

i just need 1 student with which i can make my journey a little bit exciting.

so plzz reply if u want to have discussion with me and help improve each other .

my current stage of prep : beginner

Expectations:

•improve each others conversation skills.

•help each other

•share what extra thing we r doing beyond lectures and sarthi content

•basic discussions

•if this idea doesnt work well then cutting off politely...

hey ,

1).i am a bike enthusiast and want to do motovlogging in future i dont want to earn money through it.. will do it for passion for bikes and ride culture.

2).i also want to talk about religion , caste, and other society related issues( not politics) to make people aware and increase scientific temperament in indian society basically encouraging people to choose themselves and science over god and religion.

3).i also want to travel world and nature places i am studying in geography and post my lifestyle.

4).i am also a 3d enthusiast and i want to make 3d films related to indian forces and other things too like action films etc

5).i am excited for IFS job too i will prioritise that job ( if i got 🫠) before any other passion.

my priority is to join foreign services but i am also preparing for some other govt officer level job too

i wont be using my government job title to increase engagement.

MY QUERY is:

As there are so many restrictions on a government officer.. would i be able to pursue these interests?

i know 2nd point is likely problematic but what do u guys think about other points?

as govt official, are we supposed to hide our passions and lifestyle?

plzz let me know.

thnku for reading

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Hey everyone, I am planning to appear for the CUET PG Economics exam for MA Economics (DSE), but I am also preparing for UPSC CSE.

I am currently pursuing a BA General 3-year program and am at the end of my 4th semester.

If I prepare Economics at the GS level for Civil Services, how much of that preparation will already be useful for CUET PG Economics?

Also, are PW CUET PG courses good? And for admission into DSE MA Economics, do I only need to appear for the CUET PG Economics paper?

Please guide me 🙏

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want to do something in 3d rendering modelling etc... which premiere institutes of india offer masters course based on this? with good placements and package starting at atleast 12 lakh.

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10th : 88%

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no academic achievements

no co curricular achievements

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