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I’m 28f and my bf is 24m. We’ve been together for 9 months. I asked yesterday what his timeline would be for moving in together. He told me February 2028. His current lease ends in feb of 2027. He is moving buildings and would like to live a new building by himself for a year first. He is also not originally from the area.

This is my first serious relationship and I have never lived with a partner before. I am just curious what the normal timeline is. For some context, I’m currently in between jobs and working a part time job in the meantime. He has a great job. We spend every weekend together, I’ve met all of his family and I’ve been on multiple trips with him. By all standards our relationship seems to be in a great place and he has been nothing but loving, supporting and understanding.

Thank you for any advice!

I’m 28f and my bf is 24m. We’ve been together for 9 months. I asked yesterday what his timeline would be for moving in together. He told me February 2028. His current lease ends in feb of 2027. He is moving buildings and would like to live a new building by himself for a year first. He is also not originally from the area.

This is my first serious relationship and I have never lived with a partner before. I am just curious what the normal timeline is. For some context, I’m currently in between jobs and working a part time job in the meantime. He has a great job. We spend every weekend together, I’ve met all of his family and I’ve been on multiple trips with him. By all standards our relationship seems to be in a great place and he has been nothing but loving, supporting and understanding.

Thank you for any advice!

My boyfriend’s family is flying in from out of town end of August to visit. I just found out yesterday that his mom bought tickets to go to a local baseball game and didn’t buy me one. I feel a little hurt. Boyfriend offered to look for extra tickets to buy me one but I don’t even feel comfortable going now. I told him last night that it was ok but I’m still feeling hurt about it this morning. Not sure if it’s even worth bringing up again.

I met his mom for the first time in May and I had a feeling that maybe she doesn’t like me for whatever reason. Not sure why but this action is just confirming my beliefs. Help

I (27f) am Having a hard time shaking my retroactive jealousy in my current relationship with my bf (24m)

I am having a hard time not comparing myself to my boyfriend’s ex. She seems to have her life together and I was let go from my job of 4 years almost two months ago and trying to find a new one has been really hard. It’s taken a huge toll on my confidence. I feel like I am not good enough. Any advice in how to navigate these feelings? Is this going to affect my relationship in the long run? We have been together for 8months and first started going out nearly a year ago.

We got into a little argument and he told me that I’ve been a shell of myself lately. That hurt and even though he said it over a month ago, I think about that comment almost daily.

I am having a hard time not comparing myself to my boyfriend’s ex. She seems to have her life together and I was let go from my job of 4 years almost two months ago and trying to find a new one has been really hard. It’s taken a huge toll on my confidence. I feel like I am not good enough. Any advice in how to navigate these feelings?

I am having a hard time not comparing myself to my boyfriend’s ex. She seems to have her life together and I was let go from my job of 4 years almost two months ago and trying to find a new one has been really hard. It’s taken a huge toll on my confidence. I feel like I am not good enough. Any advice in how to navigate these feelings?