u/Ecstatic_Luck3772

I didn't think the messages were inappropriate at all, but my boyfriend thinks I was trying to hook up with this old friend. I genuinely don't have the energy to argue about it anymore, so i iust want some unbiased opinions

Here's what happened: My boyfriend had just gotten off work, and I was showing him a recipe on my phone that i was gonna make for dinner, while we were talking. A notification popped up, and he asked, "Who's that?" I told him it was an old friend from high school and gave him the phone to read the messages. I'm 21 now and it's been about five years since I've seen this old friend. Everv once in a while I'II reply to one of his stories and he'll do the same with mine. That's literallv the extent of it. I want to fix this.

-Also iust to add cause I posted this in another thread the friend im talking about in the screenshots is a lovely girl and we never made her do anything, and the guy in the screenshot msg wasnt actually upset ( i thought he was, but he was joking) just for clarification-

TL;DR My bovfriend says that's inappropriate, but I honestly didn't see it that way. What do you think?

I didn't think the messages were inappropriate at all, but my boyfriend thinks I was trying to hook up with him. I genuinely don't have the energy to argue about it anymore, so I just want some unbiased opinions.

Here's what happened: My boyfriend had just gotten off work, and I was showing him a recipe while we were talking. A notification popped up, and he asked, "Who's that?" I told him it was an old friend from high school and gave him the phone to read the messages. I'm 21 now, and it's been about five years since I've seen this old friend. Every once in a while I'll reply to one of his stories, and he'll do the same with mine. That's the extent of it.

TL;DR My boyfriend says that's inappropriate, but I honestly didn't see it that way. What do you think?

I pulled up to the pump, put $20 in gas, got back in my car, and drove about a block. On my way to go fishing, I checked my bank account to see if I had enough money left for bait. That's when I noticed the transaction that should have been $20 was showing as $126.

I immediately turned around and went back to the gas station. The pump was still showing my $20 transaction. I went inside and told the cashier—a young man—that I had just made a $20 purchase, but my account had been charged $126.

He mumbled the entire time, wouldn't look me in the eye, asked what pump I was on, and told me to come back for the money. I kept asking him to speak up because I couldn't understand him. He pressed a few buttons on the register, and suddenly I got a notification on my phone. The charge changed from $126 back to $20.

Before I went inside, I had refreshed my banking app at least five times, and it consistently showed $126. It wasn't until after he did something at the register that it corrected itself. Maybe it was just a mistake or a temporary authorization issue, but the timing felt really suspicious. I got my money back, so everything worked out, but the whole situation left a bad feeling.

We were at a watch party world cup Columbia, and he bought me some food—an empanada that cost about $7. It had pickles in it, and honestly, it was gross as hell. I didn't want to make a big deal out of it, so I quietly set it beside me and planned to throw it away later. But then he asked if he could have a bite and got upset when he realized I'd only taken one bite. Fair enough, I guess. I offered to pay him back, but he didn't want me to.

A little later, he said we should start walking around. We got up, and he started heading toward the exit. I asked if we were leaving because I thought we were just going to walk around the event. He said yes, and when I asked why, he told me it was because I seemed like I wasn't enjoying myself and looked uncomfortable.

I stopped, looked at him, and said, "What? No, I'm fine. Let's go back." Instead, he kept walking to the car looking irritated. I turned around and went back to the watch party to watch the game. That's when the text started.

Also, random question. I saw a bunch of couples wearing Colombia jerseys together. He had just bought one for himself that day, but he told me that if I got one too, I'd be a "pick me." I didn't really understand that. I just thought it'd be cute to match with him. I don't even post on social media or anything. Im white af hes cuban/Colombian

So... am I the asshole?

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Please help lol 😆