What is this weird rash on my arm? No pain, not itchy, haven't scratched it. Noticed it when I took my jumper off. Nerve pain in lower arm.

What is this weird rash on my arm? No pain, not itchy, haven't scratched it. Noticed it when I took my jumper off. Nerve pain in lower arm.

Wondering what this might be? It appeared randomly on my right arm, along with nerve pain (which I experience regularly but don't know the cause of) in the lower forearm which feels like air on burned skin, however on the rash itself I don't have any pain or itching. I'm used to having rashes (urticaria and demographic) and allergies, but never anything like this. Doesn't fade under glass. I also started recently bruising more than normal.

Haven't done anything out of the ordinary today

I have food intolerances but not allergies.

Medications - Mounjaro.

Other symptoms in past few days - headaches/pain behind eyes, extreme tiredness.

u/Emergency-External98 — 16 hours ago

UK/NHS Just got my first appointment through, but I've lost alot of weight in the interim using glp1 - will I get kicked off the list?!

My starting BMI was 36, went onto weight management programme a few years ago and asked to be put onto the waiting list for bariatric.

In the interim period, I started using Mounjaro and lost 3st11 (22kg) making my new BMI 29.6.

I am from a high risk ethnicity, so I know that affects the "allowed" BMI but I'm getting mixed results when I look up whether they are likely to accept me for bariatric - some say no, others say yes because they use the original BMI at the start of my weight management referral.

Obviously Mounjaro is insanely expensive so I can't keep this up forever, so bariatric was always my preferred option, but I don't know if they will accept me or not?

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u/Emergency-External98 — 7 days ago

UK/NHS Just got my first appointment through, but I've lost alot of weight in the interim using glp1 - will I get kicked off the list?!

My starting BMI was 36, went onto weight management programme a few years ago and asked to be put onto the waiting list for bariatric.

In the interim period, I started using Mounjaro and lost 3st11 (22kg) making my new BMI 29.6.

I am from a high risk ethnicity, so I know that affects the "allowed" BMI but I'm getting mixed results when I look up whether they are likely to accept me for bariatric - some say no, others say yes because they use the original BMI at the start of my weight management referral.

Obviously Mounjaro is insanely expensive so I can't keep this up forever, so bariatric was always my preferred option, but I don't know if they will accept me or not?

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u/Emergency-External98 — 7 days ago
▲ 1 r/UNpath

Human Rights and Diplomacy - what do you do as a job and what do you love/hate about it?

I am considering a Masters in Human Rights and Diplomacy at Stirling University in Scotland. My background is in third sector work and have just completed a first class honours in Community Learning and Development.

Having looked at various Masters programmes, this one is the only one that I felt a spark of excitement with. However, I wondered realistically what my career prospects might be with such a Masters under my belt?

I would of course love to apply for every voluntary and internship opportunity that comes with this programme.

So, if you work in humans rights and/or diplomacy - what do you do exactly? And what do you love/hate about it? Plus any other tips or ideas.

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u/Emergency-External98 — 12 days ago
▲ 111 r/Chihuahua

Harness advice for UK based a tiny potato houdini! (Plus scary story time 😭)

So I have been looking after these two absolute babes for my best friend whilst she is away, and let me tell you - it didn't start well 🤣

My friend handed me the leads, and off she went in a taxi. The tiny, white, potato shaped cutie, let's call her 'houdini' absolutely refused to move. So, I picked her up and walked the 10 minutes back to my home, which incidentally, is in the city centre.

I decided to pop her down on the grass outside my apartment, in our open shared garden, so that she could pee. About 1 minute later, Houdini yanked herself back so hard that she escaped her harness, and gave me this look which I will NEVER forget, and then just turned, and RAN.

She quickly got up to a speed that I couldn't keep up with, who knew tiny chihuahuas could run so fast?!!! I even shouted to a runner up ahead who tried to keep up with her and failed. She disappeared, over one of the most densely populated roads in my entire country, and was gone.

I had to call my friend, who was understandably, hysterical. I ran around frantically asking everyone if they had seen a tiny white dog. My sister put posts on every local Facebook group - it was the most terrifying hour of my LIFE.

Then somehow, a miracle - a man, on a skateboard, who had previous chihuahua wrangling experience, managed to catch her! She was safe, unharmed, and we collected her from a pub nearby where she was delighting all the patrons with her tale of escape.

My friend said, she could not go away now. I convinced her, given how much she needed to go, that I could look after them at her house, carrying houdini back and forth to the enclosed garden, which she agreed to. It's been fine for this couple of days, houdini is so small she doesn't seem to mind pottering about in the garden, and I've taken the foxy one for solo walks as he's a bit bigger and wants more exercise. I've also had the BEST time with them, having recently lost my own dog, being around them has been so healing for my heart ❤️

So, I think we need to get Houdini a better, fitted harness, incase I (or anyone else) ever needs to look after them again - because occasionally dog free time is needed, and emergencies do happen. This way, we can test it out while my friend is here so that even if Houdini does get out, she won't run off 🤣

The problem is she is so small, and also shaped very much like a potato, so she can get out of almost every harness or collar my friend has tried so far. So we need some UK recommendations for tiny, potato houdinis please!

u/Emergency-External98 — 27 days ago

Lush lip balm - changed recipe and very upset sister - help!

Hello all! My sister has used the lush lip service lip balm for many many years but she just went to buy a new one and they have changed the recipe!

My sister is autistic and doesn't cope well with change, so this is very traumatic for her. She uses lip balm every day, multiple times a day, she keeps lip balm with her at all times because she gets upset if she doesn't have it.

Is there any way to buy the old stuff (based in UK) or is there a recipe for the old one I could make?!

Please help!

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u/Emergency-External98 — 1 month ago

What are the benefits of doing a masters?

I am just about to finish my honours year in community learning and development. My dissertation supervisor said that I should consider publishing my findings in a journal, and that I should seriously consider doing a masters as the work I have done for this dissertation is at masters level already.

What would you say are the benefits to doing a masters from your experience?

The main thing I can think of is that if I do a masters in an adjacent subject such as social research or policy, it could increase my scope of employment?

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u/Emergency-External98 — 3 months ago

Should I do a masters, what are the benefits?

I am just about to finish my honours year in community development. My dissertation supervisor said that I should consider publishing my findings in a journal, and that I should seriously consider doing a masters as the work I have done for this dissertation is at masters level already.

What would you say are the benefits to doing a masters from your experience?

The main thing I can think of is that if I do a masters in an adjacent subject such as social research or policy, it could increase my scope of employment?

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u/Emergency-External98 — 3 months ago

Recommend a safe camping stove (UK)

I have had a number of pocket/jet boil type stoves but had two very scary experiences with them where there has been a fault either with the canister or the stove, where gas has leaked whilst it was on, covering the entire canister in flames whilst I had to try to put it out before it blew up!

The guy in the army store said I've just somehow been incredibly unlucky, but I can't use that type of stove now as I'm too scared of blowing my face/hands off.

I was looking at these types of stoves, does anyone have a brand or model to recommend or any other type of stove that isn't as scary as the pocket stove?!

u/Emergency-External98 — 3 months ago
▲ 2 r/hiking

Recommendations for women's hiking sandals for extra wide feet?!

I have low arches, extra wide feet..kinda like a hobbit I guess, so if anyone can recommend a good all terrain hobbit hiking sandal that would be brilliant!

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u/Emergency-External98 — 3 months ago

What are these things on my cheeks, they are causing scarring.

I keep getting these patches, red and itchy/scaly bumps, the last one lasted 3+ weeks and left a scar. I tried using a steroid cream, eurax cream and silicone patches but nothing seemed to improve it.

I do have scaly patches on my arms which the doctor said is discoid excema but they don't get red like this and they clear up with steroids.

u/Emergency-External98 — 3 months ago

I am allergic to the budgies I accidentally had to adopt - they came to live with me for a few weeks but I ended keeping them as they weren't being looked after. I have been advised by other budgie enthusiasts that they use air purifiers which are helpful.

I just got a voucher from John Lewis so I have to buy it from there.

Cannot be ionising as that would kill the budgies.

Just for the living room which is a very average sized new build.

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u/Emergency-External98 — 3 months ago

I rescued two budgies from a bad situation and have been bringing them back to good health, but have since discovered I'm really allergic to them, so need to find them a new home ASAP. Looking for recommendations of bird rescue charities in Edinburgh who will take them and re-home them. I will not give them to an individual person as one of them has more complicated needs, so please don't message me - I want them to go through a rescue place who will do home checks etc.

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u/Emergency-External98 — 4 months ago
▲ 53 r/Advice

I'm turning 40 this year, and I'm (hopefully) graduating university. In a moment of madness I thought, I'll have a party!!! I never had a big birthday party, not for my 18th, 21st or 30th and going to uni, and finishing uni is a huge deal for me as I never thought I'd be "that person" having left school at 14. I really wanted to make this birthday special.

Side note, I don't think I can change the date because people are coming from all over the world and have already booked travel and accommodation, it's also that date because my sister who lives far away is having a baby the month after so I wanted to accommodate her so she could still come.

I booked a venue, invited about 40 people..but then life has completely got in the way. My mum has been really ill and has required alot more support both physically and emotionally, my dog got cancer and has been slowly getting worse, he is being put to sleep on Monday. My own health has been worse as a result. All of these things have meant that my dissertation has taken a knock, and I'm now trying to finish it on an extenuating circumstances extension which takes me to the week after the party date.

I went to my friend's party the other day, and there were groups of people who knew each other - I had this horrible moment of realisation, that whilst I know loads of people - none of them really know each other! This could be an awkward disaster!

I haven't sorted food, drinks, entertainment, decorations..I don't have anyone to help me, can't afford a party planner, and I'm running out of time with just a month to go. The venue I picked is literally a (really lovely) big room with it's own kitchen, which I did as I wanted something accessible and not too "pubby" coz I don't drink..but that seems like a big mistake now.

Should I just cancel the whole thing? I don't want to host a party only for it to be a total flop, that would be worse than doing nothing. I just feel so sad that this year, instead of feeling like a big celebration, has just been filled with grief and stress. I feel really stupid for trying to put myself out there 😔

Or should I try to save it? Any tips on making a party come together, how to encourage people who don't know each other have fun?! Or ideas on what to do instead, given I've got people coming from all over the world I'd feel really bad letting them down.

What would you do? I feel like I'm drowning without a life raft here!!

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u/Emergency-External98 — 4 months ago