u/EmergencyIll7160

Guys I'm (22F) going crazy idk wtf is my problem. Dated a guy (23M) 3 times on and off in 1 year. He left all times first due to not ready for relationship, 2nd time can't date someone who's expecting a relationship tho we agreed to just date since he didn't want relationship for next 5 years and thinks it's for marriage only. 3rd time just talking and hanging out for a month. Took him all the times bcz i was too anxious. He showed all his toxicity about commitment (was good at texting tho) and gave me so much anxiety.

After he left 3rd time saying it's his mindfuck and he doesn't wanna go to hell, he started dating someone else (19F) just after (like no gap at all).....not that girl got public profile not like she's too pretty or smth but idk she's trying to be content creator and has a lot of friends specially males.....now i keep stalking her and checking her stories like crazy if they're serious or casual while they guy played with me. I don't have any friends or hobby and my whole day revolved around him so now I feel more anxious to the point that I can bear seeing him with her and want him back knowing my past

Also that girl started posting him on his story like hiding face and all just after 20 days of NC with me which is crazy, my mutual says he started dating her after me only but idk i feel like he already started talking but again not sure......and I was a private person, I never posted him so seeing him being okay with her posting him drives me crazy......and also he told me he never comments on his girl's post and he commented ✨️ this on one of her post. These small details gives me anxiety.....even the lyrics she chooses for the story gives anxiety.....I don't follow him so idk if he's reposting or what's going on from his side. What do you guys think???? I just don't want him to be serious if he told all that bullshit to me!!!

Wtf is my problem!!!!

Guys I'm (22F) going crazy idk wtf is my problem. Dated a guy (23M) 3 times on and off in 1 year. He left all times first due to not ready for relationship, 2nd time can't date someone who's expecting a relationship tho we agreed to just date since he didn't want relationship for next 5 years and thinks it's for marriage only. 3rd time just talking and hanging out for a month. Took him all the times bcz i was too anxious. He showed all his toxicity about commitment (was good at texting tho) and gave me so much anxiety.

After he left 3rd time saying it's his mindfuck and he doesn't wanna go to hell, he started dating someone else (19F) just after (like no gap at all).....not that girl got public profile not like she's too pretty or smth but idk she's trying to be content creator and has a lot of friends specially males.....now i keep stalking her and checking her stories like crazy if they're serious or casual while they guy played with me. I don't have any friends or hobby and my whole day revolved around him so now I feel more anxious to the point that I can bear seeing him with her and want him back knowing my past

Also that girl started posting him on his story like hiding face and all just after 20 days of NC with me which is crazy, my mutual says he started dating her after me only but idk i feel like he already started talking but again not sure......and I was a private person, I never posted him so seeing him being okay with her posting him drives me crazy......and also he told me he never comments on his girl's post and he commented ✨️ this on one of her post. These small details gives me anxiety.....even the lyrics she chooses for the story gives anxiety.....I don't follow him so idk if he's reposting or what's going on from his side. What do you guys think???? I just don't want him to be serious if he told all that bullshit to me!!!

Guys I'm going crazy idk wtf is my problem. Dated a guy 3 times on and off in 1 year. He left all times first due to not ready for relationship, 2nd time can't date someone who's expecting a relationship tho we agreed to just date since he didn't want relationship for next 5 years and thinks it's for marriage only. 3rd time just talking and hanging out for a month. Took him all the times bcz i was too anxious. He showed all his toxicity about commitment (was good at texting tho) and gave me so much anxiety.

After he left 3rd time saying it's his mindfuck and he doesn't wanna go to hell, he started dating someone else just after (like no gap at all).....now that girl got public profile not like she's too pretty or smth but idk she's trying to be content creator and has a lot of friends specially males.....now i keep stalking her and checking her stories like crazy if they're serious or casual while they guy played with me. I don't have any friends or hobby and my whole day revolved around him so now I feel more anxious to the point that I can bear seeing him with her and want him back knowing my past

Also that girl started posting him on his story like hiding face and all just after 20 days of NC with me which is crazy, my mutual says he started dating her after me only but idk i feel like he already started talking but again not sure......and I was a private person, I never posted him so seeing him being okay with her posting him drives me crazy......and also he told me he never comments on his girl's post and he commented ✨️ this on one of her post. These small details gives me anxiety.....even the lyrics she chooses for the story gives anxiety.....I don't follow him so idk if he's reposting or what's going on from his side. What do you guys think???? I just don't want him to be serious if he told all that bullshit to me!!!

Hey guys,

So I gave an interview for a new grad junior Accounting position and they invited me for the second interview. Now they know that I work in a restaurant currently. They asked about my availability and my fixed day off is on Monday and other off day keeps changing. So I told them it's Monday and Tuesday/Wednesday. I'm expecting to get my schedule tonight or tomorrow and will confirm about Tuesday or Wednesday if Monday doesn't work for them. I haven't received any reply yet tho I sent the email at 5:15 pm on Thursday. I just didn't want to wait for the schedule and look like someone who delays the emails. I still haven't received the schedule but I'll email again as soon as I get it. Do you think I messed up and they'll ghost me because of this considering they already knew I'm working someone. Is it normal or I messed up?

Hey guys, I have been taking therapy sessions since 4 months. My old friend from high school recommended her to me who herself is doing psychology. My therapist has so many years of experience and has worked with NGOs and she has her own clinic since so many years. My friend personally said she's a very good therapist.

Now for the context, When I started therapy I was going through a very short term relationship breakup that happened 6 months before the therapy but still I was getting worse each day, started getting anxiety issues and didn't feel like dressing up or doing anything. Now in past 4 months a lot of things happened like he came back again and left again and all etc. Long story short I as a person have evolved now and it's not because of the therapy at all. I just don't like him anymore.....But it's not about him...it's a pattern ofc

Now my therapist told me first 4 sessions are get to know you and then she'll start her therapy. But in every session, I am the one who's ranting and she keeps taking notes. She hears nicely and engages in the conversation, try to dig deep about my childhood and where it's coming from but she doesn't give me any advice yk...At this point I feel like maybe I don't need therapy from anyone at all....But since I am in Canada right now and I am taking therapy from someone back home so It's only 15 dollars per session and I don't mind that.

Main Question: Is that how therapy works? It is just ranting? When will the actual therapy start?

Hey guys,

I graduated 2 months back from Seneca with bachelor's in Accounting and Finance, did 6 months audit and tax co-op at a CPA firm.....now I've been continuously applying to jobs but not getting any response....and I've reached a point where I don't even see entry level jobs anymore on Indeed, never got any response from LinkedIn easy apply. I checked company websites too but no jobs posting in big 6 for new grad right now. I feel so lost and I ended up buying IFIC banking course in hope I might get job in banking (still preparing, haven't booked the exam yet)....please suggest something if someone was in the same position as me and you graduated recently!!!! I really don't know what to do know

Also, I've been thinking to apply for PR ofc so not looking for any AP/AR jobs since it's teer 4 and not eligible.....i really don't wanna get those positions just to get stuck in that for 1 year or so....ykwim

Hey guys, recently graduated from Accounting and Finance bachelor's from Seneca. I have 6 months public Accounting co-op experience as well. I've been applying to jobs since 2 months but no job yet. Although I did get interviews but I'm not interested in some bcz of teer and I got rejection from some places. Purchased IFIC with the goal of getting a job as Personal Banker that's qualified for FSW/CEC. Just wanted to ask if anyone recently landed job after completing IFIC? I've just Purchased the course but not given exam yet. Someone gave me their reference over LinkedIn. She works at Scotiabank as senior Personal banker. Idk if that would help me. I'm so tensed at this point. I don't want any job that doesn't qualify for PR since I'm already working at a restaurant so it's not about expenses....

TDLR: Did anyone land a job as personal banker or a job qualified for CEC/FSW after completing IFIC or is the current market too bad to land a job even after that?

Hey guys, recently graduated from Accounting and Finance bachelor's from Seneca. I have 6 months public Accounting co-op experience as well. I've been applying to jobs since 2 months but no job yet. Although I did get interviews but I'm not interested in some bcz of teer and I got rejection from some places. Purchased IFIC with the goal of getting a job as Personal Banker that's qualified for FSW/CEC. Just wanted to ask if anyone recently landed job after completing IFIC? I've just Purchased the course but not given exam yet. Someone gave me their reference over LinkedIn. She works at Scotiabank as senior Personal banker. Idk if that would help me. I'm so tensed at this point. I don't want any job that doesn't qualify for PR since I'm already working at a restaurant so it's not about expenses....

TDLR: Did anyone land a job as personal banker or a job qualified for CEC/FSW after completing IFIC or is the current market too bad to land a job even after that?

Hey guys, 21F here, height 5'1 and weight 38.....I'm very skinny but my body doesn't look like I'm 38kgs, looks like atleast 45kgs....my breast size is good according to my body but my body is so small in general and I'm skinny as well......arms are skinny and my main insecurity is my legsss and ass....my legs literally looks like sticks. I don't wear any shorts bcoz of that. I don't have any thighs or calves and my lower waist bone is same as my upper waist that makes me look straight instead of curvy shape......I know those calorie surplus things but please tell me anything you did that worked wonders for you......bcz my diet has always been good and ik the concept of calorie surplus but I never gained weight, I've always been skinny.

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PLS HELP!!!!!