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Just wow. This chick is seriously deluded. I’ve never seen such a big ass kisser in all of reality TV!? So she willingly missed the birth of her child and supporting her wife to- be with Stassi. Was it just to film HOS? It doesn’t seem like the Netflix deal with happening live during filming HOS. She stayed back to film a scene with Stassi in bed eating charcuterie and assuring her she could do no wrong?

Also- the fact that Stassi didn’t TELL her to go be with your wife just shows how much of a narcissist she is. These people are insane and I can’t stop watching. I think she wants to wear Stassi’s skin and Stassi lowkey loves that

I feel bad for Teddy and she rightfully seemed disturbed by Taylor’s reasoning and staying back. Soo weird

Does she hate him? They both seem so vacant of any love it’s scary. Is beau on something or just dead inside? They seemed happily together on social media but it’s too humiliating to be staged. Stassi is so up her own ass maybe he’s just been drained through the years of it

Also—- this show feels like someone made a parody about the most insufferable group of friends in LA

I have a regular client who is getting married soon and I’ll be sitting during that entire weekend for them wondering if there’s anything like a sweet gesture I could do or leave there after my last drop in maybe as a small wedding gift or just something sweet I guess homemade baked goods are difficult because some people don’t like eating homemade food or might worry about illness. Any thoughts?

Sometimes I wonder if it was Hannah who made things weird for a bit, Scamanda, Aging out of it etc. Are there still a few good years left?

i’ve been using this guy from Rover to check in on my cats the last two times I’ve been out of town. He’s been awesome with last-minute modifications and requests and usually sends a bunch of photos.

However, this past time he checked in I noticed in one of the photos that he was wearing shoes on the carpet and some of the photos were from my bedroom closer towards the back of the room of one of my cats, but this is the cat who follows everyone around and just want those pets so if the sitter was in the living room, the cat probably would’ve been there and if not, I have another cat who would’ve as well so I don’t really see the reason why he was all the way in my bedroom. Also what looked like dirt or very dried up puke (my one cat sometimes pukes after eating too fast) was caked in a few spots on the carpet ?

I also had a weighted blanket draped across my bed when I left and I came back and it was laid out on the floor, which is really odd because my cats wouldn’t been able to move a 30 pound weighted blanket off so I have a feeling he moved it, but I have no idea why.

Also, his status updates sound like AI and copy and pasted it from each day before basically. I’m also a sitter on Rover so I think a lot of this just sat weird with me because I would never go into clients bedroom unless there is a specific need for the pet instructions. Or wear my shoes inside.

This is more of a vent sorry it’s long and a bit heavy (still can’t wait to see the forest the first time!!)

sometimes i feel like the group i’ve been going to fests with and camping with have sometimes contributed to my anxiety. they always want to stay up until 8am the next day 4 days in a row and if i go back earlier they tease me a bit and seem kinda annoyed. i also feel more lame if im not doing as much to keep myself awake. sometimes i feel judged i don’t know why, if im being awkward or not dancing as much or in a strange way. it i’m being outgoing enough. it’s complicated i don’t know, maybe its just my own anxieties telling me that:

i already get anxious and overstimulated while camping and at fests, so my anxiety seems to be getting worse and worse. ugh any tips? i’m worried about having panic attacks or feeling stuck.

I’ve known this guy for about two years in a mutual friend group and we hooked up a few weeks ago drunk while we were all hanging out and he followed up for days afterwards talking and wanting to do it again, and I sort of said that I wasn’t sure if I was ready to hook up again soon because of just getting out of a previous relationship.

We hadn’t talked for about a week but a few days ago I sent him a text saying something really casual like “I hope you’re doing well and wish you could’ve made it” since our other friends were all there and he just never responded and I feel completely stupid.

I know logically some things in happen in life like going through a tragic time or an emergency that makes people not be on their phone much but he’s still posting regularly on social media & responding in our friends group chat so he’s just specifically ignoring me. He was enthusiastic during and after the hookup. I was just looking to be friends but keep the attraction, same with him from what he told me.

It just fucking hurts after getting intimate with someone and feeling even more vulnerable and embarrassed and then they don’t even treat you like a person or friend. Especially since he will be around in future group settings and he knows that too so I don’t know why make it more weird than it needs to be. I almost wouldn’t care as much if it was just a random hook up and could just never see them again. Now I just feel like I look dumb.

So humiliating

To preface Kyle and Amanda have always been a toxic mess of a couple and never should’ve gotten married or to this place in general.

That dinner it was definitely out of line for Lindsey to step in and start analyzing their relationship in front of the entire table. You can see Kyle losing his shit by the second because of all the other stress piling up, and honestly the way Amanda treated him last summer was diabolical. Sorry i’ll say it she truly had given up on them and he knew it, but she would say just enough to keep him back there trying while also messing with his head.

He was never an amazing partner either, but she genuinely could not care less about him and it was so obvious. And he would try to tell people that and everyone was just ignoring him and making him out to be the problem and his DJ career.

At the dinner, you can see her giving him sarcastic smiles, and looks as he’s getting closer to losing it and I believe that that’s why he said “FU” because she was basically agreeing with everyone who is shitting on him. She’s never once had his back and defended him or even had an ounce of empathy for what he’s dealing with financially (her not even paying rent??)

Now I’m not excusing him saying that because I don’t think anyone should say that to their partner much less a man to his woman, but she knew and wanted that reaction out of him.

It just goes to show how selfish and immature she is and always has been. She wants to look like the victim in the marriage and she honestly would’ve done a great job if she hadn’t gone and blew up her life and reputation for a sex pest dime a dozen NYC fboy who looks like a mix of ms doubt fire and an overgrown rat (who is probably already bored of her) the second hand embarrassment is crazy lol

my boyfriend of 7 months was meeting my high school friends for the first time. they came from out of state five hours away so I was hosting them for the weekend.

My boyfriend stayed at my place the entire time (except the sunday he had work) even while my friends were napping and I was taking a nap. Even after I told him I wanted to prioritize my time with them due to last visit I was with an awful emotionally abusive ex that ruined it for us.

Really more annoying because he already was annoyed at me, but yet didn’t want to leave so added unnecessary stress when he knew i was already high anxiety.

My one friend took a shower and walked into my bedroom with just a towel on because all of their luggage was in my room for them to change and have a spot.

I guess my boyfriend was laying on my bed on his phone and not catching the hint to get out of the room since she’s clearly in a towel and wants to change and she told him to leave the room. It might’ve not been the most nicest soft way to say it, but I think she really was just like “uhh can you leave?” His response to her was “uh ask me nicer?” and he got angry at her tone.

I didn’t hear this at all until my friends told me this weekend and I am absolutely mortified that he would talk to my friend and a guest like this the first time meeting them. It made her uncomfortable and they don’t really like him also due to other things he said/did.

tl;dr: boyfriend scolded my friends tone with him the first time meeting them, among other rude and controlling comments and now they don’t like him at all.

my boyfriend of 7 months was meeting my high school friends for the first time. they came from out of state five hours away so I was hosting them for the weekend.

First of all, my boyfriend and I were already kind of rocky because he kept claiming I didn’t want him there because I wasn’t sure which time to invite him to happy hour yet or what exactly we were doing. My friends and I are more the type to plan in person once they got there and I kept telling him that. So anyway, I feel like the whole weekend he was already in a bad mood. He did a lot of other controlling things that weekend to me that I hadn’t seen yet and I feel like he was just feeling really insecure.

My boyfriend stayed at my place the entire time (except the sunday he had work) even while my friends were napping and I was taking a nap. Even after I told him I wanted to prioritize my time with them due to last visit I was with an awful emotionally abusive ex that ruined it for us.

Really more annoying because he already was annoyed at me, but yet didn’t want to leave so added unnecessary stress when he knew i was already high anxiety.

My one friend took a shower and walked into my bedroom with just a towel on because all of their luggage was in my room for them to change and have a spot.

I guess my boyfriend was laying on my bed on his phone and not catching the hint to get out of the room since she’s clearly in a towel and wants to change and she told him to leave the room. It might’ve not been the most nicest soft way to say it, but I think she really was just like “uhh can you leave?” His response to her was “uh ask me nicer?” and he got angry at her tone.

I didn’t hear this at all until my friends told me this weekend and I am absolutely mortified that he would talk to my friend and a guest like this the first time meeting them. It made her uncomfortable and they don’t really like him also due to other things he said/did.

tl;dr: boyfriend scolded my friends tone with him the first time meeting them, among other rude and controlling comments and now they don’t like him at all.

i’m watching season eight now where Lexi and Jesse have been exclusive for like two weeks so I get that they’re not super serious and it is the summer house after all, but his flirting with Ciara and the fact that she went along with it is super strange when everyone is claiming that she and Paige are such girls girls.

She low-key rolled her eyes and looked weirded out and mad Lexi brought their flirting (while she was gone that weekend ofc) up in front of all the girls, too, which was kind of rude honestly. I feel like she’s just really standoffish to new girls especially and it’s a bit offputting.

I mean, I still don’t think she deserved what Amanda West did, but I just feel like she’s not this warm girls girl that everyone seems to make her out to be.

This is a really uncomfortable thing that I’ve noticed lately. I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (30) for 8 months now. Throughout the course of our relationship, he has said or done some offputting things that I sort of brushed off because he’s genuinely such a sweet guy. I know that’s a cliché. Oh, but he’s such a good guy. He is very thoughtful and giving, and his love language is acts of service and he does things without even asking and very in love with me.

Some of the red flags/ possessive moments:
\-he got a bit aggressive with a guy who came up platonically for 10 seconds. claims “of course he just wanted to f* you)
\-he said that he wishes he could slap his ex and her best friend (full quote “I wish i could slap that b****”) was one of the more shocking recent ones.
\-he’s refers to gorgeous celebrity women and “jokes” about how they have perfect bodies. Still pulls these jokes when he knows they make me upset and then puts the blame on me for getting sad.
\-got angry/ moody at me for not giving him my every move when my friends were in town (the 3 hours he wasn’t there)
\-Has jokingly slapped my face while just laying in bed…like a slow, not full follow-through, but will go and put his hand on my cheek in an abrupt sharp way
\-he has also slapped me lighting during sex without prior conversation or warning. I’ve told him both things make me uncomfortable.

Overall he’s just really giving me the ick lately and he seems possessive and just too insecure for my liking. He also seems to be really lustful himself towards celebrities and gorgeous women so I don’t know where he gets off on trying to control what I do.

I don’t know for certain if he would ever be violent towards me if I broke up with him, but now I’m starting to worry about what his true thoughts that go on in his head are. I don’t know if I should break up with him, especially of course, awful timing. Given his birthday is in a few weeks and I’d feel bad breaking his heart before then.

tl;dr: My (27F) boyfriend (30) lately has been saying and doing things that make me uncomfortable pertaining to violence against women and his ex and also overly objectifying women and myself. I think I should break up with him, but I don’t know for sure or how to do it.

This is a really uncomfortable thing that I’ve noticed lately. I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (30) for 8 months now. Throughout the course of our relationship, he has said or done some offputting things that I sort of brushed off because he’s genuinely such a sweet guy. I know that’s a cliché. Oh, but he’s such a good guy. He is very thoughtful and giving, and his love language is acts of service and he does things without even asking and very in love with me.

Some of the red flags/ possessive moments:
-he got a bit aggressive with a guy who came up to ask about my visible tattoo. Meanwhile, he works as a bartender? claims “of course he just wanted to f*** you)
-he said that he wishes he could slap his ex and her best friend (full quote “I wish i could slap that bitch”) was one of the more shocking recent ones.
-he’s refers to gorgeous celebrity women and “jokes” about how they have perfect bodies. Still pulls these jokes when he knows they make me upset and then puts the blame on me for getting sad.
-got angry/ moody at me for not giving him my every move when my friends were in town (the 3 hours he wasn’t there)
-Has jokingly slapped my face while just laying in bed…like a slow, not full follow-through, but will go and put his hand on my cheek in an abrupt sharp way
-he has also slapped me lighting during sex without prior conversation or warning. I’ve told him both things make me uncomfortable.
-this is a more random one that sort of raised my internal red flags was he wants me to wear pigtails and suck on a lollipop while “bouncing on” him during the deed- is that not weird?! giving little girl vibes

Overall he’s just really giving me the ick lately and he seems possessive and just too insecure for my liking. He also seems to be really lustful himself towards celebrities and gorgeous women so I don’t know where he gets off on trying to control what I do.

I don’t know for certain if he would ever be violent towards me if I broke up with him, but now I’m starting to worry about what his true thoughts that go on in his head are. I don’t know if I should break up with him, especially of course, awful timing. Given his birthday is in a few weeks and I’d feel bad breaking his heart before then.

tl;dr: My (27F) boyfriend (30) lately has been saying and doing things that make me uncomfortable pertaining to violence against women and his ex and also overly objectifying women and myself. I think I should break up with him, but I don’t know for sure or how to do it.

Expose yourselves lol

I’m on season 8 where they’re prepping to get married. Lindsey accusing him of not being sober was insane! Really bad spot to be in before marriage. I wonder if they were truly in love or if it was more of a long-time friend love and they thought it made the most sense, then couldn’t stand each other once they were actually in it and doing it. The convo with his parents was so cringe lol