u/Ezra_has_perished

Hello! I hope this is the right place to post this and if it isn’t just let me know. I’m not someone who is technically a part of the Lolita fashion community but while shopping for wedding dresses I keep finding myself on Lolita dress websites and all of my favorites have been from what look like Lolita brands. My issue though is I’m not sure if I trust any of these websites, the dresses are priced for way cheaper than I feel like a dress should be for that much detail. And I don’t want the dress to feel costumey or to have cheap feeling/looking fabrics. I also want to be able to get some parts of the dress tailored but I know that’s a bigger ask and I’ll probably have to find a local tailored rather than a website that does customizations for the dresses. But what websites or brands would yall recommend for a wedding dress like this? I just want to feel and look like an angelic princess 💖(minor edit. My fiancée and I are having a micro wedding so almost all of the budget is going towards our dresses, I don’t have a specific number but I’m definitely willing to spend more for the dress I want!)

Quick edit: just want to say thank you to everyone!! This has been super helpful and i really appreciate everyone’s advice and suggestions 💖💖

I’ve been a professional baker for nearly 5 years now, baking has been my special interest for as long as I can remember and it’s something I’ve put my everything into. I already don’t like change and I’ve gotten myself very comfortable at my job and I do not want to leave, but unfortunately do to my physical health declining (I got diagnosed with heds 2 ish years ago after my symptoms took a steep decline after I got covid) I think I need to find a less physical job. I’ve had 2 physical therapist at this point suggest I look into a different career but i literally can not think of a single job I want to do or could even do. Besides baking being my special interest it’s also been one of the most accessible jobs for me (until my health got worse) do to my sever dyslexia adhd and autism and I’m not sure if their is another job out there that checks all those boxes. Everything that’s dyslexia friendly is physicall labor and everything that’s not requires people skills that I just don’t have. I don’t have a lot of work experience outside of the restaurant industry and I never went to college do to how much I struggled in high school and because I thought I’d be cooking for the rest of my working life. I know similar issues arnt uncommon with other autistic folks so what do yall do for work..?

Wedding dress help?