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For me finding people I truly connect to that also put in effort feels like gambling 24/7.

My ex friend said they cared about racism and homophobia ,but cared less for gay ppl since it wasnt their priority. I think its fair emotionally ,but logically you can care for both equally. I think its rude to say u care less ab sm1s issues ,and selfish. He only cares most about the issues that affect him directly, when other minority’s experience similar shit. Is he a mean person for saying this ,or am i wrong? Our friendship ended over this because my moral hounding “icked” him out.

Yen has proven to be hella versatile n experimental in his albums b4 this ,so what’s different now?

For me its how 4 years of friendship was wiped away ina month. They laughed in my face coldly like i was nothing to them after I expressed my suicidal feelings on their abrupt ghosting. They said i “icked them out” ,and our “personalitys dont click anymore” All because i morally hounded them. We talked everyday and they still said “ i didnt think youd be that attached to me”. Id have died for this friend and they said they only “sometimes” cared about me.

How do you get icked out by your bestfriend? How can you be cruel to someone so loving so easy? He giggled n said mabye he is evil ,and he doesn’t wanna change. it keeps me up thinking about how messed up he secretly was.