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I sometimes hear people saying I wasnt attracted to them when I married them? But now I am
It makes me question how did the both spouse handle this?
And what changed that made you attracted to them
I hear this mostly from girls though but still Isnt it weird how were you able to intimate with them? What made you attracted to them? Do you enjoy intimacy now
I sometimes hear people saying I wasnt attracted to them when I married them? But now I am
It makes me question how did the both spouse handle this?
And what changed that made you attracted to them
I hear this mostly from girls though but still Isnt it weird how were you able to intimate with them? What made you attracted to them? Do you enjoy intimacy now
Salam brothers and sisters
What do you look for in the opposite gender
Be it physical like height range or anything specific you are attracted
And what personality are you attracted to
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So I have a friend younger than me the thing is he is really insecure about being 5ft7 he keeps complaining that he will struggle in dating
According to him tall girls want tall guys and short girls want tall guys too
He keep saying just look on social media and reddit you will realise it
Edit:- people who are telling to work on himself
He is have a good physique and he goes to gym He is academically great and financially smart And also a great cook
Hey girls do you all have a physical type in men? If so then what is it
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Salam girlies I see many pretty girls married to conventionally unattractive man I dont mind anything its their life but I would like to know it here
Those who married conventionally unattractive men or womem why did you do it? Were you attracted to other qualities?
Are you physically attracted to them ? Do you enjoy intimacy?
And how do you handle stupid taunts from other people saying you could do better etc
I dont mind anything but just had a curiosity
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Salam girlies I see many pretty girls married to conventionally unattractive man I dont mind anything its their life but I would like to know it here
Those who married conventionally unattractive men why did you do it? Were you attracted to other qualities?
Are you physically attracted to them ? Do you enjoy intimacy?
And how do you handle stupid taunts from other people saying you could do better etc
Salam girlies I see many pretty girls married to conventionally unattractive man I dont mind anything its their life but I would like to know it here
Those who married conventionally unattractive men why did you do it? Were you attracted to other qualities?
Are you physically attracted to them ? Do you enjoy intimacy?
And how do you handle stupid taunts from other people saying you could do better etc
Hey girlies whats your all height and what height do you want your guy to be be honest no judgements
I feel like I am kinda short seeing soo many tall girls mashallah 😭😭
AND MEN PLEASE DONT DM ME WITH THOSE STUPID PICK UP LINES GET A LIFE INSTEAD
Those who are considered attractive married to conventionally unattractive men
Are you all happily attracted to him
Do they ever make you feel insecure?
Or do they compare you?
I hear either they cherish you or hate you
How to know if they are good or not and that they will not destroy your self esteem
Salam brothers and sisters I keep seeing how many conventionally unattractive people and very beatifull people get married together I would like to know how is it?
Do you get insecure ?
Do you feel there is comparision?
Are you all happy with intimacy
So basically I know a guy he is younger than me and he is a very great guy (specially for this generation men)
He is a very good cook,smart,respectful intelligen and help his family in cleaning and all houshold work
And he is a very caring and loyal kind of guy so I told him your wife or gf will be very lucky and he asked me why
So I told him about his qualities and he started laughing saying all these qualities doesnt matter cause he is not attractive
I said he looks fine and he told me he doesnt cause he is 5ft7 and dusky to which I said your height is fine and you have a good physique you will do alright he just chuckled and didnt say anything
It really made me wonder what is wrong with these teenage guys he is 18 or 19 I guess
Are younger generation really becoming obsessed with looks
Any sister who wanna just rant about struggles or talk
Could be related to anything such as career,marriage etc
I keep hearing girls want tall guys and etc as a short girl I feel like I am happy with avg height of a man
But I still keep hearing how even very short girls keep rejection men who are like 8-9 inches taller than them
And same for 6ft I understand it for tall girls but not for short
Does height matter to you all aswell ? If yes then why
I just had some discussion with people thats why I wanna know about it from other people aswell
AND MEN PLEASE DONT DM ME I AM NOT INTERESTED PLEASE GET A LIFE
Salam girlies I wanted to ask the tall girls do you get rejected for being tall?
Do short guys reject you? IF you pursue them
So I was getting to know this guy who is amazing he checks all of my boxes in terms of both personality and character the only thing which confuses me is physical attraction
Now he is not ugly but he isnt my type either
He do have good physiques (good arms lol) and is very hygienic and is very good at cooking help his family in cleaning and all that and is very religious and lower his gaze (I got to know this from some men who know him)
And that he is supportive of my career
The only thing is attraction I wouldnt say I find him repulsive but he is not really my type either
I really dont understand what should I do should I give a try
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Salam sisters
I hear many women saying they married someone who isnt their type or someone conventionally unattractive
Are you all happy in your marriage and what about intimacy do you enjoy it
Its just I keep hearing this question it makes me wonder about it
Specially about the intimacy
SPECIALLY GIRLS since they do it a lot more