u/Flat_Dog7654

i’m F22 and currently confused about two guys 😭
the first guy is someone i’ve had a really close connection with for a while. he’s emotionally very good to me, listens to me, and i genuinely love having him in my life. we had feelings for each other and were romantically involved, but we recently decided to just be friends because neither of us was really on the same page about what we wanted. i’m still very emotionally attached to him and he’s someone i feel safe talking to.
then i met this 19-year-old Italian-Arab guy while travelling in Rome, and we ended up in a situationship. i’m VERY physically attracted to him and we had crazy chemistry. he’s super tall, charming, respectful, and i really like him. but we don’t speak the same language fluently, he’s pretty inconsistent with texting, and i don’t really know what he wants. sometimes he calls, asks about my day and says he misses me/kissing me, but then disappears for ages 😭
the first guy knows about my situationship with the Italian guy because one of our other friends told him about it. That obviously made things more complicated emotionally between us.
so basically i feel stuck between emotional connection with one person and intense physical attraction/chemistry with the other. and now that the first guy and i are just friends, i’m realizing how much emotional security he gave me.
i don’t know if i’m genuinely interested in the Italian guy or if it’s partly the excitement of someone new, especially because i met him while travelling.
am i expecting too much by wanting someone who gives me both emotional security AND strong physical attraction? or should i just stop trying to make either guy fit what i want and let things happen naturally? 😭

i am a muslim and a woman and i have done a sin or wrong. ofcourse, i am a human. apparently there is this guy who texts me on reddit and say like he thinks im nice and he is searching for a wife yada yada.

okay then idk how he stalks my reddit post although i just posts shit things and i hid it and idk how he found it all like some creepy stalker and SEND IT TO ME AND JUDGE ME?? LIKE WTF

i know he is an islamic guy who doesnt even meet woman bla bla but what gives he right to judge me???

MIND YOU HE IS THE ONE WHO TEXTED ME FIRST AND SUDDENLY SEND HIS PICTURE TO ME AND ALL?

at first i thought he is a nice guy then he judge me on and on? what does he expect? a woman from reddit to graduate straight from islamic school and be his wife? at least if he doesnt want me or anything dont judge?? i dont understand

it kinda hurts lol being judged like that, he dorsnt even know me. lol thats all bye i hope he read this

hi, me and my parents are travelling today with eurostar from amsterdam to paris, and when sitting on a seat my mom found out that her purse is missing. when we are arranging our bags on the luggage storage on a coach 16, there are 2 girls suddenly saying that we cannot put our luggage there and their mother want to put their wheelchair there bla3 but i dont trust them one bit. my dad helps moving out luggage away then my dad asked my mon why her small backpack is opened and then we js brushed it off.

what we didnt realised is that maybe that was the time that my mom's purse being stolen idk maybe some other time that we cannot think of.

anyone have advice or anything because when we go back to the luggage storage part there didnt even a single piece of wheelchair and i think those girls went away but im weird why they can pass the gate on amsterdam centraal at the first place?

thanks for your help

it really hurts when the person who you can rely on treats you like shit lol. i made mistakes but i clearly has made up for it, i say sorry apologized gazillion times and even give a gift and he keeps treating me like shit again and again. i just ask for small help and then he just turns me down coldly like??? and he knows i have no one too. lol i am truly fucking disappointed. everyone keeps treating me like this, like im the problem even though i tried to make up for everything or sometimes im not even in the slightest wrong.

i am a 22 year old female from Malaysia and currently doing my bachelor in Germany under a sponsorship in chemical engineering.

tbh i dont actually have a specific planning in my life simply because i dont being told to my whole life since i was a kid. i am the kind of person that just follow the flow so depending on the flow is good or not haha
i need to find a suitable company for an intern for my last semester and i have been wanting to find one in countries near malaysia such as brunei/singapore. (because i dont want to do my intern in germany as i cant stand here anymore lol) please dont tell me it is a waste of my time studying here if i dont like it, you dont know me.

so what's few good company for my bachelors, is there any big german companies also in brunei for chemical engineering? ive been thinking like shell or sm.

glad if people of brunei could help a kinda helpless malaysian girl here lol. i promise you im not a lazy person or snything, i know i can research it from google etc but js wanting to ask for community's opinion especially engineers.

thankz youz

i am a 22 year old female from Malaysia and currently doing my bachelor in Germany under a sponsorship in chemical engineering.

tbh i dont actually have a specific planning in my life simply because i dont being told to my whole life since i was a kid. i am the kind of person that just follow the flow so depending on the flow is good or not haha
i need to find a suitable company for an intern for my last semester and i have been wanting to find one in countries near malaysia such as brunei/singapore. (because i dont want to do my intern in germany as i cant stand here anymore lol) please dont tell me it is a waste of my time studying here if i dont like it, you dont know me.

so what's few good company for my bachelors, is there any big german companies also in brunei for chemical engineering? ive been thinking like shell or sm.

glad if people of brunei could help a kinda helpless malaysian girl here lol. i promise you im not a lazy person or snything, i know i can research it from google etc but js wanting to ask for community's opinion especially engineers.

thankz youz

i am a 22 year old female from Malaysia and currently doing my bachelor in Germany under a sponsorship in chemical engineering.

tbh i dont actually have a specific planning in my life simply because i dont being told to my whole life since i was a kid. i am the kind of person that just follow the flow so depending on the flow is good or not haha
i need to find a suitable company for an intern for my last semester and i have been wanting to find one in countries near malaysia such as brunei/singapore. (because i dont want to do my intern in germany as i cant stand here anymore lol) please dont tell me it is a waste of my time studying here if i dont like it, you dont know me.

so what's few good company for my bachelors, is there any big german companies also in brunei for chemical engineering? ive been thinking like shell or sm.

glad if people of brunei could help a kinda helpless malaysian girl here lol. i promise you im not a lazy person or snything, i know i can research it from google etc but js wanting to ask for community's opinion especially engineers.

thankz youz

hi im 22F studying abroad so it has been lonely asl here. just wanting to reconnect with my fellow malaysian community and if anyone are open to discuss or wtv js tell me, just not about politics or history please i dont know anything 🙏🙏