u/ForwardPerspective38

(19F). Recently I’ve noticed that my boyfriend (20M) seems to get hard really easily whenever we’re together, even from just cuddling or staying near to me and nothing sexual is happening.
The other day we were literally arguing and he still had one lmao.
is it normal?

It all started about three months ago. I had a very frequent urgency to urinate and very severe pelvic pressure. Urine tests were obviously negative, but the pain wouldn't go away. After a while, I saw a urologist who told me I simply had pelvic muscle dysfunction, or hypertonicity to be more precise. In fact, I couldn't urinate properly, and my symptoms got much worse with stress, fatigue, and the days before and during my menstrual cycle. The only things that relieved the pain were herbal teas and hot baths, and I'm undergoing therapy to manage stress and anxiety, since every time the pain and the pressure gets worse, I have panic attacks and I can’t even leave the house. But anyway, since I've been doing these things, the situation has improved a lot!
To anyone who is going through a similar experience… just want to say that you are not alone!

Sometimes I give my boyfriend head, when I do he always tells me he really likes it and he always finishes very quickly… but I really want to make him enjoy it even more… do you have any tips or tricks?

I have an hypertonic pelvic floor so when I go to the bathroom I can’t empty my bladder properly😭.
Yall have some advice?