u/FoxInaBox4242

When to expect newborn to be efficient at breastfeeding while side-lying?

LO is 17 days old. She's my second and I've embraced bedsharing from the beginning this time around. It took almost two months of sleep deprivation and dangerous situations with my first for us to bedshare so I'm completely new to how it all works in the very beginning of a baby's life.

She breastfeeds easily if the boob is firm with milk, but as the boob softens the nipple descends towards the mattress, so to speak, and she has a hard time latching onto the softened nipple.

Can anyone tell me when to expect this to stop being an issue? Because I'd really love for us to sleep while she's latched, but as of yet it's been impossible, I have to keep picking her up into the cradle position and wait for her to sleep, often having to do that multiple times because of failed transfers to the mattress. Any help is much appreciated!

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u/FoxInaBox4242 — 3 days ago

Newborn has been exposed to a virus

I'm freaking out. The day before yesterday, when LO was 9 days old, we visited my mother. Today she called me to say she has a sore throat, a runny nose and a mild fever.

I didn't let anyone see my first for two months, but that was a winter baby. I figured we'd be all right as it was May and my mother doesn't have any kids around and generally isn't around people much.

I understand I'm quite sleep deprived and hormonal, but I've basically already convinced myself that any minute now the baby will develop symptoms and we'll end up hospitalised. If there's any comfort someone could provide to help me get off this downward spiral, I would be extremely grateful.

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u/FoxInaBox4242 — 9 days ago

Pozdrav svima. Kupili smo stan s potkrovljem, pa nas zanima ima li tko iskustva kako se obračunava neto korisna površina tog unutarnjeg prostora? Prema pravilniku o koeficijentima i prema elaboratu etaziranja neto površina se računa s koeficijentima prema visinama stropa, ali na Q&A APNa piše kako je koeficijent 1,00 za unutarnje prostore.

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u/FoxInaBox4242 — 22 days ago

Dakle, dobar dio mojih iskustava sa Boltom je loš. Ima stvarno pristojnih vozača u ok autima, ali najčešće su u pitanju stari auti koji djeluju kao da ih selotejp čuva od raspadanja, vozači koji će pod redovno prigovarati i općenito stvari poput neugodnog mirisa i sl.

Danas je bilo teško dobiti Uber pa sam ipak zvala Bolt. Cijena ista, samo je Bolt brže pronašao vozača, a baš mi se žurilo. Mislila sam da sam se mentalno pripremila na sve, ali da ću doživjeti da me dočeka na krivom mjestu (jer inače kupi mušterije tamo pa si je on automatski...), onda da prigovara k'o baba da ne smijem imati otvoren prozor niti malo jer je njegov već otvoren pa 'propuh', te za kraj vidi da je moje odredište na dnu nizbrdice (ništa dramatično, stalno se vozim taksijem i nitko mi dosad nije progovorio) i odbije završiti rutu do kraja pa nek ja šetam do dolje. Vidno trudna btw.

S Uberom nikad, ali baš nikad problemi. Super vozači, super auti, super iskustva. Zašto je Bolt toliko lošiji?

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u/FoxInaBox4242 — 25 days ago