u/Frequent_Book_8450

hey guys, i've noticed recently that my phone plan does not work good..are some plans better than others for the cell towers in the lancaster area? i've never had issues with the plan before moving here thats why i was wondering if its best to change it. for context i receive text messages and calls, but for some reason sometimes i cannot send a text message back, it says "not delivered" and then i have to go another route like whatsapp or something with internet which is not always convenient. also calls will say "call failed." and then today i couldn't even use facetime on my phone when that has always worked. i tried any troubleshooting from my end like making sure my phone had the latest software update and restarting it. i appreciate any suggestions. i've been trying to reach out to my plan carrier and they have now put a 2nd ticket in so if it does not get better i will consider switching to another plan.

hello guys,

i've been working at my pharmacy for a year now and my pharmacy manager is having her first baby in 2 months. her baby shower is this weekend and while i won't be able to attend it, i still wanted to give a gift before then. she does have a registry and i was thinking maybe to give her either a 100$ target gift card or a 50$ gift card with a item from the registry i did see a blankie on it and thought that would be a good addition to the gift card.

i am just wondering what is too much what is too little? i don't want to go overboard but i want to do it correctly.

i appreciate all suggestions!

To the sick customer that did not wear a mask and asked me to open the Flonase for them and generously coughed all over me while I did it, I now have sweating and chills and cannot stop sneezing and coughing and it hurts really bad, so thank you for being so considerate of others around you.

Tonight I am having fruit in a plastic plate with a plastic spoon because my heart feels heavy. I’ve been feeling down all afternoon, I cried in the shower and will probably cry myself to sleep too. Its been a while but I can't stop thinking about you.

You wouldn't believe it but you cross my mind every single day. You were not just a fling but a person that I married. I know you moved on and married again and I am happy for you and I hope she can give you everything and be the world that I wasn’t able to be for you. At the time I thought choosing myself was selfish because it felt wrong to put myself first. But I was taught my whole life to sacrifice, to adjust, to please and to stay quiet when it came to my brothers, relatives, or any other person.

So when it happened with us it broke something deep inside me that I was never able to move past from. Even though I have no place in your life anymore and you probably never think about me, maybe one day you will. Maybe someday you’ll understand I was never trying to argue or win anything. I wasn’t trying to be oversensitive or make a big deal out of everything. I was just trying to explain what was hurting inside me and hoping that for the first time someone would care, someone would listen. I wanted you to listen, not defend yourself. I wanted my feelings to matter the way yours did, the way your families, cousins and friends did. I wasn’t asking for perfection because that doesn’t exist, I just needed a little patience and understanding. Sometimes all I needed was for you to sit with me and truly hear me, instead of getting mad at me.

Just because it wasn’t serious to you, it didn’t mean it wasn’t heavy for me. Your anger and disappointment turned me into silence so I wouldn't upset you. I still remember the things you said to me and they will always sting but if I ever saw you again I'd apologize because I never wanted to hurt you and I never married you to leave you. In the process of leaving I hurt myself too, but it didn’t matter as much because with you or without you my heart was broken anyway.

Maybe if I wasn't so soft and maybe had I learned to build a thicker skin then maybe things would have been different, sometimes I wish that we could get a do over. All I wanted was a guy that made me feel safe and secure, not sad and scared in my home. I wanted someone to be my rock, someone who wiped my tears away in moments of weakness, not the reason that they never stopped falling from my eyes.

And after everything I still loved you fully and I never lost feelings for you but, I had realized that you didn't want me and that's when I gave up.

Even now the night turns from midnight to 1am to 2 am to 3am and I lay there with thousands of thoughts in my mind and with tears in my eyes wondering where I went wrong. 

my pharmacy manager has been on vacation for a while so i am the temporary PIC. my DL wants to schedule a cardinal call this week on zoom at my store. i’m not sure what to expect because it will be my first time, is there anything i need to do to prepare? and what is she going to be asking me during the call?

how do downvotes work? and do people just keep downvoting because a chain of downvoting already started?

hi guys how did you resign as a pharmacy technician without making anything awkward. do i just tell my pharmacy manager i wanna give in my 2 weeks or do i let HR know? i wont see her until next friday so is it okay over text? i don’t want to burn any bridges in case i come back to cvs in the future

Jo kaam karta hai tu chup ke jahaan se
Koi dekhta hai tujhe aasmaan se

i had made a marriage profile online and a aunty reached out to me as she was interested for her son. at the time she really liked me and i really liked her and she wanted me to talk with her son. her son and his ex wife were separated but the divorce was still pending. so i didn’t speak with him then. sometime later i remembered the aunty and decided to message her, i asked her if she was still looking for a match for her son. i found out that she was about to become a dadi 😂

happy anniversary, two words that i never got to say and never knew the feeling of having them said to me because sadly our marriage never made it that far. i remember the jokes about kim k’s first marriage and about how someone’s toilet paper lasted longer than that. well you know what lasted longer than our marriage? her marriage. if i could go back in time i wish i’d have never met you let alone married you. what a stupid girl i was listening to my parents and crossing an ocean to marry you just to be labeled something culturally unacceptable. i hate you so much, you and your family were the most vile creatures i ever came across in my life. i never cried on my wedding day i was excited for it, but because of you i cried every day afterwards, and sometimes even now. i used to be a strong girl but now i am too soft, you broke me, but i sure hope i won’t be broken forever. it’s been 3 years maybe another 3 will help? i still remember everything like it was yesterday and only my death will take those memories of pain, sadness, anger, and deep regret from me. when it hits it hits hard and i feel like the loneliest person in the world. an opportunity lost a youth wasted.

~ forever empty