Hello...

Especially for people who just need someone to talk to but have nobody. That's me

u/Front-Past-5443 — 23 days ago

When they tell a psychologist to "read their notes"

Hey, what's up, hello.

Is it just me or is there a paradox that exists within being flawed and knowing about the flaws but can't do anything about it.

For example, I have this friend of mine that did study psychology(they do say most people who study it have some issues or something 💀) maybe to deal with something.

And they did end up studying themselves ans seeing whatever was inside. They even got "skills" on how to help others get rid of the dark stuff inside or heal . But ironically they can't help themselves...(Ofcourse I'm not talking about the serious stuff that need meds ad such)

People who do things related to knowing themselves/psychology. Do you ever know something about yourself but you can't do anything about it?

Have you ever done work on inside. Saw the darkness?.. what did you do about it?

u/Front-Past-5443 — 1 month ago

Stuck as someone with psychological background.

Hi. Is it just me or is self awareness some kind of hamster wheel. Someone might tell me to go read my notes yet I absolutely can't find a trace of wanting to actually do something with life . To the point that it feels stuck. Is there an explanation or is it a phenomena and can it be broken?

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u/Front-Past-5443 — 2 months ago

Shroomers

What's the best place to trip( no noice or lots of people) or where did you Trip from and have a good trip.

Would you be interested in tripping as a group hio place?

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u/Front-Past-5443 — 2 months ago
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How to cope with losing someone you love daily even before they're gone

So, as the title says. How did you guys or do you guys deal with seeing a loved one becoming less and less than themselves to the point that sometimes you don't even know who they are anymore ( and you can feel they're not there but they're still kinda active). Especially these degenerative diseases za akili hivi

I feel like I am losing my crap and I don't know what to do at all because there's a very thick wall between us so. The more I try to get closer I just end up feeling more separated being more frustrated because I feel like I am talking to...(I don't even know what). Sometimes I just feel empty and I don't see the need to live (maybe I lied saying "sometimes ).

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u/Front-Past-5443 — 3 months ago
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A word for PARENTS

Please be better to your kids than the world or your parents were with you. We all know how as children we're susceptible to adopting psychological mechanisms from our parents. If yours was abusive or neglectful, you don't have to do the same to your children.

Been thinking that most of us are fkd up because of how we were brought up. Neglectful parents ~attention seeking /children chasing validation from the wrong people or even wrong activities among other issues.

We've got daddy and mommy issues from how we were brought up. If we continue the cycle we're just fking ourselves up more. You heard some mental issues are hereditary. Now imagine that by continuing the cycle we're concentrating the issue more.

If you don't care about the world, just think about the domino effect. You treat your son like 💩, he goes to the world and unleashes his anger issues, the girl or person he unleashes it on goes and does the same to others. Or, he gets a wife who came frrm an abusive family. So she's looking for familiarity, in this case your son Who has issues. And she becomes another case of a woman in a toxic relationship but can't get out. They get kids ..... I'm not saying that men are like that because this thing cuts across all sexes or genders but you get the picture.

Just be good parents man.Learn to be better forgive your parents, yourself and heal. Of course there's no manual to good parenting but you're an adult who can think and see flaws in what you do. Most importantly, do some work on your issues too.

Have a great day ahead.

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u/Front-Past-5443 — 3 months ago

What's that one thing that led you to the verge of insanity.?

For me, it was going down the rabbit hole of the world. Culture,Religion, science, conspiracies that turned out to be true and everything else. Together with the fact that I was feeling like a misfit in the society. Feeling like people weren't thinking for themselves and we were all puppets under someone or something. This was in highschool, like the whole of it .

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So I stopped living for the longest time until I did ma shrooms .But that's a story for other days .

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Then I did psychology in campo and once in a while I could feel the little knowledge of us being not in control everywhere around.

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So today after a long time of avoiding anything that would compromise my view or reality I started going down the rabbit hole again. Well luckily I don't feel like I'm losing it again rather I feel different things. Most of it is rage of being a victim of the "world" and myself. And I'm talking about cornograophy and the pandemic we're having now especially as genz.

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From social, relationships, to our place in the world.

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I know y'all have the mantra Wantam and f the government but to me the thing is so widespread that I'm saying f the world. The leaders especially and everyone else for being ignorant.

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Still, please engage your minds next year. Not the money or the sweet hiss we hear from them.

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I digressed lol. What's that one thing that led you to the verge of insanity.? ???

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u/Front-Past-5443 — 4 months ago
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Job advert ya Mwizi!?

Ndio kupitia linked in na broke joblessness yangu nikaona hii advert.. ni ya nini jameni ...

Ama

Ni sharp boys and girls?

u/Front-Past-5443 — 5 months ago

I normally wouldn't post anything like this.

But I'm losing my mind lol. How hard is it to make friends. I mean, I'm someone who is alright by themselves but there are moments when it feels too heavy and I need someone to talk to or something.

I'll probably have a 1 week streak of being alone and at peace until suddenly from deep inside, I crave friendship.

Funny thing is I've tried so many frigging times to make friends or just be around for someone just to be friends but it just doesn't work. Not at all. And it is eating me out. So bad, it's early morning and my chest has those hurting feelings because of it .

Now, what do you guys think about this?

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u/Front-Past-5443 — 6 months ago
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So, to people who are/ have been trying to make friends but it always ends as failure. Or you do meet people, think you're making friends then at the end it's the same old script of it not happening. It got frustrating.. yes? Failing at making friends bonds despite trying everything you can.

What did you do when you kinda couldn't do it again. And how did you cope? Kindly, I want to hear from people who have experienced this, not people who are answering what they "think" or "assume "

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u/Front-Past-5443 — 6 months ago