u/Fun-Mathematician225
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▲ 27 r/GenZpk
i agree with this !! what do you think chat?
living in in paksitan for many years hearing many cases and seeing people debates why ppl rap* many says its because of se*ual frustrations or needs or late marriage or taboo based culture or restirccitons or no freedom or no interaction of oppsite gender which isn't common or gender segregation this is many ppl says... many blame women outfits all these ppl make men look incoent that its not entirly men fautl...
but i disagree with it at all the closer i observe it feels like only psychopath are inclined to these behaviours mostly its about pwoer and domination they feel they .. think they can do anything without getting any strictly accountable for there actions they wanna feel powered they wanna feel dominent this is the only mostly the main reason which is creating more chaos ...
the solution is stirct unbearable action against such people make strong scary punishment for this and actually showcase it on media like ibrat ka nashan bnanna when ppl will know there is stirct punishmnet it will rare someone would have courage to do such act again...
waht do you think chat ?
u/Fun-Mathematician225 — 6 days ago
I feel like Pakistan is way more racist about skin color than India.
My skin tone is a bit dark, and today I was on Ome.tv doing random video chats. Almost every Pakistani I matched with made some kind of taunt or racist comment, calling me things like “habshi,” “black,” or joking about darkness. It was honestly so excessive that it started to mess with my head.
Then I switched my location to India. And literally not a single person commented on my skin color. Not one. There was a mix of people, fair, medium, darker tones, and nobody judged me based on that.
And the thing is, both India and Pakistan have people of mixed skin tones. We are not that different in that sense. So I genuinely don’t understand, where does this obsession with fair skin in Pakistan even come from?
What makes me even more frustrated is when I see commercials for skin-whitening creams. It honestly blows my mind, like what are we even promoting as a society? And then you have influencers like “Asma Doll” saying things like, “Are you dark? I’ll make you fair.” That kind of messaging just makes things worse.
I also notice this in our dramas, cartoons, and ads. Mostly fair-skinned people are shown. Darker-skinned actors and representation are very limited. But in India, if you look at movies, cartoons, and media in general, you see much more diversity. There are popular actors and actresses with all kinds of skin tones.
Our religion clearly teaches us not to discriminate. It feels wrong to criticize something Allah has created. We were made in different colors and shapes so we can recognize each other, not mock each other.
I have also seen this in rishta culture. Guys want only fair-skinned girls, and girls want fair-skinned guys. Like, why? Color is just color.
What matters is a person’s character, not their skin tone.
So I want to ask:
Why do some people have this obsession with fair skin?
If you do have this preference, what is the reason behind it?
Does skin color actually matter more to you than someone’s character? If yes, why?
And most importantly, what do you think we can do to change this mindset?
Please upvote so more people can share their opinions and we can create some awareness. And seriously, please stop mocking people for dark skin. It is honestly disgusting.
u/Fun-Mathematician225 — 11 days ago
First time ever going to buy this car please give me any tips... i should be aware of
This is the car: honda city 1.5L aspire prosmetic 2018 model
Seller saying its non-touch - total genuine - and non-accidental and around 85000km millages
demanding 39lahk...
u/Fun-Mathematician225 — 18 days ago
▲ 16 r/pakistan
I have a question for Pakistani girls.
I'm a guy in my early-to-mid 20s and i'm from FSD. I've never been in a relationship before, and I've honestly never really talked to girls much, so I have no clue how these things work.
If a guy approached you randomly because he liked you and wanted to ask for your number or something, how would you react? Would you be offended, politely say no, or what would your reaction generally be?
I'm asking because online platforms are full of scams and fake people, and sometimes there are even guys pretending to be girls. So I feel like meeting someone in real life, especially someone who lives in the same city, seems more genuine.
Is that approach okay, or is there a better way to do it? Please guide me. I don't want an arranged marriage. I'd rather talk to someone first, maybe meet her physically once or twice, get to know each other properly, and then if we think we are compatible we can get married.
Also, where do people actually meet girls in real life besides the workplace? Where do people usually socialize and meet potential partners?
I'm usually very busy building my business, so I don't have much time to socialize, and honestly, I don't even know where people go to meet others these days.
One more thing: how do you build the courage to approach someone? I think I'm overly afraid. I worry that the girl might dislike being approached, think I'm bothering her, tell people around her that I'm teasing or harassing her, or that others might misunderstand my intentions. Sometimes I even imagine worst-case scenarios like getting into trouble, facing backlash, or beaten by people or maybe arrested by police if she complains anything can happen.
Because of all these fears, I've never really had the courage to approach anyone. Am I overthinking this? How do people normally deal with these fears, and how can I build the confidence to approach someone respectfully without making anyone uncomfortable?
And one last question: How do Pakistani girls generally prefer to be approached, if at all? I genuinely don't know how people meet these days, and since I have no experience, I'm just trying to understand what is considered respectful and normal.
P.S. also, I didn't post this to get attention from girls in my DMs. That's not my intention at all. Please just leave a comment. I'm only trying to understand things better.
u/Fun-Mathematician225 — 20 days ago
i neeeeeeeeeed to vent it out somewhere
I need to share my story because I am just frustrated I have no one to share please don’t judge me
I am 31 yrs female earning good I have my own school my own online academy. But shuru se hi ma house wife bn,na chahti thi q k ma ek religious family se belong krti hon jahan par Larkion ka parda krna common ha meri sb czns ki 20 age tk shadi ho gai or mera mind set b ye hi tha par meri Abi tk shadi nhi hui koi b rishty walon se bat ho to picture dekh kr lrky waly pasand kr lete par hmary ghar koi nhi ata boht wazify kiye boht kuch kia or ab to umeed hi khtm ho gai or shadi ka showq b khtm hogya but relatives kehty k jan booj k shadi nhi krti demands boht zyada hain par ma unko kese smjaun meri koi demand nhi ha ma to last year 1 bchy k bap k sath b shadi krny ko agree thi par wo log b hmary ghar nhi aye
Now what is my fault in all these???
Or ma social media py boht c post parhti k career oriented larkian age zyada kr leti hain boht sary larkon se affairs hoty in k used hoti hain Isi liye 18,20 sal ki lrki se shadi kro wo masoom hoti hain
And I thought how dumb are these males sari larkian esi nhi hoti ma career bnaya q k rishty nhi ho raha tha to farig bethny ki bajaye career bna Lia ma halal rishty k intezar ma rahi koi affair nhi kia or aj ma 16,17 sal ki lrkion ko dekhti dates py jati or boyfriend rakhy huy unho ny lekin log unko prefer krty or jo larki 30s ma ajaye wo characterless ho jati k itni age ho gai boyfriends k sath enjoy krty krty itni age krli it really perplexes me how diplomatic our society is
Even married man offers affairs but not nikah even I was ready to be second wife but our society is so cruel mardon ko affairs chahiye shadi nhi even aj kal k mardon ko wo hi pasand ati jo gold digger hoti in k sath time pas krti or ye hi mard ajaty unmarried lrkion ko criticise krny.
u/Fun-Mathematician225 — 21 days ago