u/GasparThePrince

I'm turning 22 and ive lived in the same house with my parents my whole life. I know that isnt really uncommon in this economy. But myself and my partner are hopefully going to be getting a place and moving in a couple months. Big life jump but I really don't know how to start? I worry I'm gonna do something wrong and things are gonna slip through the cracks.

I know vaguely about the putting stuff in boxes part of moving. But finance wise? And looking for a house? What's the point of a realtor anyways and is there something I should look for if I have to get one? And I know we're gonna have to buy furniture, and basic household stuff like utensils and cleaning supplies, but is there anything else that you dont think about buying until you dont have.

I know we're gonna forget something important

Biting the bullet, and hoping an IPL will make things a bit less frustrating going forward. I've heard good things about them for HS.

Anyone have any recommendations for one that works well for folks with HS? It's on my thighs mostly.

There are so many post on here of people wanting features or asking for advice, and then the comments are filled with people criticizing, insulting, and otherwise straight up bullying the OP.

All because they want to do something these commenters personally do not enjoy.

For an example: I dont time travel in my game, but if someone wants to time travel in their own game it does not effect me or anyone else in any way shape or form. So why are the comments on posts asking about time traveling full of insults?

I like the relationship decay, some people dont and wish Nintendo added features to disable it. That makes sense to me why people would want to turn that off so I dont downvote them and tell them they dont have to play rudely.

Just be kind to people and let people play their games the way they want.

I'm so confused as to how people (especially people on the internet) are okay with treating rapists like safe criminals? Theyre quite literally the opposite and I would never willingly be around one.

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They are the lowest of the low but everytime there is a post about a rapist theres always people in the comment section defending the absolute scum.

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As an Elder Scrolls fan I have seen who knows how many posts about Jeremy Soule. Hes the former composer behind the games, and also a known con artist and rapist. Bethesda cut ties with him after it came to light he was a rapist.

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But hes an "alleged" rapist according to every comment section. Nothing means anything and women accuse men all the time for fame or money. Let's ignore the ways women who do call out their abusers and their careers and personal lives suffer as a result, because that is the vast majority of the cases.

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Everything can be excused with enough victim blaming, gas lighting, or flat out sexism.

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Ive also seen the soccer player who is a charged rapist on multiple accounts who was denied entry into Canada because of it, and people are upset about it?? And the teams coach is filing a lawsuit and starting several petitions so that his rapist buddy gets to kick a ball around a bit?? Like hes a fucking criminal let him rot instead of giving him a platform. Not to mention all the other famous athletes that are rapists. Cristiano Ronaldo paid a lot of money to bury that information about him, and he is one of many.

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Because when you have money somehow you dont gotta respect other people I guess.

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Fuck rapists.

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Stop defending rapists.

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You are more likely to be a victim of sexual assault than to be falsely accused.

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You are more likely to win the lottery than to be falsely accused

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You are more likely to be audited by the government than to be falsely accused

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You are more likely to be struck by lightning than to be falsely accused.

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Believe victims. Believe me when I tell you how unsafe you make the people around you feel when you defend rapists.