u/Girl-interrupted_22

Continuously getting hit on and dk what to do

So basically; I’m a 15yo girl, and working FOH at my CFA. I’ve been getting hit on nonstop since my second week of work (i started at the end of January). The worst I’ve gotten was 2 guys, both mid to late 20’s. They were messing around with me, having me guess their names, and they ordered a sundae as well as other food. I made the sundae, and walked to their table to give it to them when one of them says: “hey, can you tie a cherry stem with your tongue?” So i play dumb and I’m like: “um no.” And they say: “well have you tried?” I said no again. Then he proceeds to say: “well why don’t you try with this one right here?” I was APPALLED. So i walked away after awkwardly laughing and giving them their stuff. Then, the same guy comes up to the counter saying shit like: “yo my friend thinks you’re super hot and is gonna give you his number.” Luckily, i was clocking out and LEFT.

And other incidents have happened, like one old guy telling me my hair was pretty, and then reaching out to touch it, college guys asking for my number and trying to touch me in anyway possible, etc. but today, after i almost passed out after taking orders in drive thru, i came in and was refilling this old guy’s drink (he was like 60ish) and he says “you’re a beautiful and striking woman.” With a really creepy expression.

I mean, i get that i don’t “look my age” but god, how hard is it not to sexually harass teenagers at their job? Like dear GOD it’s not that difficult 😭😭

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u/Girl-interrupted_22 — 2 days ago

So basically, i’m 15 (not many other places hire at my age) and i’ve been working at cfa for about 4 months now. And i hate it. My favorite managers have all quit and I only like about half my coworkers. One of my coworkers is a freaking pedophile. Anyway guests are mean and creepy (within 3 weeks of working there 2 25yo men asked me to tie a cherry stem w my tongue) but I feel like i can’t quit and it would be a bad look for my resume. Advice?

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u/Girl-interrupted_22 — 17 days ago
▲ 8 r/teenrelationships+1 crossposts

So basically, I have a very strong personality. One of the main reasons i broke up with my ex boyfriend (whom i dated for 10 months), because he couldn’t keep up with me. I’m so scared of my personality coming off too strong. I’m a pretty confident girl, and i know that can be intimidating. And I’m also a lover girl through and through. Like, i want to make him gifts and draw him things but I’m scared of coming on too strong. We’ve gone on a date, and we’re going on another one on Friday, and he’s even made me a bracelet, held my hand, told me he really likes me, etc. but i’m still overthinking everything. Advice?

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u/Girl-interrupted_22 — 17 days ago
▲ 500 r/mtg

So basically I’m going out with this guy i really like and he’s coming over Friday. Before then i need to learn to play while balancing work and final exams. Luckily, my dad played a lot in college and has 100s of decks- but he doesn’t want to teach me, but he will allow me access to said decks. What are some suggestions you have for me to learn in the span of 3 days?

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u/Girl-interrupted_22 — 17 days ago