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โ–ฒ 6 r/MidTwentiesIndia

Members of this sub, what exactly are you looking for in a partner and do you have those qualities?

Greetings everyone, just a small question it is, but it basically decides how the search will go, guiding along the definition of a relationship with its foundation

I will go first

  1. Someone working on her careerI always wished to be strong, and working hard on my career was one of my main goals. I wish to explore and experience a lot of things, building things and solving problems.

  2. Someone who I am attracted towards, physically, mentally, and emotionally Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, and yes, I wish the flower that is blessed in my garden remains cute to my eyes for life and ahead :)

  3. Someone who wishes to have a family of her ownGrowing up, I had that dream, of having a family of my own, to become strong, so they feel safe, to age with someone who desires to be with me as much as I do and someone who desires to have kids out of love.

I am still on the path of working on my career and myself and hence this is the best time I consider finding someone, to grow together with.

I understand, the women who I desire to be with, are very busy, and definitely not much active on these subs cause they aren't looking for 'marriage'

So do I. But at the end, it's how much you want your dream to become true. The dream of a relationship maturing to a marriage, a shared commitment.

I am aware the experiences men and women shared here, people acting non serious, unaware of their own preferences, just drops trust in some way, but I wish you the best guys.

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 12 days ago
โ–ฒ 5 r/IndianWorkplace

What is the one thing you remember about your senior?

I will go first

I still remember, in all of the chaos, no matter how fake the urgency was, he was calm and clear with very good questions.

Questions, easy to understand, and actually bringing direction.

He was same with guiding me. He would listen, calmly, adding questions in between.

He never made me feel, that since I was a junior, I should feel bad about knowing less.

Thanks.

Thank you Bhai for being kind.

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 14 days ago
โ–ฒ 27 r/MidTwentiesIndia

People without parental support, how the AM went for you?

Parents came in my room after work, they asked my preferences, and what I wished for myself, and also said points which I have to follow.

I shared what I wished for in someone. Someone who

  1. Is working hard on her career or building something of herself, like a buisness.

  2. Compatible careers are always prefered, I am in tech, so for me anyone who is working in tech, non tech, in corporates will relatively be better, but I am even up for having someone from a complete different field.

  3. Someone who doesn't smoke. Although I am a non smoker and a non drinker, I am fine with someone who is an occasional drinker.

  4. Someone who I find to be cute, and and I am attracted to physically, emotionally and emotionally.

But they quoted a problem, which was genuine.

We have stopped talking to our relatives over some disputes and it's been years since we talked with them. Furthermore, my dad served in the armed forces, so they don't have that good of a social circle, which usually is there when some stay at their place for years.

I know this was coming.

"We can help you get someone, but they will be non working", they added further.

I denied. I genuinely didn't want someone like that, my gut just didn't agreed.

They asked my dating journey, and were expecting if that was going good. I simply smiled and mentioned everything.

Zero matches across apps and no successful dates as such.

But yeah, I guess, I need to work hard more on career, earn more, definitely and yeah have a good body.

Ofcourse, if I am desiring something and now since I am aware, my parents won't be able to help, to atleast get matches, I need to be more desirable to women I 'like'

But seeing my friends and seniors, parental support is very crucial if you are in hopes of AM.

Connections actually get you matches that you genuinely desire for yourself, way better than matrimony, websites, and marriage bureaus.

So people like me, how did it went for you?

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 18 days ago
โ–ฒ 3 r/SFWr4rIndia

25 [M4F] Punjabi - SDE, Looking for sohni kudi๐ŸŒธ

Haha, weird title.

Anyways, jokes aside, something about me

About me

  1. Height - 5 11

  2. Skin tone - wheatish

  3. Hobbies - sketching, photography, and yeah writing poems. Trying to explore reading too. I love playing badminton and volleyball.

Something more

  1. Someone working hard towards her career. I understand life is very busy. But since I am working on mine too, I wish to be with someone who is a responsible adult and intends to live the best life for herself.

  2. Someone who I found to be cute. Every flower in the garden is beautiful but the same person doesn't like every flower. ๐ŸŒธ

  3. Someone who aligns with my thoughts. Dw my friends call me therapist, haha, I have plenty of energy to listen to you, and if I am busy you can always sit in my godi to get my eyes, hehe

  4. I have worked on my emotional intelligence through self Introspection and although I am still working, I am glad I walked the road

  5. Someone who appreciates hygiene. I love cleaning my space.

  6. I can cook, but definitely need to learn a lot more dishes, so yeah on it. ๐Ÿคญ

  7. Someone who intends to have kids of her own one day. The consent will be hers, always. But someone who wishes to have a small family of her own too.

If you read till here, how about you say hi ๐Ÿ™ˆ

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 1 month ago
โ–ฒ 35 r/punemeetup

Saw someone after work and all my stress went away

A small story.

Logged off and was just walking down the road. The mind was filled with upcoming tasks, how to do them, the existing ones, creating and updating the tick-ets and all.

In all of those thoughts, I saw someone. A girl waiting for her cab.

She was so beautiful, my thoughts all settled at once, as if everything went calm for a second.

Her hair on one side of her shoulder, glasses that just resonated with her face, and that cute glow on her cheeks.

She was wearing a shirt and a black jeans, and her ID card just syncing with her outfit.

It was just about to get dark, but the soft sun, just feeling blessed by shining on her skin, was even visible from my distance.

๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ

After a while her cab came, and she went.

She was there for a min or two, but her beauty made me less stressful and i felt warm. It was definitely wholesome.

I will most likely never see her again. But if you are reading this

"You looked very cute and confident in your outfit. Thanks for making me smile ๐ŸŒท"

:)

u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 1 month ago
โ–ฒ 94 r/MidTwentiesIndia

Why are girls so cute? ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Saw someone after work and all my stress went away.

Logged off and was just walking down the road. The mind was filled with upcoming tasks, how to do them, the existing ones, creating and updating the tickets and all.

In all of those thoughts, I saw someone. A girl waiting for her cab.

She was so beautiful, my thoughts all settled at once, as if everything went calm for a second.

Her hair on one side of her shoulder, glasses that just resonated with her face, and that cute glow on her cheeks.

She was wearing a shirt and a black jeans, and her ID card just syncing with her outfit.

It was just about to get dark, but the soft sun, just feeling blessed by shining on her skin, was even visible from my distance.

๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ

After a while her cab came, and she went.

She was there for a min or two, but her beauty made me less stressful and i felt warm. It was definitely wholesome.

I will most likely never see her again. But if you are reading this

"You looked very cute and confident in your outfit. Thanks for making me smile ๐ŸŒท"

:)

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 1 month ago
โ–ฒ 3 r/IndianWorkplace

Should I move back to my hometown or stay in Pune?

It's been an year since I took a flat. My company allows Remote + hybrid, but I wished to stay to enjoy the freedom, and work on both my dat-ing and social life.

I did met people, ngl, but I realised, I was still lonely here, 2 friends and both busy with their partners or colleagues.

My colleagues, as I mentioned, other than one, all are not from pune.

Although I don't have friends in my hometown(army brat), but the amount of my time and money I invested living in pune, it didn't have that much ROI

It's been two months I am here in home and I am able to save much more time, and hopefully will save money too.

Plus to retain my peace, I can always travel to Delhi, for trips and meet new people.

More time will allow me to focus on my skills better.

Please guide and you can counter many questions as well.

I wish to switch soon to a good company, before completion of my second year here

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 2 months ago
โ–ฒ 1 r/AskIndianWoman

Shaadi talks with family, 25M

TLDR - Had a shaadi talk with my family. Turns out they can't help me much in finding someone I desire for myself and I am on my own. They shared their boundaries and shared what they are expecting.

Was sitting in my room, mom came and just asked me, I am turning 25 soon, are you dating someone?

She thought I was, and assumed my female friend who I was talking to, was infact my gf.

The discussion continued..

They asked my preferences, and what I wished for myself, and also said a points which I have to follow

Example if I wished to get married at 28

  1. Age difference - [-5 to +3]

  2. She shouldn't be muslim or christian

  3. They are not expecting any dahej or the expectation that she will take care of them and leave her job to be in the house. But yeah they do want I choose my partner after thinking throughly, and we should talk with my parents and hers regularly

  4. Having kids will be me and my partner's choice, and they will be happy with either of them. They wish us to be happy and live a prosperous life.

That's their boundary for me and these are the things what I wish for in a partner

  1. Someone working on her career. I am in Tech, Software Engineering, so I preferably be compatible with someone who is also working in a similar field, tech, non tech, ex sales, marketing, consultancy, or someone who is working in corporate.

  2. Will be less compatible with someone who has a buisness, doctors, or is in medical field. Again that's just from the perspective of, I wish to live with my partner, so we can accordingly shift in a good city where we both can enjoy and work on our careers.

  3. I wish if we get a chance to move to foreign, we both should go, atleast for experience.

  4. Someone who wishes to have kids down the line. Again that's just a desire, I don't consider children to be goals or anything, they should be byproduct of love and yeah her consent will be the final decision.

  5. I don't smoke or drink. I won't be comfortable with someone who smokes, drinking is fine if it's occasional, regular can be a problem. Although my mom said, I should strictly look for someone who doesn't drink as well.

  6. Someone who genuinely wishes to talk to me, be with me, is interested in me and I find them cute of all the flowers of the wordly garden. Although a relationship can start on attraction, but it sustains only if there is respect of each other feelings.

The problems, My parents won't be able to help me find someone :(

  1. We have stopped talking to our relatives, years ago.

  2. My parents don't have much of a social circle, they do, but not trustworthy enough to find me a match

  3. And they said even if they can, and they will try their best, they might not find me someone I am looking for

  4. They expect me to find someone by 28, and after that they will start searching too.

  5. Although the final decision will be mine, but they wish I don't end up alone.

So yeah I am 99 percent on my own and I suck at it lol

Where I am right now financially and in terms of personal growth

  1. My current year of experience is 1.5 so yeah, I need more time to reach a decent high salary. Not gonna lie, need to achieve atleast 15 to 20 after taxes to be ready. Since I have a army background, my parents aren't dependent on me financially.

  2. I am working on my mental health and I am doing better, but definitely the road is long and I am seriously enjoying this.

  3. Gym is on, but yeah irregular, again my bad. Need it to be consistent to be better. I am blessed with a decent height, 5 11 so I am grateful for that.

  4. Trying to travel, click pictures, new hobbies, playing badminton, volleyball, and trying to meet new people.

Dating journey

Tried apps, didn't work, people weren't serious, and it was costing a lot of mental bandwidth so left it.

Approached women, but yeah, blockers use to come. Wasn't into casuals.

Friends of friends did helped but didn't turn out well.

I might have these preferences for now, they can change in future as I develop my mindset more, but a hard stop will be at 32.

After that I will expect, these things aren't for me and would stop approaching at all.

Instead will focus on being a good uncle to my friends kids, travel, become more strong.

Thanks for reading till here. A journal it is.

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 2 months ago
โ–ฒ 11 r/PunjabiGenZ

Shaadi talks with family, 25M

TLDR - Had a shaadi talk with my family. Turns out they can't help me much in finding someone I desire for myself and I am on my own. They shared their boundaries and shared what they are expecting.

Was sitting in my room, mom came and just asked me, I am turning 25 soon, are you dating someone?

She thought I was, and assumed my female friend who I was talking to, was infact my gf.

The discussion continued..

They asked my preferences, and what I wished for myself, and also said a points which I have to follow

Example if I wished to get married at 28

  1. Age difference - [-5 to +3]

  2. She shouldn't be muslim or christian

  3. They are not expecting any dahej or the expectation that she will take care of them and leave her job to be in the house. But yeah they do want I choose my partner after thinking throughly, and we should talk with my parents and hers regularly

  4. Having kids will be me and my partner's choice, and they will be happy with either of them. They wish us to be happy and live a prosperous life.

That's their boundary for me and these are the things what I wish for in a partner

  1. Someone working on her career. I am in Tech, Software Engineering, so I preferably be compatible with someone who is also working in a similar field, tech, non tech, ex sales, marketing, consultancy, or someone who is working in corporate.

  2. Will be less compatible with someone who has a buisness, doctors, or is in medical field. Again that's just from the perspective of, I wish to live with my partner, so we can accordingly shift in a good city where we both can enjoy and work on our careers.

  3. I wish if we get a chance to move to foreign, we both should go, atleast for experience.

  4. Someone who wishes to have kids down the line. Again that's just a desire, I don't consider children to be goals or anything, they should be byproduct of love and yeah her consent will be the final decision.

  5. I don't smoke or drink. I won't be comfortable with someone who smokes, drinking is fine if it's occasional, regular can be a problem. Although my mom said, I should strictly look for someone who doesn't drink as well.

  6. Someone who genuinely wishes to talk to me, be with me, is interested in me and I find them cute of all the flowers of the wordly garden. Although a relationship can start on attraction, but it sustains only if there is respect of each other feelings.

The problems, My parents won't be able to help me find someone :(

  1. We have stopped talking to our relatives, years ago.

  2. My parents don't have much of a social circle, they do, but not trustworthy enough to find me a match

  3. And they said even if they can, and they will try their best, they might not find me someone I am looking for

  4. They expect me to find someone by 28, and after that they will start searching too.

  5. Although the final decision will be mine, but they wish I don't end up alone.

So yeah I am 99 percent on my own and I suck at it lol

Where I am right now financially and in terms of personal growth

  1. My current year of experience is 1.5 so yeah, I need more time to reach a decent high salary. Not gonna lie, need to achieve atleast 15 to 20 after taxes to be ready. Since I have a army background, my parents aren't dependent on me financially.

  2. I am working on my mental health and I am doing better, but definitely the road is long and I am seriously enjoying this.

  3. Gym is on, but yeah irregular, again my bad. Need it to be consistent to be better. I am blessed with a decent height, 5 11 so I am grateful for that.

  4. Trying to travel, click pictures, new hobbies, playing badminton, volleyball, and trying to meet new people.

Dating journey

Tried apps, didn't work, people weren't serious, and it was costing a lot of mental bandwidth so left it.

Approached women, but yeah, blockers use to come. Wasn't into casuals.

Friends of friends did helped but didn't turn out well.

I might have these preferences for now, they can change in future as I develop my mindset more, but a hard stop will be at 32.

After that I will expect, these things aren't for me and would stop approaching at all.

Instead will focus on being a good uncle to my friends kids, travel, become more strong.

Thanks for reading till here. A journal it is.

u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 2 months ago
โ–ฒ 2 r/HangoutNearPune

25M, Punjabi, SDE, Looking for my man hater ๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†”๏ธ๐ŸŽ‚

Haha, weird title. Getting loved by a man hater is what I dream of, lol

Anyways, jokes aside, (I do notice your smile, hehe)

About me

  1. Height - 5 11

  2. Skin tone - wheatish

  3. Hobbies - sketching, photography, and yeah writing poems. Trying to explore reading too. I love playing badminton and volleyball.

Something more

  1. Someone working hard towards her career. I understand life is very busy. But since I am working on mine too, I wish to be with someone who is a responsible adult and intends to live the best life for herself.

  2. Someone who I found to be cute. Every flower in the garden is beautiful but the same person doesn't like every flower. ๐ŸŒธ

  3. Someone who aligns with my thoughts. Dw my friends call me therapist, haha, I have plenty of energy to listen to you, and if I am busy you can always sit in my godi to get my eyes, hehe

  4. I have worked on my emotional intelligence through self Introspection and although I am still working, I am glad I walked the road

  5. Someone who appreciates hygiene. I love cleaning my space.

  6. I can cook, but definitely need to learn a lot more dishes, so yeah on it. ๐Ÿคญ

  7. Someone who intends to have kids of her own one day. The consent will be hers, always. But someone who wishes to have a small family of her own too.

If you read till here, how about you say hi ๐Ÿ™ˆ

u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 5 r/20sIndiaRelationships

Shaadi talks with family, 25M

TLDR - Had a shaadi talk with my family. Turns out they can't help me much in finding someone I desire for myself and I am on my own. They shared their boundaries and shared what they are expecting.

Was sitting in my room, mom came and just asked me, I am turning 25 soon, are you dating someone?

She thought I was, and assumed my female friend who I was talking to, was infact my gf.

The discussion continued..

They asked my preferences, and what I wished for myself, and also said a points which I have to follow

Example if I wished to get married at 28

  1. Age difference - [-5 to +3]

  2. She shouldn't be muslim or christian

  3. They are not expecting any dahej or the expectation that she will take care of them and leave her job to be in the house. But yeah they do want I choose my partner after thinking throughly, and we should talk with my parents and hers regularly

  4. Having kids will be me and my partner's choice, and they will be happy with either of them. They wish us to be happy and live a prosperous life.

That's their boundary for me and these are the things what I wish for in a partner

  1. Someone working on her career. I am in Tech, Software Engineering, so I preferably be compatible with someone who is also working in a similar field, tech, non tech, ex sales, marketing, consultancy, or someone who is working in corporate.

  2. Will be less compatible with someone who has a buisness, doctors, or is in medical field. Again that's just from the perspective of, I wish to live with my partner, so we can accordingly shift in a good city where we both can enjoy and work on our careers.

  3. I wish if we get a chance to move to foreign, we both should go, atleast for experience.

  4. Someone who wishes to have kids down the line. Again that's just a desire, I don't consider children to be goals or anything, they should be byproduct of love and yeah her consent will be the final decision.

  5. I don't smoke or drink. I won't be comfortable with someone who smokes, drinking is fine if it's occasional, regular can be a problem. Although my mom said, I should strictly look for someone who doesn't drink as well.

  6. Someone who genuinely wishes to talk to me, be with me, is interested in me and I find them cute of all the flowers of the wordly garden. Although a relationship can start on attraction, but it sustains only if there is respect of each other feelings.

The problems, My parents won't be able to help me find someone :(

  1. We have stopped talking to our relatives, years ago.

  2. My parents don't have much of a social circle, they do, but not trustworthy enough to find me a match

  3. And they said even if they can, and they will try their best, they might not find me someone I am looking for

  4. They expect me to find someone by 28, and after that they will start searching too.

  5. Although the final decision will be mine, but they wish I don't end up alone.

So yeah I am 99 percent on my own and I suck at it lol

Where I am right now financially and in terms of personal growth

  1. My current year of experience is 1.5 so yeah, I need more time to reach a decent high salary. Not gonna lie, need to achieve atleast 15 to 20 after taxes to be ready. Since I have a army background, my parents aren't dependent on me financially.

  2. I am working on my mental health and I am doing better, but definitely the road is long and I am seriously enjoying this.

  3. Gym is on, but yeah irregular, again my bad. Need it to be consistent to be better. I am blessed with a decent height, 5 11 so I am grateful for that.

  4. Trying to travel, click pictures, new hobbies, playing badminton, volleyball, and trying to meet new people.

Dating journey

Tried apps, didn't work, people weren't serious, and it was costing a lot of mental bandwidth so left it.

Approached women, but yeah, blockers use to come. Wasn't into casuals.

Friends of friends did helped but didn't turn out well.

I might have these preferences for now, they can change in future as I develop my mindset more, but a hard stop will be at 32.

After that I will expect, these things aren't for me and would stop approaching at all.

Instead will focus on being a good uncle to my friends kids, travel, become more strong.

Thanks for reading till here. A journal it is.

u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 8 r/reddmatch+1 crossposts

Shaadi talks with family, 25M

TLDR - Had a shaadi talk with my family. Turns out they can't help me much in finding someone I desire for myself and I am on my own. They shared their boundaries and shared what they are expecting.

Was sitting in my room, mom came and just asked me, I am turning 25 soon, are you dating someone?

She thought I was, and assumed my female friend who I was talking to, was infact my gf.

The discussion continued..

They asked my preferences, and what I wished for myself, and also said a points which I have to follow

Example if I wished to get married at 28

  1. Age difference - [-5 to +3]

  2. She shouldn't be muslim or christian

  3. They are not expecting any dahej or the expectation that she will take care of them and leave her job to be in the house. But yeah they do want I choose my partner after thinking throughly, and we should talk with my parents and hers regularly

  4. Having kids will be me and my partner's choice, and they will be happy with either of them. They wish us to be happy and live a prosperous life.

That's their boundary for me and these are the things what I wish for in a partner

  1. Someone working on her career. I am in Tech, Software Engineering, so I preferably be compatible with someone who is also working in a similar field, tech, non tech, ex sales, marketing, consultancy, or someone who is working in corporate.

  2. Will be less compatible with someone who has a buisness, doctors, or is in medical field. Again that's just from the perspective of, I wish to live with my partner, so we can accordingly shift in a good city where we both can enjoy and work on our careers.

  3. I wish if we get a chance to move to foreign, we both should go, atleast for experience.

  4. Someone who wishes to have kids down the line. Again that's just a desire, I don't consider children to be goals or anything, they should be byproduct of love and yeah her consent will be the final decision.

  5. I don't smoke or drink. I won't be comfortable with someone who smokes, drinking is fine if it's occasional, regular can be a problem. Although my mom said, I should strictly look for someone who doesn't drink as well.

  6. Someone who genuinely wishes to talk to me, be with me, is interested in me and I find them cute of all the flowers of the wordly garden. Although a relationship can start on attraction, but it sustains only if there is respect of each other feelings.

The problems, My parents won't be able to help me find someone :(

  1. We have stopped talking to our relatives, years ago.

  2. My parents don't have much of a social circle, they do, but not trustworthy enough to find me a match

  3. And they said even if they can, and they will try their best, they might not find me someone I am looking for

  4. They expect me to find someone by 28, and after that they will start searching too.

  5. Although the final decision will be mine, but they wish I don't end up alone.

So yeah I am 99 percent on my own and I suck at it lol

Where I am right now financially and in terms of personal growth

  1. My current year of experience is 1.5 so yeah, I need more time to reach a decent high salary. Not gonna lie, need to achieve atleast 15 to 20 after taxes to be ready. Since I have a army background, my parents aren't dependent on me financially.

  2. I am working on my mental health and I am doing better, but definitely the road is long and I am seriously enjoying this.

  3. Gym is on, but yeah irregular, again my bad. Need it to be consistent to be better. I am blessed with a decent height, 5 11 so I am grateful for that.

  4. Trying to travel, click pictures, new hobbies, playing badminton, volleyball, and trying to meet new people.

Dating journey

Tried apps, didn't work, people weren't serious, and it was costing a lot of mental bandwidth so left it.

Approached women, but yeah, blockers use to come. Wasn't into casuals.

Friends of friends did helped but didn't turn out well.

I might have these preferences for now, they can change in future as I develop my mindset more, but a hard stop will be at 32.

After that I will expect, these things aren't for me and would stop approaching at all.

Instead will focus on being a good uncle to my friends kids, travel, become more strong.

Thanks for reading till here. A journal it is.

u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 1 r/Bathinda

25M, Software Engineer from Pune, came to hometown and looking to meet new people ๐Ÿ˜Œ

Hi everyone I am a software engineer by profession. I did my bachelor's from Pune itself.

I am open to chat regarding random stuff I am a great listener, so if you just need a ear to listen do ping me.

And I have a goldfish memory, I will forget everything too , so rest assured your vents are fully encrypted. My therapy is cleaning my room and my personal space. The mental peace is priceless.

My hobbies are photography and writing poems, although I can sketch too. Would love to share my work and see your hobbies too. If you read till here, how about we say hi ๐ŸŒธ

u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 4 r/ludhiana

25M, Software Engineer from Pune, came to hometown and looking to meet new people ๐Ÿ˜Œ

Hi everyone I am a software engineer by profession. I did my bachelor's from Pune itself.

I am open to chat regarding random stuff I am a great listener, so if you just need a ear to listen do ping me.

And I have a goldfish memory, I will forget everything too , so rest assured your vents are fully encrypted. My therapy is cleaning my room and my personal space. The mental peace is priceless.

My hobbies are photography and writing poems, although I can sketch too. Would love to share my work and see your hobbies too. If you read till here, how about we say hi ๐ŸŒธ

u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 6 r/Bathinda

Best place for eating the classic aloo tikki, dahi papdi, suji de golgappe?

Hi everyone

Please suggest a good hygienic place, need to take my friends out there

Thanksss

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 2 r/Bathinda

Best chole bhature in bathinda?

Hi everyone

Can you guys recommend the best Delhi style chole bhature which I can try

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 28 r/developersIndia

Director asked me to leave politely. Is this true or I am overthinking

Was in a one on one with my director and I am still learning how to say stuff in the corporate language or the sugarcoated tone.

"It's been a year since you are here and you have shown growth, but we urge you to level up your pace so we can trust you more"

Does he basically means, I am not performing enough as I should be for a year of experience and they will fire me since they don't consider my work is enough as compared to my teammates.

He is generally very professional in his tone. But uses Sugarcoating once in a while. This time, the entire one on one was sugarcoated sentences.

I needed to sit back after the meeting to see what he meant

  1. My teammates complaining of me

  2. Product is complaining of me

  3. I take time completing tasks and not enough comments to justify why

I see, I need to leave in the next 2 months.

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 45 r/IndianWorkplace

Director asked me to leave politely. Is this true or I am overthinking

Was in a one on one with my director and I am still learning how to say stuff in the corporate language or the sugarcoated tone.

"It's been a year since you are here and you have shown growth, but we urge you to level up your pace so we can trust you more"

Does he basically means, I am not performing enough as I should be for a year of experience and they will fire me since they don't consider my work is enough as compared to my teammates.

He is generally very professional in his tone. But uses Sugarcoating once in a while. This time, the entire one on one was sugarcoated sentences.

I needed to sit back after the meeting to see what he meant

  1. My teammates complaining of me

  2. Product is complaining of me

  3. I take time completing tasks and not enough comments to justify why

I see, I need to leave in the next 2 months.

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 3 months ago
โ–ฒ 6 r/AskIndianWomen

Gurlls, which birthday memories you remember which makes you smile instantly?

Would love to know what was the thing your friends, family or your partner did for you, that you felt very special and the memory still makes you feel warm ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒท

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u/GoodDesign01 โ€” 3 months ago