How do you know when to leave?

I've been married just over 3 years. I found out throughout the short time we've been married my husband has been in online sex chatrooms.

I found out a yr ago & he promised he had stopped. Recently I suspected he was still up to something but he denied it & even cried. We decided I needed to go to therapy so I could get over my paranoia of thinking his up to something.

Anyway it turns out I was right & I can't believe this pos was encouraging me to go to therapy whilst knowing he was lying to me.

I despise him & he makes me sick but both our parents are hoping with therapy we can work it out.

I already gave him.1 chance when I caught him. Would someone like this even change. In my heart I know his going to therapy to be performative, as he did last time, but really I suspect he'll just hide his tracks even better. His been waiting for me to go to bed or be out the house before messaging women & sending nudes.

He makes me sick & right now his taken away joy in my life. I want to end it now but how long would you wait before starting the divorce process?

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u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 5 days ago
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Porsha is too high & Sheree needs to be moved up. Even grand Zolciak Kim should all be above Porsha.

I miss old RHOA, those were the good old days. Even Dwight should be moved up lol. Kenya, Phaedra & Sheree should be on the second level.

u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 13 days ago
▲ 91 r/RHOA

K Michelle trying to setting off a loud dog whistle with that "Nigerians in country music..."

To say this about Shaboozey with the Nigerian making country music & he doesn't like Black women but then speak kindly on Morgan Wallen who said a slur about Black people?

No problem speaking negatively about Black people but a confirmed racist, she's happy to say nice things about.

Well..I hope that Morgan Wallen's fans are buying Jesus & Whisky & this was all worth it to support a racist yt man.

u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 14 days ago
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Angela's neighbours did not need screen time.

That man just makes me cringe & was repulsed by his comments about his future wife in this clip from their reality show. I really hope this was all the screen time they got.

u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 23 days ago
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We have learnt more off the ladies tweeting/posting on socials than in the show

After seeing K Michelle's tweets insinuating something untoward happened at the Waldorf regarding Shamea, I'm officially fed up with the tweeting from everyone.

All the ladies this season have all the smoke in the confessionals & tweeting after the fact but in the actual scenes not being so open.

I'm also extremely bored with all the rumours & accusations about pastors & affairs with no proof or not wanting to give the source. I hope this is not what we're gonna have to deal with for a 3 part reunion.

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u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 1 month ago
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Kenya is top 5 most beautiful of all franchises I've watched.

In that top 5 & not in any order are:

- Chioma from Lagos Housewives

- Lesa from Dubai

- Porsha

- Mrs Mops from Johannesburg

EDIT: I get it some of you find her ugly due to her personality/soul. This post is about women I find beautiful face wise!

u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 2 months ago
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Shamea started with Angela

Remember the first episode she tried to bring up Drew not supporting Angela to try & cause division.

When they had that failed sit down Shamea also started it coming in hot.

Angela should have played this with more tact but Shamea can't also come for people & then play victim when she gets the energy back plus more

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u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 2 months ago
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I'm so bored of lesbian discussions on RHOA

The ladies must just talk about experiences with women or sex in general as they have nothing else as a collective they can talk about when they want to have light/fun talks.

I'm not a prude, just tired of the forced & constant innuendos to appear fun this season.

I've watched all seasons of RHONY before they were recast & they did it a lot too but it was funny & felt natural in the moment. This season of RHOA feels really forced.

u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 2 months ago
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If (and its a big IF) Drew is telling the truth, was K Michelle going to be her replacement?

IF this is true then Drew was about to be demoted to friend of next season or put on pause. Last season Drew was Porsha's storyline but at the reunion they sat her down at the end of the sofa.

From what I remember most of the cast were also invited onto Watch what Happens but I don't believe Drew was last season. Or if she did she came on towards the end of their season.

K Michelle has actually now given her a reason to be invited back next season but we'll see once this season finishes.

u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 2 months ago
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Shamea's jokes about Angela aren't funny

They also made another point with Shamea's jokes in the last episode relating to Angela having an air of transphobia & antiblackness.

I find Shamea's jokes either cringey or just bottom of the barrel. Also why do they talk about Angela's size so much cause apparently she's not even over 6 feet.

u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 3 months ago

Recommendations for tuscan style or colourful indoor plant pots?

Hi, I'm looking for colourful, blue & white or tuscan style indoor plant pots. Oliver Bonas has some cute ones but unfortunately too small. I'm looking for a diameter of 30cm & height 25cm at least.

Does anyone have any recommendations I can check out?

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u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 3 months ago
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Let's say the plot is real about Porsha wanting to bring the rumour about K Michelle from that ex, what would be gained?

Someone on tiktok made a good point asking if the plot was real, what was the end goal in exposing that a disgruntled ex said K Michelle had BV issues 8 yrs ago.

Especially for a veteran this would be the worst ever plot especially to an audience of women & not incels.

What would Porsha gain from that & were we meant to bask K for that even if it was true? If this plot was true what would the audience's reaction have been because I believe it would just make Porsha look bad & like a pick me.

I get when they're having arguments & in the moment say stuff about hot pockets but I've not seen anyone use that as a whole storyline to go against someone.

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u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 3 months ago
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K Michelle dropped the conversation she recorded with Nosh. Not exactly sure what this clip proves

Also she's upset if Drew linking her to Blakk whilst she's a married woman but is okay having long conversations with exes?

u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 3 months ago
▲ 140 r/rhori

Triggered by Alicia begging her long term partner & father of their child for 5 - 10% of something she helped create

I really hope by the reunion Alicia can say even if they're not married her name is on the house & with the business ownership at 50% because what the heck was that scene??

How is she coexisting with him in such a precarious situation? Please get advice from a lawyer Alicia on how you should protect yourself in the event things don't work out!

Edit: Apparently Alicia is MAGA & donated to Trump so I revoke my sympathy lol will just keep watching. This is the lifestyle conservative women yearn for. I wonder if Bravo payments to to a joint account Bill can then control

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u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 3 months ago
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Did the editors cut out all rhe times Drew bought up Black & K?

K Michelle was really mad & there must be something we're missing surely? Also K talking in riddles doesn't help cause you can never have a conversation with her when she doesn't want to be straightforward.

K Michelle tweets like a teenager trying to be deep & looking for attention so people message her to ask if she's okay.

You can't make accusations like this and not put a name on it. They should just walk away from her until she's ready to have an adult conversation.

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u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 3 months ago
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K Michelle is looking for a problem with Drew

K Michelle definitely sees Drew as easy pickings because she says shady stuff about Phaedra & Porsha but only in confessionals but has no problem mentioning her issues with Drew.

She's clearly fighting for a storyline & chose who she deemed the weakest link.

Edit: She also fully lied that Drew was insinuating she was talking to Black & she's a married woman (unless producers cut that out because that didn't happen from what was aired)

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u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 3 months ago
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I'm a K Michelle fan & I was excited for her to join the show but her energy seems off.

Very confused why she couldn't attend dinner cause she had no glam squad but was still on camera at the pool house? She clearly heard Shamea & Kelli weren't going and she chose their side.

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u/Great_Marzipan7720 — 4 months ago