How do you know when to leave?
I've been married just over 3 years. I found out throughout the short time we've been married my husband has been in online sex chatrooms.
I found out a yr ago & he promised he had stopped. Recently I suspected he was still up to something but he denied it & even cried. We decided I needed to go to therapy so I could get over my paranoia of thinking his up to something.
Anyway it turns out I was right & I can't believe this pos was encouraging me to go to therapy whilst knowing he was lying to me.
I despise him & he makes me sick but both our parents are hoping with therapy we can work it out.
I already gave him.1 chance when I caught him. Would someone like this even change. In my heart I know his going to therapy to be performative, as he did last time, but really I suspect he'll just hide his tracks even better. His been waiting for me to go to bed or be out the house before messaging women & sending nudes.
He makes me sick & right now his taken away joy in my life. I want to end it now but how long would you wait before starting the divorce process?