u/Grouchy_Egret

Visiting from out of state and the hotel bed is killing me. Are there any malls around that have those massage chairs that I can use for like 10 minutes? Not looking for a formal lay down massage

What is an acceptable baby/toddler to caretaker ratio? Struggling in figuring out what is right in my mind and what I can afford

Im not sure if there's another way to do the softness test without cds. How did you test your mattress?

Looking to move up to clearlake/lower lake in a year or two for jobs. Recommendations on infant daycare? Not many reviews online.

First time being pregnant. My partner and I want to do co-sleeping. I am looking for a grow with me crib that can go on the side of the bed. Im not sure if every crib is made in similar quality.

I am struggling to figure out a nice way to set a boundary with my mom regarding the baby. What Ii want to yell out is "you dont get to hold them, dress them, etc however and whenever you want" but I know it could be said in a more respectful way.

I've already had mom ask when my husband and I did the deed...which was way over the line. And we are not close!

And then she commented that my "indian baby needs moccasins".. and could not see how that was racist (husband is part native)..

I need help 😭 they're set to move in with us and I'm definitely second guessing this decision

Or can I just look some free ones up on YouTube? Birthing class is my top priority; not sure if I need more than that?

On the verge of needing new clothes. How many new bras do you think I'll need? Any advice on other items welcome

First time being pregnant and I am already freaking about finances. Both my husband and I have school loans and credit card debt that still needs to be worked on. Can anyone give advice on saving? 🥲

Anyone know why they closed the highway? Bunch of cops on a hill with a drone seen from the other side