Hello !! I'm curious about inheritance clash stories in Arunachal. Koi apna experience ya dekha waala batao regarding land inheritance clash between relatives, siblings etc. Chahe bhai-bhai ka beech main ya bhai-behen ka beech main, aur final main kaisa solution nikla ? Koi court main le gaya jhagra ko ? aur court main kya solution nikla ? I'm curious.
Hello. Is there any knowledgeable person here who can inform me about any Arunachal Pradesh government website where all bills, acts, and legislation that are passed are notified ? Please share an exact, legit source.
I'm just curious, is it a common trait among adhd people of repeating the same story over and over again to friends and family? For example, I've already told an incident or some other personal information etc to a friend once. But I keep doing that over and over again over the years. For me, it feels like I'm telling that person for the first time. But my friends have listened to it for the 10th time, and we often laugh amongst ourselves about me relaying the same story to them many many times.
I thought I did it with just one friend (it's a joke between us). But recently my other good friends told me, I do it with them as well. They didn't tell me because they didn't want to be rude when I was telling the story with so much enthusiasm.
So I'm curious if it's a common experience or just a personal quirk ?
Hello all ! I'm a very new small content creator.
Please suggest some good but not complex mobile video editing apps for long videos like vlogs and all. I'm using Inshot Pro for now but it has very limited features in sounds, texts formats, text animation, etc I feel.
I've heard about Capcut but it's banned in India as we know.
I'll share one of the most disgusting experiences I've had one time in Itanagar. (F)
I was in 12th standard. Pretty young and naive. I had come to write an open exam for some other older relative. (Which is another hilarious story in itself as it was my first time being part of such a corrupt act, which I know is pretty common in Arunachal. I'll share some other day. )
The exam was in a government school in Itanagar. So after settling in the examination hall, finding my seat, I went to the washroom. There were two toilets, one for males and one for females, separated by only a wall.
I went into the female one, obv, and sat down to pee. I heard some faint metallic clinking or rattling noises from the other side of the wall. Followed by, to my utter horror and disgust, soft sounds of groaning and gasping, heavy breath sounds. The metallic clink noises were rhythmic, which I could only guess was from the hand movements and his watch or keys in the pocket idk. I heard some sloppy wet skin sounds as well. Some grown ass man was masturbating on the other side of the wall in BROAD daylight, in the midst of an exam. I was absolutely disgusted. But I had already started peeing so I couldn't just get up and leave. As soon as I was done peeing, I got up, my heart beating so fast and I rushed out of the toilet in utter disgust wanting to puke. I was really young at that time and it took a really long time before the ickiness of that experience slowly went away. What's wrong with people. Ghar main karo na eeewwww.
Hello friends. I'm 23(f). Today was my first psychiatrist consultation in my entire life. I ended up crying as soon as I opened my mouth which was so embarrassing. I wish the earth swallowed me right there. I mean I was fine even until sitting down on the chair, all happy², ready to discuss, feeling happy about the day, but as soon as she asked what you wanted to discuss...
I have had intense suspicions that I might have adhd. But I'd also have been open to the psychiatrist saying that I don't have adhd, so I can move on with my life where I can't blame every single personal lapse on adhd.
She said that adhd symptoms lessen over time as someone grows into an adult. (???)
I felt that the discussion was really surface level and a little rushed and ended within 30 minutes, even though she was pretty nice and seemed non-judgemental. I took really long pauses because i couldn't speak out without crying and It happened so suddenly. I guess, in these moments, we realise how much something actually bothered you from within.
I told her about my overthinking and how it affects my sleep. She didn't question further. But I didn't get the chance to tell her that it's not that I overthink about problems per se. My overthinking is about made up scenarios and speeches in my head. I'm not "worried" about a problem. Yes it happens sometimes when I'm nearing deadlines. But mostly it's just about made up fights, me leading some revolution, me in a conversation with a news reporter, me in a music video and so on.
I told her about my zoning out issues. About how when I'm on an Uber bike, I don't even realise where I've travelled and when I've reached the destination because I'm so zoned out with so many songs playing in my head, jumping from one thought to another,
Macavity~Macavity~there's~no~one~like~Macavity song in my head
but also thinking about this poster,
but wait focus on the road ! But Jumping into some other song or thought and scenario. Suffice to say kidnapping me wouldn't be a difficult task.
She asked me if I had a problem sitting still in the classroom etc growing up, but I don't remember, and I don't think I had. I was an A+ teacher's favourite student until late night preparations weren't enough for doing well in education.
We didn't even discuss how the concept of time seems to be mostly out of my grasp. I overestimate the time required to complete some task always. I overestimate my ability to finish a task within a time period.
I don't even remember half the discussions anymore. Or what she said. I'm just having that elated feeling that wow I went to a psychiatrist alone, I actually completed a task. I don't even want to eat the anxiety medication she prescribed because I feel like I'm FINE.
Also, since my uni break has started now, and I have no personal, social, career obligations or responsibilities, routines to attend to, I'm been feeling much better. So I don't even know how to assess the medication she prescribed me will affect me.
She said she will treat me with anxiety with 3 weeks of Fluoxetine 20 mg and Etizolam 0.25 mg medication. After studying my condition, she will try to see if I have adhd.
Should I continue the anxiety medication from tomorrow or try to find some other adhd specialist?
Guys, maybe I really overthunk it and convinced myself I have adhd.
Please share your thoughts. Also, I love and appreciate this community. There's something really reassuring about a non-judgemental community with whom you share so much of your experiences.
Hello guys help :)
I downloaded a gallery app from the playstore. My android phone didn't have preinstalled or system gallery app ( except the Google Photos app, which I don't like using)
While using that gallery app, I had kept some personal pics in a hidden folder in that gallery app.
Well after some months, I decided to use the Google Photos app, which also had all my images. And I uninstalled that gallery app from playstore, completely forgetting about my hidden folder inside that gallery app.
I cannot find those images in Google Photos anymore.
Is there any way it can be recovered ? Is it stored inside some system file ?
Please help.
Hello !! This is really urgent.
I have a 4g BSNL SIM from the Northeast region but now I'm in South Delhi. My BSNL shows no network here, maybe if I go in some obscure location, it shows R.
All my banking accounts are connected to this sim and now I cannot get anything banking related done.
Please help me to fix this BSNL issue and hopefully get some network.
Hey there. Any patient of Dr. Bhavneet Kaur in Lajpat Nagar Delhi ? Please share your experience. I'm going to a consultation with her.
Is it a common experience of just completely having an extremely lethargic, depression-like week where you just lay around for a whole week, barely getting up to drink water, dry throat, skipping meals, being hungry then stress eating some junk, doing absolutely nothing, scrolling, self-loathing, crying in between, then getting annoyed at your own self, finding it difficult to even do basic things like brushing teeth, taking a bath, questioning whether you have clinical depression or you're just "pretending", having absolutely negative thoughts about yourself and rest of the world and then one day you just get up, take a shower, arrange your room a lil bit and you think OH ! I'm fine !! Was it this easy and it was all in my head ?? (And of course you begin to doubt your own experience ki whether whatever you went through was just you being 'lazy' and 'acting') And then you'll be fine for some weeks, then again the same cycle.
Is it common or just me ?
One random question. Please reply.
I have to wear glasses because of obv like every other person nowadays, I have eyesight issues. Luckily it's not a high number, still I have to wear it during classes and all. It's only been like 4 years that I have been wearing.
I have noticed that my brain slows down whenever I wear glasses. Like the information infront of me doesn't reach my brain properly whether it's a lecture, a person giving information or just normal talking.
But when I don't use my glasses, my brain feels more "open", like a fog has been removed from my brain. But then my eyesight issues becomes the problem if the information is far away. (Like watching a class lecture from last bench)
So do y'all think it's related to adhd ? Does anyone else experience this ?
Hello, I'm currently looking for a psychiatrist for ADHD diagnosis in New Delhi. I have less budget, hence, i can't be wasting my money on the wrong doctors.
In my research, I found AMAHA and VIMHANS (especially Dr. Shivani Aggarwal) to be common names.
Please share your experience with me and tell me which is good.
I also don't want to visit government hospitals because I'm worried they won't give as much attention as needed. If you do have had good experience with any doctor, please share well.
Please don't ignore this.
Hello, I'm 23(f) studying in Delhi currently, been thinking about this for a long time. Since I learnt the word 'procrastination' (one of those moments where you feel like your pain finally had a name for it ). Even now, while reading the stories under this reddit page, I cried because I see myself in so many of these stories.
Even if I'm not diagnosed, at least I can tick it off the list.
My one concern is Will my parents be involved in the diagnosis process ??? I don't want them to be involved. They're not bad, but they're just old and grew up in the village, although they've done schooling. I really don't think they will be able to understand what I'm growing through and will be helpful. My father is I-used-to-study-under-candlelights kinda guy, but add another 10 levels to it. IF I do get diagnosed, then he might help, but before that, I know he will not be helpful.
• I cannot afford multiple sessions. At max, I can afford
• Recommend in steps what should I do to begin my diagnosis process.
• Recommend doctors
• Psychiatrist or Psychologists ? Is it okay if I cry infront of the doctor in the first session itself ?