14f looking for friends

I really love music, especially 50s-90s music. I love exercising, studying and learning about all subjects! I do talk a loottt, so I hope no one will mind. I love to go shopping, and do my hair. Etc, so feel free to hmu!! I do use reddit, at least for awhile. But sometimes I get many dm’s so sorry if i don’t reply

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u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 1 day ago

can anyone tell what my hair density seems like?

Also, does my hair seem healthy? I am trying to grow it out as a teen who wants longer hair . My hair used to look transparent very dry, so I think it looks a lot better now but i still feel like something is wrong with it

u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 19 days ago

which brow shape would suit me best?

14f, want to start experimenting with my look. i don’t touch my eyebrows often and when i do i hate it, but i wanna try something different. pls any advice is helpful!

u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 1 month ago

why is my weight going up but i look slimmer?

i'm 14f, i started going to the gym to lift more seriously. i wanna lose weight ultimately as im 5'5-5'6 and 135 Ibs. but, ever since i started going like my weight has been going up and im confused. It's not significant, today im like 137 Ibs. But, my goal is not to end up 140. and it's very confusing when i look slimmer.

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u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 2 months ago

How can I stop pulling my eyelashes out?

I don’t know where other sub to post this in. I’m not diagnosed with anything because I haven’t gotten the chance, and i’m not asking for a diagnosis. But, I really can’t stop ripping out my eyelashes. Especially if i’m brushing up on one of them and they hurt, I try to pull it out with my nails. Then I pull out any others that hurt and I will do it for minutes straight until there’s a bald spot in my eyelashes again . It makes me insecure as i’m 14f, and it’s not just one eye but both eyes. I don’t always pick at them but it’s more often that my new eyelashes don’t get chance to come in. And if i’m not doing that, i’m doing something else like biting my mouth or ripping out inflamed tastebuds, etc.

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u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 2 months ago

Can I just rot

I feel like I just wanna rot to death slowly in my room. My life is going down hill. I always had weird thoughts of wanting to kill myself since i was like 11 or 12. But every year I get older it’s like a new reason or new reasons for me to feel so horrible. I used to never harm myself but now I do. I have zero friends since I moved because of my horrible mother and lost all my things and life all over again. I got forced to live with my grandmother who’s wonderful but she unintentionally just makes me feel like a failure. I could run myself into the ground from exercising and somehow she doesn’t notice or still thinks i’m never productive or anything. I have zero hobbies too. It’s so depressing. I have many problems, like with my body too. I feel
so disgusting and fat and huge. Whe I harm myself I just carve insults into my skin and watch it swell then disappear. I try to get skinnier but I can’t stop
eating… my older bf hes not good. It’s like he doesn’t understand my mental health at all, and how dependent i am on him as im 14 now and known him since foreverrr.

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u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 2 months ago

is this normal or what is it?

I started jump roping and when i do it’s usually like 30-50 mins long. When i go that long , I often get moments where I just feel like warped. Or, like what i’m doing isn’t real. I feel like “am i even jumping rn”, “how am I doing this”. Even when I started to go to bed the other night, I still kept getting these moments and it’s kinda trippy😔

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u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 3 months ago

any idea how i can get leaner? (14f)

I am a beginner in fitness. Though i’m like lightly to moderately active, I think I have an “athletic” physique already but I want to look more lean and stuff. I’m not sure how to do this, my mother suggested body recomp to me but I wanna also lose weight completely not just do body recomp. i’m 5’5-5’6 and 135 lbs, i workout at home with little weights for now for practice. Should i continue with this or no? And does cardio actually help any? If you have any more advice pls tell me

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u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 3 months ago

why does everyone claim to have mental problems, but when they meet or see someone with actual problems they hate on them and r unnecessarily rude/misunderstanding?

I am asking because i js seen this happen a loottt. For me even, I made a post on here about my body asking if im fat and everyone was attacking me. Saying im baiting n stuff, when I genuinely feel like this. I restrict diet a lot n overexercise, cry over how fat i am, etc. I’m 14f, so even when i am in public settings with others around my age i get very insecure that when i get home im very stressed over my appearance and body.

But it really upset me that people were being unnecessarily insensitive and rude. Someone even told me “girl ed’s haven’t been popular since the 2000s” and im like bruh. So what? Js bcuz they haven’t been “popular” doesn’t mean they suddenly went away. I have a friend with her own fair share of troubles mentally and many people are extremely mean to her. I get people with issues can act wack, or unnecessarily rude, etc. But i don’t think it’s always out of malice intent, and for my friend this is the case. She’s very sweet. I see many people always claim and romanticize mental problems but when someone shows actual signs and symptoms of these problems they become hateful and it’s very annoying

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u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 3 months ago

do i still have chance to get taller

i’m 14 and a girl😭. I’m like 5’5-5’6 or so, but my goa height is like 5’8. Do i have chance to get taller? My mom is like 5’4-5’5 and my dad is 6’3 but idk everyone says girls stop growing at this age or when they start menstruating which i have

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u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 3 months ago

finally hit above my steps goal for first time in awhile

I moved so my whole routine changed and I didn’t get as many steps for a little bit. But now i’m back😍

u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 3 months ago

guys pls help im so nervous and anxious im 14 y/o im going to be flying alone for the first time tomorrow. I don’t know how this works i barely fly in general, it shouldn’t be a long flight we are gonna have a layover too. Airports look so confusing and my anxiety is telling me i’m gonna get lost or something, what do i do?

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u/Healthy-Door-1960 — 4 months ago