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Me and my girl best friend (im a guy) are going to my countries version of prom together and need an interesting pose for the opening pose we do after a short walk in.

we dont have much time to prepare the pose (maybe 3 seconds) so it has to be something organic but we dont really want to go with some boring standing arm in arm and smiling, we want something more extra while still staying in style if you know what i mean?

any pose recomendations that are different but still not too outlandish and can be done as close friends (obviously all the couple poses arent really suited for us).

I was in a kind of unwanted situationship that just so happen to form because we got closer than any type of friendship would be but couldnt really make a serious relationship work due to us both moving for university soon.

now i finally had the heart to start the "what are we and what this will end up being" talk...

in the end we both agreed that the logical thing and best for both of us would be to go over to a sort of best friends dynamic and just focefully shut out the romantic part in order to not hurt either one of us in the end when we have to inevitably split up (long distance relationship isnt really an option due to past bad experience on one side).

while i feel like this talk has helped us both understand each other better and actually makes our relationship or rather friendship now feel closer, i cant quite stop thinking and getting sad about all the stuff we didnt do yet and that will probably never happen/ wont be between the both of us which i at some point really wished for.

we talked about going camping together, romantic walkes on the beach, some more movie nights like we did before, and just things like her laying in my arms and just enjoying the moment.

i really really miss some of thoose things and am having a hard time moving on from it, im doing my best to look forward to the future, but every now and then thoughts, like the fact that she is the first girl in my whole life so far to be like her and im not even sure if i will ever find someone as 'fitting' as her, cross my mind.

also the fact that i will probably gnaw on this lost relationship, which she herself said she would have wished we just met half a year sooner so we could have grown stronger into something serious before such a life changing time like going away for university starts.

While i deeply long for someone who i can love and have in my life, i will probably not be able to even look at other girls for quite a long time without thinking about the one i lost and not even over a one sided breakup but because we both went for the reasonable solution that would leave us with the least pain i guess.

my future self will probably thank me for not just thinking with my heart, but right now i feel like i lost a one of a kind person and it will probably take a long time for me to just be ready to accept that there are others who can grow to be as special asshe was to me

little rant and kind of a cry for advice on how to cope i guess?

Planning to play a Vampire with a strong flower theme; idk just really want to incoorperate flowers into the character asthetic while still playing a charisma class

Edit: this will be a backup character for a campain currently at level 10

playstyle whise i want to really lean into the strong control and manipulation of the battlefield.

i feel like some of the subclasses (especiallly Eloquence) are way better for casting the big safe or suck spells than others, while other subclasses like creation or glamour make it easier leaning into the powerfull (summoning stuff out of thin air) and glamorous asthetic of a vampire

This girl and I have been in a Situationship for about the last 3 months but i can see it fading at the moment.

She is taking so much longer to respond, only responds in short messages, doesnt really initiate anything anymore...

There is a few things planned for the next few weeks that we planned while she still seemed really into our situationship, but i feel like she just doesnt have the heart to tell me now that she is no longer interested now?

Im gonna try to enjoy the next 2 weeks but as its looking right now this will probably sadly end with us parting ways/ me being pushed into the frienzone.

This is honestly really hard on me since she is the first girl ive ever been romantic with and also the only girl that was in any way like her.

Im really gonna miss the times we cuddled and just enjoyed each others love and talked for hours.

Any advice on how to cope with this?

I started a new run intending to do a sword and board + fire incants/ ashes of wars build and randomly got the nobles slender sword at like 20 minutes into the game.

since it fits the sword and board playstyle i will probably use it in my build.

how should i make my stats to get the most out of it? or rather is my current intendet playstyle a good fit for nobles slender sowrd? or does it not perform good in a swoard and board fire build?

Nächste Woche Mittwoch ist es so weit und ich habe kein plan was und wie ich lernen soll.

Aussprache und Wortschatz ist bei mir 1ser Bereich aber halt einfach weil ich viel Englisch social media nutze. Hab dementsprechend seit 4+ Jahren schon nicht mehr für Englisch lernen müssen.

Was muss man alles im mündlichen Abi englisch können?

Im an lvl 10 Astral Self Monk (2014).

recently my dm gave me a grappling hook like item which does 1d6 dmg (scales with monk dmg dice) has 20 ft range and can grapple and pull enemies/ objects closer to me or me to them. so basicly i now have a 20 ft long arm which only restriction is that it cant push.

im also playing as a gunner monk and have spider slippers equiped.

i myself see alot of potential for some walking on the ceiling and pulling people up then dropping them for some prone+fall dmg action

also just really cinematic pulling people into the barrel of my loaded shotgun lol

any other shenanigans you guys can come up with that a lvl 10 monk with that item can pull?

Hab heute erst angefangen zu lernen und Mathe nächste Woche Mittwoch wird mich absolut durchnehmen.

Weiß immer noch nicht warum ich Mathe LK gewählt habe....