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Women in Science by Rachel Ignotofsky, 500 pcs, Potter Puzzles
A very fun and easy puzzle to do. Also learned so much while doing it.
Can we please stop turning this sub into a "I cant find a CF partner" support group?
I've been part of this sub for quite some time now. Previously there used to be worthwhile discussions and I remember someone even making a wordpress post about how they don't want to have kids and how they would be sharing it with their parents to let them understand their stance (I understand that it's not required to convince ones parents but sharing it with parents & friends would help them knowing where the world is headed).
In the past few months, I've noticed that a significant chunk of the posts here lately are basically variations of "I am CF and I cant find anyone to date/marry", "Why is it so hard to find a CF partner?", or general despair about being unable to find a partner because of being childfree.
Honestly, I get it. Dating as a childfree person in India can be difficult. It sucks when you meet someone you really like and then discover that you're fundamentally incompatible on something as important as having children. But not finding a partner is not the end of the world.
You can have a fulfilling life without a romantic partner by doing various things and there are plenty of ways to build a meaningful life -- friends, family, hobbies, communities, travel, work, pets, volunteering, creative pursuits, whatever.
We already have CF4CF Sundays specifically for people looking for other childfree people to date. Use that space.
The rest of the week could maybe be about being childfree, sharing experiences, discussions, navigating family pressure, relationships, friendships, finances, hobbies, books/movies, dealing with social expectations, etc.
I've also seen someone mentioning that the ones who aren't looking for partners should add a flair saying that they're not looking. I don't really understand why I should change my own flair..
Please don't make finding a partner the central prerequisite for having a happy CF life. You don't need to find "the one" before you're allowed to enjoy the life you chose.
Ame no Hi no Orusuban (Staying Home Alone on a Rainy Day) by Chihiro Iwasaki (1918 - 1974)
https://chihiro.jp/en/foundation/collection/chihiro-iwasaki/#work-950007
This work depicts the loneliness and wavering feelings of a girl who is staying home alone.
Bubble Quack by Jigsaw Nation, 500 pc
Artist: Murtaza M. Bookwala. This is also my first circular puzzle. This is such a beautiful puzzle and it FLOWED. I completed it in one sitting and got into hyperfocus mode.
Flight Exhibition Illustration by Webby, 252 pieces
A really good and easy puzzle to get into speed puzzling.
The Untold Side of Womanhood | Choosing a Life Without Kids
Documentary about women who decide not to have children.
Romb by Rachel Oates (a pro-choice, childfree poem)
There’s a room in my house
That everyone has an opinion about.
Some days, I’ll be sitting at home
When a gaggle of people barge in,
uninvited,
to inspect the room.
They warn me
‘It’s no use sitting empty.’
‘Think of the potential.’
‘Be more grateful.’
‘Some people aren’t lucky enough to have a room like this.’
I’m sorry for them,
of course,
but why do they get to decide
What I do with my room in my house?
Daily, I’m interrogated
From every angle:
‘How many people have passed through here?’
How long did they stay?’
And then, squinting at me, with hushed voices:
‘Did they leave or did you evict them?’
They look at me like I’m a monster,
a landlord from hell
to a room that’s always been vacant.
‘This just won’t do.’ They chastise,
‘And who wants an old, used room anyway?’
Storming out in disgust,
They don’t hear my sigh of relief.
As the years go by,
I place a padlock and chain around the room
Only to have men in suits show up with
Paper bolt cutters to tear it down.
Men, women and children saunter in
With buckets of paint,
ladders, hammers, and a measuring tape
They legislate to redecorate before,
In their words, it gets too late.
They tell me I need a minimum of 3 previous occupants
And to marry a man who who’ll decide for me
Before they trust a silly little woman like me
To place a lock on her own property
Without my locks,
I live in fear that one day I’ll wake up
And find an unwanted guest in my spare room,
A plague or pest, or a strange, dark mould will sneak in;
At first so subtle I don’t even notice it,
But quickly and quietly it will spread through the rest of my home,
Decaying and degrading as it goes.
The neighbours pop round and tut at me
As I’m furiously scrubbing the walls until I bleed
To remind me that each life is precious
And that they’d kill for a spore or two of their own.
They don’t realise that where they see pets and guests,
I see only pain and pests so unwelcome,
I’d rather burn my home to the ground than keep them there.
A friend of mine, has a roommate,
who keeps her up all night,
And makes a lot of noise,
and leaves her stuff all over the house,
And she often asks me,
With bags under her eyes
and pity on her face,
and just a quiet hint of envy in her voice.
‘Doesn’t it get quiet?
Lonely?
Sad.
Sure, you like the silence now,’ she warns,
‘But what about the future? You’ll change your mind’
I want to remind her that I didn’t comment
when she painted her walls bright pink
or spent 3 month’s wages on a new sofa
or built 2 new extensions before she’d paid off the first.
but I don’t
Because it’s still
not my business.
There’s a room in my house
And sometimes it feels like everyone’s voice is louder than mine.
But when I’m alone
I can sit in that room,
And enjoy it,
Appreciate it,
Really get to know it,
I run my fingers along it’s smooth walls
Lay on the thick, soft carpets,
And stare up at the unblemished ceiling.
I bask in the calm and the quiet
and inhale the scent of freedom and home
And the joy of being alone that is so uniquely me.
And once I’ve reminded myself
that empty does not mean it is
without purpose,
without beauty,
without joy,
empty is not lonely,
or cold,
or wasted potential,
empty is exactly what I make of it:
My responsibility, my gift and my burden,
And I won’t bend or break or lean or fall
I’ll maintain my right to close the door
because I can
I close the door because there’s a room in my house
And it’s all mine.
(Romb - pronounced 'room' - is a play on the words room / womb.)
Fractured Communities by Umar khalid is free on kindle for limited time
Go, get it for free!!
Puppy & Rabbits by Frank, 500 pieces
This is such a cute puzzle and I was able to complete it in two sittings. I wish the piece fitting was better.
Sharing some poetry I read recently
Been reading some poems recently. So sharing it. Please do share the poems you like as well. :)