I know its might be dumb question and I can ask Ai about it ,but I like to hear it from real people 😅
edit: thanks to all of you guys for your answers,I read all of it 💜
the generosity Ukranians have and willing to help others makes me more interested in your culture
Slava Ukraini!
Hi, I’m a 25M from Libya with a BSc in Mobile Computing, currently earning $200/month remotely from working mobile app and website dev job in ksa . I need to relocate somewhere safe with proper infrastructure, better climate, and actual human rights.
ill give 2 reasons that happened to me in the same week:
Collapsed Healthcare & Services: Spent 5 hours searching for basic ear infection treatment; public and private options failed, and the main city hospital had no power.
Zero Safety & Police Inaction: An attacker tried to stab me and throw a butcher knife at me and hit me from the back while others were holding me after a car crash that he doesn't have any related thing in it , and police told me to locate the armed suspect myself and turned out they were trolling me.
this is only 2 stories from the same one week of my life, and there's others more.
also
Constant Deterioration: Living conditions and security worsen every single day.
payments are very low compared to the huge inflation.
going out here is like a Dice game , you don't know if you could come back home later without some teenager that's is driving an armed car from a stolen money to kill you or humiliated you just because you forgot to clear the road for him , or some militias member They oppress the people for no reason (exactly how it looks like in the movies about African countries)
and let's not talk about the racism.
Given my tech degree and remote experience, what are my most realistic options/pathways to relocate?
I do like to relocate somewhere like Finland Lithuania Romania Slavic countries or just anywhere within EU.
im not seeking being an immigrant with low rights or seeking a new citizenship. I just want to feel like im living like a human and not lower than animals right that the warlords lions or pets have
Hi, I’m a 25M from Libya with a BSc in Mobile Computing, currently earning $200/month remotely from working in dev job in ksa . I need to relocate somewhere safe with proper infrastructure, better climate, and actual human rights.
ill give 2 reasons that happened to me in the same week:
Collapsed Healthcare & Services: Spent 5 hours searching for basic ear infection treatment; public and private options failed, and the main city hospital had no power.
Zero Safety & Police Inaction: An attacker tried to stab me and throw a butcher knife at me and hit me from the back while others were holding me after a car crash that he doesn't have any related thing in it , and police told me to locate the armed suspect myself and turned out they were trolling me.
this is only 2 stories from the same one week of my life, and there's others more.
also
Constant Deterioration: Living conditions and security worsen every single day.
payments are very low compared to the huge inflation.
going out here is like a Dice game , you don't know if you could come back home later without some teenager that's is driving an armed car from a stolen money to kill you or humiliated you just because you forgot to clear the road for him , or some militias member They oppress the people for no reason (exactly how it looks like in the movies about African countries)
and let's not talk about the racism.
Given my tech degree and remote experience, what are my most realistic options/pathways to relocate?
I do like to relocate somewhere like Finland Lithuania Romania Slavic countries or just anywhere within EU.
im not seeking being an immigrant with low rights or seeking a new citizenship. I just want to feel like im living like a human and not lower than animals right that the warlords lions or pets have
is there's a connection between being introvert and having mental issues like depression,adhd,anxiety and many other issues?
almost all the posts I see here the OP describe their selves as a depression or going through sadness phase
I want to make online friends that I can discuss anything with and ofc they can do too 💜
we can be talking about our daily lives or be a vent for each other and try to discuss issues
the reason for this is that im very bad at making new friends. "Even though if you ask my irl friends, they will say the opposite." it feels like im wearing a heavy mask just to hold conversations with them, but once I get comfortable, I stop feeling like that, and I can be truly me.
also i want to meet new people from different ethnicity and cultures, and dont get me wrong or call me simp but I always wanted to feel more comfortable with talking to girls,Idk why I get heavily uncomfortable talking to girls at my work or before in college and to my female friends in private
and please be in a time zone close to GMT+2 because i hate to reply late to others, and I hate when it happens to me
if this sounds creepy im sorry 💀 i can provide pic of me or my other platform account, its just something that I never did before and im kinda nervous 🫠
have a nice day 💜
exactly a month ago we were talking and everything was completely fine and she even start showing me her new nails ,and in the middle of talking she disappeared and only answered me 3 days later with "sorry ny parents are slightly in trouble thats why im a bit absent" and stopped again and answered me after 4 days with " im still trying to make my parents feel better"
in all this period of time, she gets online every day and very frequently, but she doesn't open up my msgs even if i schedule sending msg the moment she gets online, so I decided to give her time and stop spamming her,but yesterday was her birthday and I sent her a birthday msgs while she was online and again she didn't open it
i dont know what to do or how to feel,and i can't say or ask advice from my friends because the only thing they will say is that she has other guy and ditched me,even if I tell them how was she acts or what our topics were in the last 3 days
exactly a month ago we were talking and everything was completely fine and she even start showing me her new nails ,and in the middle of talking she disappeared and only answered me 3 days later with "sorry ny parents are slightly in trouble thats why im a bit absent" and stopped again and answered me after 4 days with " im still trying to make my parents feel better"
in all this period of time, she gets online every day and very frequently, but she doesn't open up my msgs even if i schedule sending msg the moment she gets online, so I decided to give her time and stop spamming her,but yesterday was her birthday and I sent her a birthday msgs while she was online and again she didn't open it
i dont know what to do or how to feel,and i can't say or ask advice from my friends because the only thing they will say is that she has other guy and ditched me,even if I tell them how was she acts or what our topics were in the last 3 days
edit: she really can be going through something because it happened before, but it was only for a week
hey
I want to ask you how you deal with being horny and sexing with your LDR.
I dont feel comfortable about doing it on I feel its weird and disgusting. have anyone had the same feeling?
I dont want to be selfish and dont give my gf what she wants or what can make her feel better but since the start i told her that i dont want any sexting and she agreed, but now i feel like she wants it and I dont want to say no to fulfill some of her needs
Hello, I'm in an LDR for 2 months. We've already confessed our love to each other and shared a lot of personal stuff and deep secrets.
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The thing is, she can go a day without talking to me because she works multiple jobs, and I'm completely fine with that. But when something bad happens in her life or with her family, she disappears and doesn't even reply to my texts. After she deals with the problem, she comes back better than before (showing more love and care). When she returns, she tells me she doesn't want me to feel bad about her problems and always says how much she appreciates my patience with her.
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However, every time I text her during these difficult moments, she will be online and won't reply to me, even if I send a message the exact moment she comes online. She has done this before, and now she's doing the same thing again.
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Even though I know what's happening with her and understand her reasoning, I still feel bad and sad that she doesn't let me help her, or even reply back when she's online.
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I don't know if it's a cultural thing with Slavic people, but it's very hard for me.
Hello, I'm in a LDR for 2 months. We've already confessed our love to each other and shared a lot of personal stuff and deep secrets.
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The thing is, she can go a day without talking to me because she works multiple jobs, and I'm completely fine with that. But when something bad happens in her life or with her family, she disappears and doesn't even reply to my texts. After she deals with the problem, she comes back better than before (showing more love and care). When she returns, she tells me she doesn't want me to feel bad about her problems and always says how much she appreciates my patience with her.
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However, every time I text her during these difficult moments, she will be online and won't reply to me, even if I send a message the exact moment she comes online. She has done this before, and now she's doing the same thing again.
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Even though I know what's happening with her and understand her reasoning, I still feel bad and sad that she doesn't let me help her, or even reply back when she's online.
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I don't know if it's a cultural thing with Slavic people, but it's very hard for me.
I dont know if im overthinking or not
I (now 25M) got in more than once experience where I felt uncomfortable.
It's my first time confessing this, and I never told anyone about before.
The first time happened when I was 12 yo or younger , me and my father used to go to the men hot spa ( the one with a big pool and you got to rub your skin hard to remove all the death skin and dirt) every couple of months , my father cleaned me and I got dressed and waited for him in the car while it was his time to rub himself and then shower , we had very high car like truck that you need to climb it and also was parked away from other cars and people ,so no one was able to full reach me easily trough the window , but some guy came close and start talking to me and wanted me to open the door for him to talk better ,when I refused he started to tell me let go to get things for me from the market while waiting for my father to come ,also i didn't act and when felt like someone is coming close to the car he left immediately.
the second time was also in the same place and i was older and still under 18 , but inside next to the pool , I was sitting alone and my father was chatting with other in the pool where random guy came out of nowhere and set next to me very close (the sitting spots is like a room where you put your things and others shouldn't come in the same spot).
I was a little drowsy because of the steam, and he asked me if I came alone and I said no im with my father, and he asked me which one was he, and I told him.
then for like 3 to 5 minutes he didn't say a thing and started to close the distance between us until our hands touched, I took my hand back but he did the same again ,then i figured out what happening and panicked and run out of the pool and went out to the car , my father asked me why I did that but I kept quiet and didn't tell him.
the rest were just gay people approaching me online or irl, and this happened before and 18 yo to my 20 i guess, and then it's stopped.
since then, im very terrified by gay ,tran,fem, or any not straight men.
I don't look cute or beautiful or give any gay signs, and it makes me depressed
the memories keep coming in my head, and it made me feel less as man and always scared to face other men even in a fight
im building gym app and i want real videos for it.
and is there any api with free development plan?
A bit about me: I’m 25, 181cm (6ft I guess), Mediterranean Arab, brown skin, and I’d describe myself as a "low-key social" person. I’m definitely a better listener than a talker—though once I’m comfortable, my sarcastic side definitely comes out. i like animals but mostly cats , and I like funny videos and memes so we gotta add each other on TikTok.
random things about me:
About you 👀
i don't have a huge preferences for a partner but it will be like :
Someone between 20–35years old, so not too young or too old for my age (but if you not in this range feel free to dm me 2 ☺️).
Idc about your height.
idc about weight either, but i don't want a too Chubby or too skinny.
Open to long-distance.
ethnicity doesn't bother me, but somehow i feel more attracted to lighter skin than me.
close to Europe timezones.
Someone who eventually wants a serious and genuine relationship.
huge bonus if you are :
funny or nerdy yapper .
Likes cats.
Wants children.
Muslim or christen.
into anime and gaming.
What I’m looking for:
I want to find someone I can be completely myself around. I’m looking for that balance where we can have deep, serious conversations about life one minute, and then I’m teasing you or "rag-baiting" you for fun. Ultimately, I just want a connection where there’s zero judgment—but most of the time ,someone i can be completely open to and don't judge me for it .
Hi everyone. I’m 25 (turning 26 in November) from Libya. I’m looking for a Long Distance Relationship rather than something local. I’m open to serious dating, but I also really like the idea of starting as friends and seeing if it naturally blossoms into something more.
Here is a little bit about who I am:
I’m 6'0" tall, Arab with brown skin.
im cat person; I don't own one right now because, unfortunately, i had to give my 🫒, but I'll get a new one soon.
I don't drink alcohol and never will.
I’m happy to swap pictures once we get to know each other a bit and feel comfortable!
My Vibe: I’m definitely an ambivert. I can be a little quiet at first, and I'm not always the best at initiating conversations, but once I warm up to you, I’m an open book.
How I Spend My Time: I enjoy a good balance of staying active and relaxing.
I love getting outside, taking long walks, and just appreciating nature (and I have a big soft spot for the street cats I see along the way).
I like to go to the gym, but I've been on and off because of my last uni semesters pressure,but now im back after i finished uni
When I’m unwinding at home, I enjoy a good storyline—whether that's watching a show or reading manga , or playing some fps games like Valorant PUBG Overwatch or Rocket League, i also play other game and open to play new ones if you want.
Who I'm looking for:
A woman between the ages of 20 and 30.
Someone who is family-oriented. I definitely want kids in the future, so someone who wants to be a mother one day is a must for me.
Someone nice who either shares my hobbies or is excited to introduce me to hers!
Since I don't drink, I am looking for someone who also isn't a heavy drinker/alcoholic.
Physical preference: Just to be upfront about what I'm attracted to, I tend to lean toward women with lighter skin tones.
How to reach out:
Congratulations if you made it this far! If you genuinely feel like we might be compatible, please reach out. Since I'm not the best at starting conversations, it would be awesome if you sent a message that tells me a bit about yourself rather than just a 'hi.' Ultimately,