u/Idontwanttousethis

Hi everyone, so I'm working on a new piece right now, its a relatively simple byzantine necklace with a few other bits added in to add some more character to it, but I'd really like to add a pentagram to it to really spice it up, but I have no idea what weave would work to give it enough structure to hold it together, just wondering if anyone has ideas on a weave that would allow something like this to work!

Hi everyone. So finally taking that plunge and coming out to my mum, unfortunately there is a high chance it will not go well.

I am very close to my mum, and she is very important to me so I wish to do this in person rather than sending a letter or online in some way. With that said I know theres a risk of a bad reaction, her reaction won't be great in general I don't think it's just a matter of how bad it is. It might be a small upset, or could forever change our relationship, so I want to do this in public to prevent a bad reaction.

My plan is to meet somewhere for dinner with her, and I'm going to turn up fulling presenting as myself and let her see, and then talk through it. But I'm stuck on where to do this, ideally looking for a semi-private place where we can sit down and talk, but also still public in the event it doesn't go well.

Any suggestions on where to do so?

Im going to start this off with a quick disclaimer: I am not trying to use this subreddit for dating. Do not comment or message me with the intent of trying to meet or date me.

With that out the way, hi everyone! So pretty much, dating apps are going terribly, they are horrendous for my self esteem and generally extremely harmful for me, so I really need to get off them, but I still really want to be getting out there and meeting new people, and really want to find a partner.

Does anyone have suggestions or recommendations on where to go or what do in order to kinda just get out there and meet new people, or any kinda dating events? Also probably worth noting, im in my early 20s, wouldn't be interested in anyone in 30s or above. Bars and pubs are generally out of the question for me on account of being sober and getting overstimulated very easily.

So basically yeah how tf do I "get out there"

Bit of a vent but also if you have advice I'll take it.

It just fucking feels so impossible that I'll ever get an progress towards hair removal like this.

Everywhere is either too expensive, booked out, or not taking new clients at all. Livemore is the only real place I can afford it at, but for an appointment time I can make, its nearly 3 months away. And even then I can barely afford to get it done. i've got extremely thick and dense hair and its going to take me so long to make progress and will be so fucking expensive.

I just dont know what to do. I feel so trapped with this, like I've got no option at all to ever make progress on hair removal.

So just wondering if anyone possibly has experience with this? I'm in a bit of a tight spot where I cannot afford electrolysis right now, but I do have a very large super balance, well over triple the average for my age, and I have worked in superannuation and have a very good understanding of it, so I am comfortable making this withdrawal.

But im not quite sure if I can do this? I know it can be done for surgeries, like FSS or GRS, but does anyone know if electrolysis is on the table?
I have extremely thick and dense hair, so its likely going to take me far towards the longer side to get all my hair gone, by my estimates will be about 3.5k to get it all out.

So for context, the leviathans are a creature from the book of the war, from the doctor who universe.

These creatures are up to 150 quadrillion light years long. Over 3.3 million times longer than what our universe is wide, living in the void between universes.

Fiction has many giant creatures, but most of the cap out at several galaxies large, some surpass this and are larger than universes, but this one, over 3 million times longer than our universe, iss there any creature from fiction that even compares to this?

It was a complicated situation, a very complicated one. He didn't want to leave me but had to.
I know that sounds vague, but it would take me hours to type out the full situation. It's not a "if he wanted to, he would have" situation, believe me I wish it was because that would make it so much easier to end this and move on.

When he ended it, he ended it quickly, and I didn't get closure, that sucked, and I had move on without closure. But I haven't been able to move on without closure, and for me to move on now, I need closure. If I message him, he might respond and give me that closure, or he won't respond, and that will be my closure.

But when it ended, it ended with the door left slightly open, there is a chance in the future that we will be able to reconnect. When I first started considering messaging him to ask for closure I didn't do it because I didn't want to do anything that would make him uncomfortable, but I need to do this for my sake, and I don't believe it to be crossing a boundary for me to message him, again this might sound weird and vague, but the context behind this is so hard to explain, please just trust when I say this.

But now I don't want to message him because I've realised that if I do message him, things are over, the door is closed and will not open again.

I dont know if we ever will reconnect, but I loved him so much and so deeply, Im still holding onto that chance.