Anyone pregnant post loss and if so, when are you sharing? Keep seeing so many horror stories online.

hi all! I hope everyone is healthy and happy❤️

I’m currently 13w4d after 3 early losses last year. baby has been looking great so far and I’ve been easily able to find her heartbeat with a doppler everyday. NIPT was low risk with 21% FF.

I’m trying so hard to get excited, and I’m in a space where I want to share so it can feel real and exciting but everytime I think i’m there, I just wonder if i’m going to go to my next US and get bad news whether it’s the baby’s not growing or something’s wrong. My FYP and feeds keep showing me second tri loss stuff and random circumstances that are scaring me.

If you’re post loss, or not, when are you sharing publicly? What’s your headspace like?

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 days ago

What are you guys putting on a baby registry? I seriously have no idea what I even need or what’s normal😭

Hi everyone!

I hope you’re all well! I’m only 11 weeks but just started thinking about a potential baby registry and It’s so overwhelming because I have no idea what’s even supposed to go one one or what I should ask for. I don’t know if anyone’s even made there’s yet but I’d love some ideas, websites or if someone’s even willing to share theirs I’d love that!

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 21 days ago

Pregnancy after loss is so hard. At the same GA as my last loss and the anxiety is really getting to me.

Hi everyone! I hope you’re all happy, healthy and doing well❤️

Just wanted to clear my head or get some support if anyone felt inclined to share.

I’m currently 9w5d after having 2 chemicals and a MMC at 9w2d in December.

I’ve had quite a few scans already because I’m a literal OCD freak (I’m medicated and doing better but can’t help it) and everything looks good so far. I had two close together with one being at 8w6d FHR of 175 and then I got another at 9w2d as that was when my baby stopped growing last time and FHR was 165.

I have my 10 week appointment on Friday which is the same appointment I discovered my baby stopped growing a few days earlier last time and I’m just so nervous and stressed about getting bad news. I don’t feel pregnant really or feel anything in there and my symptoms have gotten a lot better so it’s hard to feel like something isn’t wrong. I just feel so helpless.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 29 days ago

Has anyone else lost symptoms around 7-8 weeks?

I’m really panicking. I just don’t feel pregnant at all. I was having pretty bad nausea, food aversions, exhaustion and now it’s so minimal. I’ve had no cramping or feelings down there and my brain is really telling me something is wrong.

I had a scan 6 days ago where baby was measuring on time/slightly ahead at 7w3d with a RHR of 152 and since the day after the ultrasound, I feel completely different and preparing for bad news. I’ve had 3 previous losses- 2 chemicals and a 9w loss. I just in my bones don’t feel pregnant.

I have an ultrasound at my OB on Wednesday and I don’t know why but I’m feeling like they’re going to have give me bad news again and I feel so embarrassed.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 1 month ago

7.5weeks and symptoms have really faded, don’t feel as pregnant anymore

7w5d ish and over the last 3-4 days my symptoms have majorly subsided. I’m still tired but my nausea is WAY better and my coffee aversion seems to almost be subsiding. I had a scan on Monday where baby was measuring ahead with a FHR of 152, but ever since the day after I just feel way less pregnant and like something’s wrong. After 3 losses I’m guarding my heart. I have a US at my OB next week and I’m embarrassed to get bad news again.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 1 month ago

First trimester; I’ve been so lazy, tired, undisciplined. Does it get better?

I’m currently 7w5dish after 3 previous losses last year. After my losses I dedicated myself to a whole foods diet, lifting weights, cardio, and overall good fitness.

Ever since I got my positive test, I have literally thrown that out the window. I eat so much sugar, carbs, sleep multiple times a day, don’t workout, don’t get anything done. I’m not a person who can ever sit still but it truly feels like I’m glued to my bed.

I’m feeling horribly about myself, like I’ve undone all my progress and I’m just useless. Does it ever get better?

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 1 month ago

first time watcher, why does haley lowkey drive me crazy?!

I’m halfway through season 2 and I don’t even know WHY but haley lowkey drives me crazy. she’s always upset about something or moving soooo weird I can’t explain it sorry guys just needed to see if it was just me

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

Scared to lift weights, so tired and lazy. Really feeling down on myself.

Last year, I had 3 losses that encouraged me to really start a wellness journey. I ate a whole foods diet, worked out daily, lifted weights, had abs and muscle and was all together at my best.

I’m now 6w4d ish and since I got my first positive and I’ve thrown everything I worked so hard for out the window. I’ve been eating bad, sleeping all day, I look soft and flabby, eating tons of sugar, and I’m feeling really down about it but everything I should be eating doesn’t sound good and I’m so tired I can’t fathom working out.

I’m also really scared to lift weights. I know people say it’s safe but I’m so scared of hurting the baby, overheating, etc.

Any insight or encouragement appreciated.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

Scared to lift weights, so tired and lazy.

Last year, I had 3 losses that encouraged me to really start a wellness journey. I ate a whole foods diet, worked out daily, lifted weights, had abs and muscle and was all together at my best.

I’m now 6w4d ish and since I got my first positive and I’ve thrown everything I worked so hard for out the window. I’ve been eating bad, sleeping all day, I look soft and flabby, eating tons of sugar, and I’m feeling really down about it but everything I should be eating doesn’t sound good and I’m so tired I can’t fathom working out.

I’m also really scared to lift weights. I know people say it’s safe but I’m so scared of hurting the baby, overheating, etc.

Any insight or encouragement appreciated.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

6w3d- woke up with RHR back to baseline and no nausea. Really worried something’s wrong. Please help

I’m 6w3d today after having 3 losses last year. I had amazing HCG draws with my last one at 5w5d coming in at 27,844.

My RHR is lower naturally around 53-56 and raised to about 60-63. Today it went back down to 56 and my nausea is completely gone. I’m having universally no symptoms today besides a coffee aversion and being tired but I didn’t sleep well.

I’m worried sick. I feel so different today and really feel like something is wrong.

My first ultrasound is actually tomorrow and I just could use some words of encouragement or harsh reality. Just anything.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

Found this injured goldfinch :( Columbus OH

it won’t let me upload a video, but his breathing is labored and beak keeps opening and closing and chest going up and down. he rolled onto his back and is still doing it.

we found him on the sidewalk of our busy complex and figured the best thing to do was put him in a ventilated shoebox and outside our front door so he doesn’t get rained on. we have pets and i’m pregnant so I didn’t bring him inside.

I doubt he’ll make it through the night but if so I’ll find a rehab center to take him to :(

u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

RHR drop back to baseline at 6w

Freaking out because I had a major RHR drop today at 6w back to my baseline and my HRV went way up. I also feel like my boob pain is gone.

My last beta was 27,844 at 5w5d.

I did sleep well last night and was so constipated but finally went before bed so hoping that’s it but i’m freaking out and feel like something’s wrong. I’ve had 3 losses before this.

My RHR was around 60-62bpm and today is 55bpm. HRV was in the 20’s and is 55 today as well.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

RHR drop back to baseline at 6w

Freaking out because I had a major RHR drop today at 6w back to my baseline and my HRV went way up. I also feel like my boob pain is gone.

My last beta was 27,844 at 5w5d.

I did sleep well last night and was so constipated but finally went before bed so hoping that’s it but i’m freaking out and feel like something’s wrong. I’ve had 3 losses before this.

My RHR was around 60-62bpm and today is 55bpm. HRV was in the 20’s and is 55 today as well.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

High HCG at 5w5d?

Hi everyone!

I got an HCG draw yesterday at 5w5d and the result is freaking me out a little.

I’ve had 3 previous losses so my OB office has been so nice to let me track HCG until my ultrasound next week. I got my last one today.

At 5W it was 5746

At 5W5D it’s 27,844

I am a twin however they don’t run in my family. I’m scared of a molar pregnancy as well. Any insight?

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

wondfo brand- is this hook effect?

hi everyone, I posted yesterday about getting a lighter test result at 5w4d after 3 losses. everyone was so nice in the comments and it made me feel so much better, so thank you.

a couple people said to dilute my pee with water so I took one test without dilution and one test with dilution and they look the same; so that’s probably a good sign right?! they’re also much darker than the lighter test that scared me yesterday.

I am a little worried still as I also had a temp drop today but just hoping for the best and trying not to put too much stock in it.

u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

5w4d wondfo brand serious line lightening :(

hi everyone

my lines were all serious dye stealers and super intense and now they’re getting lighter. i’m literally bawling my eyes out. first test is from today second test is from yesterday. there’s a major difference and i don’t believe it’s the hook effect at all. my hcg was rising appropriately from 10dpo 34, 12dpo 100, 14dpo 242, 17dpo 1118, 21dpo 5746.

I feel like something is off and have this whole time because I have no symptoms, no cramping no feelings at all. Today I worked really hard and overdid it physically and I think I ruined something. I had 3 miscarriages last year.

u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

5w4d don’t feel pregnant at all, post 3 losses plus beta results

hi everyone

i’m 5w4d pregnant after having 2 chemicals and a 10 week loss last year. I did a recurrent loss panel and everything looked totally good, I’m active with a good BMI and no major issues worth noting.

I am having a bit of a tough time because I truly do not feel pregnant at all. I have no twinges, cramps, pulling or stretching in my uterus. No real symptoms besides being tired but I think that’s from my progesterone. I don’t feel anything down there at all and am having a hard time thinking it’s going right.

My HCG draws were
10dpo 34
12 dpo 100
14 dpo 242
17 dpo 1118
21 dpo 5746

I think these are good numbers, I just can’t help feeling like something’s wrong with me.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago

5w3d don’t feel pregnant at all, post 3 losses plus beta results

hi everyone

i’m 5w3d pregnant after having 2 chemicals and a 10 week loss last year. I did a recurrent loss panel and everything looked totally good, I’m active with a good BMI and no major issues worth noting.

I am having a bit of a tough time because I truly do not feel pregnant at all. I have no twinges, cramps, pulling or stretching in my uterus. No real symptoms besides being tired but I think that’s from my progesterone. I don’t feel anything down there at all and am having a hard time thinking it’s going right.

My HCG draws were
10dpo 34
12 dpo 100
14 dpo 242
17 dpo 1118
21 dpo 5746

I think these are good numbers, I just can’t help feeling like something’s wrong with me.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago
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5w1d no symptoms plus beta results

I’m currently 5w1d post 3 losses last year. I truly don’t feel pregnant at all. I also am doing progesterone supplementation so I feel like I’m just bloated and tired from that.

I have no nausea, no craving for water, no cramping or any kind of feelings down there. No poking or stretching, nothing.

My hcg draws were as follows:

10 dpo 34
12dpo 100
14 dpo 242
17dpo 1118
21dpo 5794

Just preparing myself for another loss or for nothing to be in there. I truly can’t feel anything. I know my betas are good I just can’t trust it.

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u/InevitableThese2941 — 2 months ago