u/Infinite_Gas_3195

Man i feel sooo lonely because there's no one around who listens to Kevin. i can't explain my feelings to anyone 😭💔

I have literally nothing going on. I don't have friends. Does anybody wanna hang out?

I'm just looking for friends, I have no expectations, hope you wanna hang out without expectations too.

I am at a lonely and sad place in life, it's dark and I can't keep it up for long

I 25F met someone I liked 23M 25 days ago, I put my guard up and stopped myself from getting too involved and then within 15 days, he committed to me and I let my guard down again and yeah now I'm being ghosted for the 3rd time in 48 hours. and somehow I get through with him with some texts and turns out the reason is something completely external, I understand is some family issue and he has to deal with for the rest of his life so we've said our goodbyes. and I feel lonely-er than ever because I did know i have to careful and thought it through before fully investing and here I am again, alone, crying and regretting not learning my lesson before this.

I'm at the point in my life right now where I really need some advice from the girls. Maybe it's not even advice It's just I just really want somebody to maybe listen.

I have had a pretty up-and-down Love life over the last couple years and all of my friends who know me know that I can go on a million dates and not like any of them. But the second I like somebody, like the second that they vibe with my brain and I vibe with theirs, I fall fast. And I'm the type of person that lets people in that I care about or that seem like they care about me really really fast, which is something that I definitely need to work on. And I think because I let these people in so fast, each time this happens, they end up with a part of me that I struggle to get back. I think I'm just really tired of feeling like an experiment.

It sometimes just almost feels like people just wanna play house and they want to feel this way and they want to love bomb and they want to fall into this feeling and then the second someone else comes along, it's game over. And I don't even really know why I'm telling you guys all of this. I think it's just because some of you will relate to this.

I really look forward to finding my person. And I really look forward to feeling whole again outside of that person as myself and finding that again. Because I don't think I've found it in a while.

I just really look forward to not feeling like this. Because I love really hard. so I just want to find something real and that sucks I think in today's world of bs and dating and non-committal situationships and all of this stupid stuff I just want to find my person and I want to love that person through their ups and downs and I want them to hopefully love me through mine I'm just a lover girl who's a little exhausted at this point because I always hope that this time around it will be real and then it isn't and then I become the crying girl on the internet again and everyone rolls their eyes and I understand why but this I guess this is just part of life and this is how you figure out how strong you really are. because man heartbreak sucks it sucks so flippin bad bro.

TL:DR, why can I never have just a normal relationship for once? everytime I think I've learned my lesson and healed, new type of drama comes up.

I met someone I liked 23M 25 days ago, I put my guard up and stopped myself from getting too involved and then within 15 days, he committed to me and I let my guard down again and yeah now I'm being ghosted for the 3rd time in 48 hours. and somehow I get through with him with some texts and turns out the reason is something completely external, I understand is some family issue and he has to deal with for the rest of his life so we've said our goodbyes. and I feel lonely-er than ever because I did know i have to careful and thought it through before fully investing and here I am again, alone, crying and regretting not learning my lesson before this.

I'm at the point in my life right now where I really need some advice from the girls. Maybe it's not even advice It's just I just really want somebody to maybe listen.

I have had a pretty up-and-down Love life over the last couple years and all of my friends who know me know that I can go on a million dates and not like any of them. But the second I like somebody, like the second that they vibe with my brain and I vibe with theirs, I fall fast. And I'm the type of person that lets people in that I care about or that seem like they care about me really really fast, which is something that I definitely need to work on. And I think because I let these people in so fast, each time this happens, they end up with a part of me that I struggle to get back. I think I'm just really tired of feeling like an experiment.

It sometimes just almost feels like people just wanna play house and they want to feel this way and they want to love bomb and they want to fall into this feeling and then the second someone else comes along, it's game over. And I don't even really know why I'm telling you guys all of this. I think it's just because some of you will relate to this.

I really look forward to finding my person. And I really look forward to feeling whole again outside of that person as myself and finding that again. Because I don't think I've found it in a while.

I just really look forward to not feeling like this. Because I love really hard. so I just want to find something real and that sucks I think in today's world of bs and dating and non-committal situationships and all of this stupid stuff I just want to find my person and I want to love that person through their ups and downs and I want them to hopefully love me through mine I'm just a lover girl who's a little exhausted at this point because I always hope that this time around it will be real and then it isn't and then I become the crying girl on the internet again and everyone rolls their eyes and I understand why but this I guess this is just part of life and this is how you figure out how strong you really are. because man heartbreak sucks it sucks so flippin bad bro.

TL:DR, why can I never have just a normal relationship for once? everytime I think I've learned my lesson and healed, new type of drama comes up.

I met someone I liked 23M 25 days ago, I put my guard up and stopped myself from getting too involved and then within 15 days, he committed to me and I let my guard down again and yeah now I'm being ghosted for the 3rd time in 48 hours. and somehow I get through with him with some texts and turns out the reason is something completely external, I understand is some family issue and he has to deal with for the rest of his life so we've said our goodbyes. and I feel lonely-er than ever because I did know i have to careful and thought it through before fully investing and here I am again, alone, crying and regretting not learning my lesson before this.

I'm at the point in my life right now where I really need some advice from the girls. Maybe it's not even advice It's just I just really want somebody to maybe listen.

I have had a pretty up-and-down Love life over the last couple years and all of my friends who know me know that I can go on a million dates and not like any of them. But the second I like somebody, like the second that they vibe with my brain and I vibe with theirs, I fall fast. And I'm the type of person that lets people in that I care about or that seem like they care about me really really fast, which is something that I definitely need to work on. And I think because I let these people in so fast, each time this happens, they end up with a part of me that I struggle to get back. I think I'm just really tired of feeling like an experiment.

It sometimes just almost feels like people just wanna play house and they want to feel this way and they want to love bomb and they want to fall into this feeling and then the second someone else comes along, it's game over. And I don't even really know why I'm telling you guys all of this. I think it's just because some of you will relate to this.

I really look forward to finding my person. And I really look forward to feeling whole again outside of that person as myself and finding that again. Because I don't think I've found it in a while.

I just really look forward to not feeling like this. Because I love really hard. so I just want to find something real and that sucks I think in today's world of bs and dating and non-committal situationships and all of this stupid stuff I just want to find my person and I want to love that person through their ups and downs and I want them to hopefully love me through mine I'm just a lover girl who's a little exhausted at this point because I always hope that this time around it will be real and then it isn't and then I become the crying girl on the internet again and everyone rolls their eyes and I understand why but this I guess this is just part of life and this is how you figure out how strong you really are. because man heartbreak sucks it sucks so flippin bad bro.

TL:DR, why can I never have just a normal relationship for once? everytime I think I've learned my lesson and healed, new type of drama comes up.

I met someone I liked 23M 25 days ago, I put my guard up and stopped myself from getting too involved and then within 15 days, he committed to me and I let my guard down again and yeah now I'm being ghosted for the 3rd time in 48 hours. and somehow I get through with him with some texts and turns out the reason is something completely external, I understand is some family issue and he has to deal with for the rest of his life so we've said our goodbyes. and I feel lonely-er than ever because I did know i have to careful and thought it through before fully investing and here I am again, alone, crying and regretting not learning my lesson before this.

I'm at the point in my life right now where I really need some advice from the girls. Maybe it's not even advice It's just I just really want somebody to maybe listen.

I have had a pretty up-and-down Love life over the last couple years and all of my friends who know me know that I can go on a million dates and not like any of them. But the second I like somebody, like the second that they vibe with my brain and I vibe with theirs, I fall fast. And I'm the type of person that lets people in that I care about or that seem like they care about me really really fast, which is something that I definitely need to work on. And I think because I let these people in so fast, each time this happens, they end up with a part of me that I struggle to get back. I think I'm just really tired of feeling like an experiment.

It sometimes just almost feels like people just wanna play house and they want to feel this way and they want to love bomb and they want to fall into this feeling and then the second someone else comes along, it's game over. And I don't even really know why I'm telling you guys all of this. I think it's just because some of you will relate to this.

I really look forward to finding my person. And I really look forward to feeling whole again outside of that person as myself and finding that again. Because I don't think I've found it in a while.

I just really look forward to not feeling like this. Because I love really hard. so I just want to find something real and that sucks I think in today's world of bs and dating and non-committal situationships and all of this stupid stuff I just want to find my person and I want to love that person through their ups and downs and I want them to hopefully love me through mine I'm just a lover girl who's a little exhausted at this point because I always hope that this time around it will be real and then it isn't and then I become the crying girl on the internet again and everyone rolls their eyes and I understand why but this I guess this is just part of life and this is how you figure out how strong you really are. because man heartbreak sucks it sucks so flippin bad bro.

Story time- 25F. Met some on a dating app, got love bombed in 1 day, had sex, still being love bombed by words not actions, but I've been so hungry for attention for a year I've been eating it up like crazy, because I've never had a relationship in my life, ever.

Problem is, I got emotional, did the most cliche thing of, who are we, because we're joking about building stuff together, making our own house a home, cooking and everything, and at the same time the conversation gets real and it's immediately switching to, why does it have to be like that? We are more than friends but less than a couple blah blah blah.

Why is this the pattern with every guy? I don't wanna hear the BS of you're giving them everything so soon and all, I'm 26 ffs and I can't keep talking to multiple people at a time hoping one of them will turn out to be a boyfriend.

I don't understand what's happening and I'm sooooo tired. I went off dating apps for a year and the men still have the same sob story.