u/Initial_Condition220

I am in 4th year right now. I really love architecture but I have lost interest in the academics, I just am not able to work anymore, I somehow finish my assignments at the last moment, but ive lost the excitement of the process completely. What to do in a situation like this, its sem 7 so mostly everything is group work , the one thing I have to actually do on my own is design my residential building and I feel like ive lost it, I really don't know how to proceed further.

I am in 4th year right now. I really love architecture but I have lost interest in the academics, I just am not able to work anymore, I somehow finish my assignments at the last moment, but ive lost the excitement of the process completely. What to do in a situation like this, its sem 7 so mostly everything is group work , the one thing I have to actually do on my own is design my residential building and I feel like ive lost it, I really don't know how to proceed further.

I think the name of the app was "dress up world" . So in that app there were like 6 rooms, it had everything free from furniture to clothes for the "characters" (both men and women) , you could just decorate all the rooms and the people and nothing else but it was so fun 😭😭 I can't find it anywhere

I think the name of the app was "dress up world" . So in that app there were like 6 rooms, it had everything free from furniture to clothes for the "characters" (both men and women) , you could just decorate all the rooms and the people and nothing else but it was so fun 😭😭 I can't find it anywhere

I think the name of the app was "dress up world" . So in that app there were like 6 rooms, it had everything free from furniture to clothes for the "characters" (both men and women) , you could just decorate all the rooms and the people and nothing else but it was so fun 😭😭 I can't find it anywhere

I'm 20F, and my boyfriend is 20M.

I'm posting here because my relationship has had a pattern of emotional and verbal abuse, and this latest situation has completely broken me.

Over the course of our relationship, I've been called degrading names, been blamed for things that weren't my fault, and been made to feel like I constantly have to defend myself. There have been many times where I've questioned my own memory or judgment because of how conversations end up.

One of the most painful things I've ever shared with him was that I was sexually assaulted. I only told him because I trusted him.

Recently, he had a major falling out with several of his friends. After that happened, multiple of those former friends came to me separately and told me that he had told them about my sexual assault without my permission. They also said he slut-shamed me behind my back and made horrible comments about me.

When I confronted him, he denied all of it. He says they're lying because they're angry at him and trying to ruin his reputation.

Now I feel completely trapped. I don't know who to believe.

Part of me thinks his former friends have a reason to lie. But another part of me can't understand why multiple people would tell me the same thing if none of it happened.

The hardest part is that because of everything that's happened in this relationship, I don't even trust my own judgment anymore. I keep questioning myself and wondering if I'm overreacting or if I'm ignoring obvious red flags.

Has anyone else experienced something like this in an abusive relationship? Did your partner deny things that multiple other people said happened? How did you cope with not knowing who was telling the truth?

I feel so confused and emotionally exhausted, and I don't know how to trust my own instincts anymore.

I'm 20F and my boyfriend 20M and I are both in college. Today he looked through my phone and read my messages with one of my closest friends. This friend has been in my life for 9 years. We were just planning a meetup with our friend group and chatting normally. There was nothing flirty, sexual, or inappropriate in the conversation.

After reading the messages, my boyfriend completely lost it. He called me a "slut," told me I "deserve to get fucked," and then left.

The thing is, this isn't the first time he's had an outburst like this. In the past he's gotten angry over things that I felt were pretty normal, like talking to male classmates or accidentally forgetting to return his pen. He's called me names before, accused me of disrespecting him, and I've found myself apologizing just to calm the situation down.

I genuinely don't understand what I did wrong this time. There was nothing in those messages that crossed any boundaries. It was just friends making plans.

Edit : also he keeps saying that guy frnds only contact u w intentions of fucking or smtg like that, I keep saying him that I trust my frndbyt he doesn't find my trust on my frnf valid enough and insists my frnd has bad intentions w me. Im so tired

Edit 2: now he came and apologised to me saying his insecurities hit and that's why he lashed out so badly but I dont understand ive been loyal to him since day 1, never flirted w any other guy, never even been in a relationship before him, so where does the slut come from..

Edit 3: just got to know that he is planning to get a little high with a girl from our class at her flat. Im actually genuinely shocked at the audacity

Right now I'm shocked and hurt. Part of me keeps wondering if I should reach out to him, but another part of me is exhausted because this isn't the first incident.

Has anyone dealt with something similar? How did you handle it? Is there any productive way to move forward after someone says things like this, or is this the kind of behavior that only gets worse?