Wisteria strength?

If Wisteria is a demon repellent, why didn’t the Demon slayer corp have a branch that just focused on planting or giving wisteria to people/villages around Japan?

Or make like a perfume? It’s just something that dawned on me rewatching the show?

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 4 days ago

Has any debates been organized yet for the candidates?

I know it’s early, but does anyone know a good website to find out when and where the debates are? ☺️

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 1 month ago

Bryan should have his immunity taken away.

Honestly, I hate immunities in general. It just leads to the immune designers showcasing a crappy look. Besides Jude and Joseph McRae I don’t think any of the other winners have made a “safe” look.

Bryan acts like he’s above everyone else. What I don’t get is why he threw his first look away. He should have just kept the bubble dress, then made like a jacket or cocoon out of the wires.

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 2 months ago

FreshCo is so dystopian.

I’ve never seen such a depressing store. I really took fairways for granted. No deli, no bakery, no butchery, no flower shop. It’s so bare bones and lacks any humanity.

Edit: I feel I need to add a disclaimer. I don’t care about the prices. It’s the lack of human interaction that you’d normally have at a deli, bakery, etc. The store feels lifeless.

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 2 months ago

Question for my ADHD gay bros & intimacy

I’m wondering if this is just a me thing. So I’m in my late 20s and for the longest time now, when I meet up with a guy I can’t climax. I’m into the guys, we have a great time, and I can get them to climax, but I can’t. 😔

It’s weird though, because when I’m by myself, it’s easy.

Is this a normal thing to deal with when you have adhd? Any advice would help.

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 3 months ago

Is my best friend ghosting me?

I have a friend who I consider to be one of my best friends. However, I think I’m realizing they don’t consider me as one and are now ghosting me.

We’ve been friends for almost a decade.

They were never the best at texting back. Usually taking a few days, sometimes a week to get back to me about plans etc. They said to me, that they “are just a bad texter” and that “there job drains them”. We’re also adults, so I get it. I’m also not the best at texting (I have ADHD, so sometimes I complete forget to respond to a texts, however I do try to respond by the end of the day or next at the very least.)

They also recently lost a grandparent a few months ago, so they haven’t been very social, which I completely understand. The last texts they sent me was that they weren’t able to make to a small party I was hosting and that they’d need a quieter weekend. However that was 3 months ago, and they haven’t replied to any of my texts since then.

For context, my texts have just been me checking in to see how they are doing, do they want to hangout this upcoming week/weekend, wishing them a happy holiday, etc.

I texted them today asking if I have done something wrong? That if I have, can we talk about it? Still no response….

I think I’m just upset, because I checked their social media and they were hanging out with some friends last month. 🙁

Am I being ghosted?

Should I try giving them a call this weekend?

Any advice would help a lot.

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 3 months ago
▲ 3 r/lostafriend+2 crossposts

Is my best friend ghosting me?

I have a friend who I consider to be one of my best friends. However, I think I’m realizing they don’t consider me as one.

They were never the best at texting back. Usually taking a few days, sometimes a week to get back to me about plans etc. They said to me, that they “are just a bad texter” and that “there job drains them”. We’re also adults, so I get it. I’m also not the best at texting (I have ADHD, so sometimes I complete forget to respond to a texts). However, I do try to respond by the end of the day or next.

They also recently lost a grandparent a few months ago, so they haven’t been very social, which I completely understand. The last texts they sent me was that they weren’t able to make to a small party I was hosting and that they’d need a quieter weekend. I responded back: “that I completely understand, they will be missed, and asked if they’d want to get a coffee in two weeks cause I’d be away.” I thought that was that. However that was 3 months ago, and they haven’t replied to any of my texts since then.

For context, my texts have just been me checking in to see how they are doing, do they want to hangout this upcoming week/weekend, wishing them a happy holiday, etc.

I texted them today asking if I have done something wrong? That if I have, can we talk about it? Still no response.

I think I’m just upset, because I checked their social media and they were hanging out with some friends last month. 🙁

I’ve been friends with them for almost a decade. Am I being ghosted? Should I try giving them a call this weekend?

Any advice would help a lot.

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 3 months ago
▲ 5 r/loneliness+1 crossposts

Can’t sleep. The loneliness won’t go away.

Just woke up and started crying. No not crying, full on wailing. I can’t get back to sleep.

I’m a mess. I pushed genuine people away who wanted to be my friend. I’ve kept friends who don’t put any effort into our friendship. I’m alone.

I’m putting myself out there, but what if it doesn’t work? What if I can’t make friends? What if I can’t find someone.

I’m distraught.

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 5 months ago

I deserve friends that are going to text back.

what happened to texting back when you are invited to a party? Im so sick of “friends” taking days, weeks, to reply to invites. It’s ridiculous.

I have a friend I consider my best friend, but she is horrible for texting me back. She says I’m one of her best friend, but it doesn’t feel like it when she takes weeks to respond. (I think I know this deep down).

Right now she’s going through a tough time (her grandfather recently passed) and she’s said she’s not in the most socializing mood, which I can completely understand. However, she’s known about this party I’m having for months (it’s a Eurovision watch party I’ve been doing the last few years). I sent the formal invite out 2 weeks. I had lots of people I consider acquaintance reply back that they couldn’t make it because they are working, traveling etc. all good. It’s now just a few people coming, which I’m fine with. It’s going to be a nice chill watch party. Nothing crazy.

I’ve sent her check in texts to see how she’s doing? Ive texted her that if she wants to go for a nice walk, a movie, if she needs anything from the grocery store, etc. during this time. No reply

She finally replied to me at 11:45pm that she’s having a rough time lately and she wants to have a quieter weekend. I’m just….

Am I overreacting? I’m just hurt with the late response. I know she’s grieving. But just an update text like a week ago saying you can’t come would have helped. I don’t know how to communicate this though.

I feel like I’m going above and beyond for this friendship and it’s not being reciprocated. I don’t think I’m asking much. Am I?

I want to make new friends, but I’m worried I won’t be able to. I’m in my late 20s and I feel like that ship of close friendships has sailed away. Idk.

Any advice here would be greatly appreciated.

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 5 months ago
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Does anyone else do this?

I’ve been in a couple wedding parties, but they have been for family. For each of them the groom had a couple of their best friends as groomsmen.

The reason I’m bringing it up, is because if I ever get married, besides my brother/cousin. I don’t have any close male friends. 😔

Like I did during high-school, but after graduating, life happened and we lost contact. I went to Uni and just struggled.

Wtf happened to me? I have some online friends, a close friend, but she’s going through a lot so she’s been distance. I have some other people I consider friends, but I can’t really reach out to them. But even then, I don’t have a group of close friends.

Going out tonight with some of my cousins guy friends was so fun. I just feel that ship to make close guy friends has sailed. I’m in my late 20s. God I’m a failure. Did I miss this class? Was a sick the day they taught us how to make close friends.

I’m not even in a relationship or engaged. This thought just came into my head. I just want physical friends that I can go and do things with. If I had 2-3 close friends I’d be set I feel. Idk. 😔

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 5 months ago
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I should have stayed out.

They even wanted me to stay out longer, but I declined because I had plans tomorrow morning. God I think I made a mistake. I hope they don’t think I didn’t want to spend time with them, cause I do, I was just stupid for choosing to drive. Damn it.

I haven’t gone out for drinks in ages, especially with other guys. Why do I always do this! 😣😔

How did I end up like this. I’m always ruining friendships.

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 5 months ago
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Lonely morning.

The loneliness hits when you have no one to say good morning to. When there’s no noise besides you getting ready. Homes when you are by yourself are like tombs to loneliness.

I miss the chaos and noise growing up. Everyone getting ready, fighting for the bathroom mirror, morning television on in the background. Dashing around the kitchen making something quick before flying out the door.

Now it’s just silence and my only companion is this loneliness. 😔

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 5 months ago
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It’s the loneliness turning into pointlessness

Like what’s the point? I had all these dreams and expectations of what I want my life to be. But here I am alone.

I’m trying to do the work, I’m trying to put myself out there. But at the end of the day. I’m still going to sleep alone.

I’m still not someone’s number one. Everyone around me has someone. All my coworkers, family, etc.

I’m just here. Alone.

I wish I had a best friend. That’s really all I want at this point.

I’m just rambling now. 😔

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 5 months ago
▲ 5 r/LangfordBC+1 crossposts

Weekend clubs/leagues

Does anyone know any good weekend adult clubs, leagues, classes, etc. for adults in their late 20s/early 30s?

Trying to look for something fun and make some friends my age. ☺️

Thanks in advance.

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 5 months ago
▲ 6 r/loneliness+1 crossposts

The background loneliness

28m. I’m putting myself out there. Joining clubs, going to work events, asking people to hangout, etc.

But god…the thought that’s always in the back of my brain is “you’ve already failed, you are behind, you won’t find anyone to love you.” Etc.

I’m trying to stay positive. Not to listen to that voice.

But right now this morning….I’m struggling. 😔

Is that voice right?

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u/Intelligent-Exit9562 — 5 months ago