u/Interesting-Rush-993

Bonjour tout le monde, je cherche un avocat en droit du travail de confiance qui pourrait m'aider avec un licenciement qui me semble suspect.

Merci d'avance!

What the title say. I have been let go after my three years probation, which came as a surprise to everyone myself included. The process in my country (not uk/us) is always described as a "formality" as it is really easy to reach the expectations and you can only be let go in case of grave failure. I published (brilliantly), taught well, took on some admin positions. The only real critique is that I was too slow to publish on the topics that mattered the most to them (plan was to pivot to topic 1 to 2, but I had to quickly finish some already started projects, all of this was also in the open during recruitment and I was reassured it was not a problem). Finally, I was sick most of my third year and pressure to go through the evaluation still really sick (shady part).

Since this is so surreal, as a result I don't know anyone who went through this situation. The only person I know was a woman with the same profile as me, let go also in a shady way, who jumped out of a bridge and killed herself. I will never do that, however, I'm a little bit worried about my mental state in the future.

Luckily I decided not to have kids or buy a flat during that probation period even though everyone assured me it was a formality. I don't think they would have taken kindly to me having kids anyway (male faculties only).

If anyone went through something similar, it would mean a lot to chat, especially about the mental toll and how they recovered.

I'm currently renting a flat. When I moved in, the landlord gave me two keys for the door of the flat, both almost broken (metal part is intact, but the plastic part was super old and half broken). Now they are fully broken and I had to mcgiver something to make the keys functional. Early on, I asked him if it was possible to replace the keys or make additionnal ones (we are two living in the flat, so a third set of keys would be nice). He said he lost the security key number (or sth like that) and it was not possible to make new keys. Now we're several years later and when I mentioned it again, he said that is was in fact "my responsability" to change the keyhole and purchase new keys. He also said that it was the building's responsability. So I'm really confused. In my country it's definitely the landlord responsability to provide functional keys.
I'm a foreigner, so I don't know if this is a thing in Belgium. I just lost one set of keys and now pretty defeated that I can't make new keys and to think that he is going to make me pay for the whole replacement of the keyhole and keys, since it's not possible to make new ones.

Any advice?

I'm trying to be fully vegan, but it gives me problems at work. I'm working in a foreign country, in the countryside, where even vegetarianism is seen as a silly thing. I'm the only young woman in the team as well, working on a very different project from the rest of the team. Basically I don't fit in at all. So when I have to explain I'm vegan when we have dinner with team, it makes me so anxious because it aggravates all my issues.

Last time we had a dinner planned in a fancy restaurant, I was asked "since you're a vegetarian does it mean you eat fish?". In the end I got a few potatoes and a lentils steak, probably cooked with butter. Had to listen to my boss making fun of his friends who had a vegetarian wedding.

I love ramen, but I'm vegan. I've had delicious vegan pumpkin ramen in Paris (in Kodawari ramen), but I don't live there anymore and in my current city, the vegan option is always disappointing in restaurant, I know I could make something much better.

Is there any good ressources (a book would be nice) you would recommend?

Someone here a few months ago shared their vegan yuzu ramen, but their recipe description is not clear enough for a beginner like me, I don't understand how to make the shio tare and they deleted their account (https://www.reddit.com/r/ramen/comments/1mhrl3t/vegan\_yuzu\_shio\_ramen\_and\_recipe/)

Thanks a ton!

Je donne des cours à l'université en ce moment. J'ai détesté les profs sévères et méchants pendant mes études, donc je suis la prof qui est toujours super gentille avec les étudiants, mon cours n'est pas difficile à réussir (peu d'enjeu car le nombre de crédits est faible), j'aide les étudiants autant que je peux et je suis disponible pour eux s'ils ont des difficultés ou problèmes. Ça se passe plutôt bien.

J'ai proposé un devoir maison facultatif, le coef est faible, bref il y a pas vraiment d'enjeu. Une étudiante a décidé de le faire et on s'était bien mise d'accord, pas d'IA (apprendre à lire et écrire c'est le but de ma matière donc ça n'a pas d'intérêt). Finalement elle a énormément utilisé l'IA et ce qu'elle a écrit est vraiment mauvais, je vois bien qu'elle a pas compris le sujet ni fait les lectures, citations pas bonnes. J'ai l'impression que si elle faisait elle même elle ferait mieux. J'ai décidé de lui en parler et elle a immédiatement dit que non, elle n'avait pas utilisé l'IA. Comme je suis incapable d'être sévère et d'être dans la confrontation, j'ai dit ok. J'ai essayé de poser des questions pour voir si tout aller bien pour essayer de comprendre mais sans succès. Depuis elle m'a envoyé un mail... écrit par IA (il y avait encore le formattage), j'avoue que ça me déçoit énormément.

Qu'est-ce qui pousse un étudiant à aller si loin dans le mensonge alors que y'a aucun enjeu ? Que depuis le début je ne suis que sympa et j'essaie de l'aider à s'améliorer. Ça m'angoisse pour le futur de l'université en général. Je me demande à quoi je sers, je passe des heures à annoter un brouillon probablement à moitié écrit par IA, je lis des mails écrits par l'IA...

Comment faire pour la convaincre que la meilleure façon de faire les choses pour elle même c'est de faire par elle même ?

I just saw that apparently putting up a lost cat flyer in public is illegal (this I get, theoretically) but people are truly getting fines for it. Some people are talking about it in cat rescue groups on Facebook.

I really wonder what these administrative agents think of their life if this is what they spent their job doing. Ridiculous.