u/Interesting_Use6581

Perm rod sets?

Is there any way to loosen a perm rods set? i just did it a few hours ago and i hate how tight the curls are. is there a way to loosen it without just waiting? i did it for vacation and i leave tomorrow lol id rather not have that look in my pics other wise id wait

If there anyway i can loosen them while salvaging my scalp for the retwist?? thatd be great. thanks!!

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 2 days ago

How much longer for this once a week schedule

Ive been going consistently for 4 months now at once a week. Overall doing electrolysis for 3 years but i was going once every other month if that for 1 hour (which wasn’t nearly enough for a clear as i had a lot of hair). I just got my first clear in January. Its may now and although the hair is ALOT less its still growing in the same time. i still have hair to go once a week when i see others saying they go twice a week and eventually once a month but it feels like ill never get to that.

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 3 days ago

How many calories in this Dunkin breakfast sandwich

I got a turkey sausage, egg and white cheddar cheese on sourdough bread. How many calories? i cant seem to find an estimate for the bread.

I also had a strawberry dragonfruit green tea refresher medium and half of a French cruller so how much for the whole meal?

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 6 days ago
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Is there something wrong with me or is it my relationship?

Disclaimer: This might get long

(Im 21 f for context) So I’ve been dating this guy for around 7ish months give or take. he was my first everything first boyfriend, first time ever having sex, first kiss with someone who i actually liked and genuinely the first person i felt i could be around 24/7 (I’ve had other people like this but it never lasted this long and I’ve actually ended up hated them or becoming really annoyed for some reason). it really felt like i NEEDED to be around him 24/7 its like if i was doing something and he wasn’t there then it wasn’t worth doing or if we had plans and he bailed i wouldn’t want to do anything for days. if we weren’t talking id get so sad and just lay in the dark alone all the time until he finally spoke to me..

and that basically has been my life on repeat for the past 7 months. we hang out i feel euphoric and unstoppable then the weekdays come around were both busy and by the second day its like i start getting withdrawals. recently he’s gotten a new job so his days are even busier now and i feel like every time i call him or text him he’s busy as opposed to before he’d make time. A few weeks ago i got overwhelmed with emotions and started blasting his phone about how he’s been distant but him and seemingly everyone around me thought i was overreacting and that its only been 2 days. but it felt like the end of the world to me. it made me nervous and it felt like he was soft launching never speaking to me again.

so i tried to do things to get him to see me but it wasn’t working. He eventually came over but not for long and left again it made me sick. i had a stomach for a few days and decided to kill two birds with one stone. i went to the emergency room (so he would come for me which he did) and it worked we made up and started hanging again then i felt him pushing away again so in lied and said my car broke down so he would come help which he did. the problem is i feel insane for doing these things just to have him come see me but doesn’t it sound like he’s pulling away??

Another thing is he has an ex and i hate her so much she hasn’t done anything to me personally but i just cant shake the feeling that he’s still in contact with her and it just makes me feel sick inside to see him do things with someone else even if it was months ago (they weren’t together for very long i don’t think) ill see them go shopping in a video and it makes me so upset because we did that. it makes me think he’s faking liking me and that he just does this for anyone. I don’t feel special anymore because if they’re not together and he looked as happy with her as he did with me then i must not stand a chance…

its been consuming my brain i cant function all the things i used to love doing are tainted with these thoughts. its like i cant hang out with anyone else incase he calls me so i wont be occupied. i go to work and i do my hobbies all the same i just don’t enjoy them because he’s not there

What do i do??

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 9 days ago

Is this a good back day routine?

Repost because i had to fix the title!

I start with lat pull downs 2 sets of 8 close grip and 2 sets 8 reps mid grip. then i do seated face pull too about the middle of my face 3 sets of 12. After i do under hand bent over rows 4 sets of 10 then i do single arm rows on the machine 2-3 sets of 10-12 (depending on the day) and the rest is biceps.

Is this a good routine? For context i have naturally big lats and traps so i don’t really like to focus too much on them i dont want a super wide back lol, but i wouldn’t want to skip back all together

Also im 21 and female. Thanks in advance!!

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 10 days ago

If average treatment is around 18 months and i was doing thermolysis the whole time but its not working on a few areas (chronic ingrowns really bad). So say i switch to blend would that basically be like starting a new treatment plan for that specific area meaning itll take at least another few months to see progress in that area too?

Idk if i worded this right and its too confusing but if anyone know please let me know

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 15 days ago

So basically im 18 and homeless. my mom kicked me out a few weeks ago and i genuinely have no where to go the shelters around here are full and wont take me. I was staying with a friend but she lives with her parents and her parents said they cant keep me around any longer (more mouths to feed i guess). i offered to pay but i have such little money left that wouldn’t even last a week.

I’m trying to find somewhere to work but i still wont get hired and payed fast enough to find somewhere quick to stay. Does anyone know any quick ways to make money or safe places i can go to stay at least for a few nights?

my mom goes to work so I’m able to sneak in 2 times a week but i cant keep doing this and if she finds out she’ll probably change the locks. i really don’t know what to do at this point… i have dollars to my name and no where to go. if anyone has any ideas on how to make some fast cash it’ll be greatly appreciated. Or places that offer free rooms or something like that. Im thinking maybe a motel or something at least for a little until i hear back from the places I’ve applied too🙏🙏

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 19 days ago
▲ 2 r/PCOS

I finally got my period back to semi consistent, cycles are still a little long but not extremely (37 days for my last one) when and how should i check for ovulation?

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 20 days ago

I have 3 old accounts from when i was a kid thats so embarrassing lol. Is there any way to get them taken down or banned? what are some ways? i cant sign in as i don’t know the password or have that email access.

Would botting it work or maybe reporting it i don’t have enough accounts to mass report though?

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 21 days ago

Sometimes he will seem distant for a few days and other times he wont leave me alone (which i don’t mind). whenever i bring it up he just says he was busy. I’ll try to plan things because once we hang out we don’t leave each other alone especially on the weekend, but i still don’t get why he does this.

It stresses me out because i cant help but question if i did something wrong or wonder what he’s doing during this time. Sometimes he wont even answer my message and i refuse to double text or call anymore. What could it be? maybe thats just how he is. or is it what i think it is (seeing other people).

I’ve asked about this but ofc he’s always going to deny and to be fair i do know that he’s mostly home. but if he’s home doing nothing why wouldn’t he answer? This isnt the first second or third time but its just so odd??? Ive spoken to him about this multiple times and about the fact that i hate being ignored its a huge pet peeve of mine so he knows this yet he still does it and when i ask him he just acts like it wasnt a big deal.

Ex. If i say “you’ve been distant the past few days” and “why didn’t you answer?” etc he will just say “ive just been busy i didn’t even notice” and “didn’t we talk yesterday?”

Its one of his only flaws, but i feel like its a pretty big one. im big on communication and this is the complete opposite 😭

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 22 days ago
▲ 2 r/PCOS

I used to have inconsistent periods and one time i didn’t see my period for like 3 years but they’ve been pretty regular these past months (except it skipped December). But these last two have been weird.

around the time of my period i get period symptoms and everything so I’m thinking my period is coming then it doesn’t. then one day theres a little bit of blood mixed with discharge that makes me think okay this is it but when i put a pad on nothing else comes. then maybe some very light blood when i wipe the rest of the day and sometimes the next day then thats it.

its the same for this month. my period was supposed to start yesterday according to the tracker and when i wipe theres barely any blood, but I’ve been cramping for 2 days.

Anyone else experience this? what does it mean??

I started metformin 2 months ago and upped my spiro dosage same time. I also take fish oil vitamin d and recently started inositol. Im also on cabergoline for elevated prolactin.

My pcos is insulin resistant driven

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u/Interesting_Use6581 — 22 days ago