u/Internal-Capital7039

No longer in NJ but it's my home state and I had so many affairs with so many wives...thank you NJ

Have I missed anything?

I'm over 55 & learning.

Common terms

- Body count: number of sexual partners someone has had.

- Bop: an insulting term for someone, usually a girl, seen as promiscuous.

- DTF: down to fuck.

- FWB: friends with benefits.

- Situationship: a vague romantic or sexual thing with no real commitment.

- Ship: to support or push two people as a couple.

- BDE: big dick energy; confident, sexually charged swagger.

- Cake: a big butt.

- Snack: an attractive person.

- Baddie: attractive, stylish, confident person, often used about women.

- Body: an objectifying way to refer to someone you’ve been sexual with.

Nasty-adjacent ones

- Bricked up: having an erection.

- Smash: have sex.

- Gooning: obsessive edging or getting stuck in your own pleasure loop.

- Thirsty: desperate for attention or sex.

- Simp: someone acting overly submissive or eager for sexual attention.

- Curved: rejected, usually romantically.

- Breadcrumbing: giving just enough attention to keep someone interested without committing.

What actually matters

A lot of these words overlap with general dating slang, so context is everything.

Some are playful, some are insulting, and some are just straight-up horny nonsense wrapped in internet brain-rot.