u/Iriss_19

I (18F) have hosted multiple parties over the last few months as my friends requested because i have the biggest space, no biggie.

But every single time they sleep over and when they wake up they expect me to cook them breakfast and then they leave. I end up cleaning everything by myself, i didn’t see such a big issue until last weekend. I hosted my birthday party at home, and invited them.

I always let my friends bring their boyfriends or so’s. They usually want to go up to the spare rooms to yk have sex or whatever but this time i said no because it was my birthday and tbh i didn’t feel like washing sheets. Yeah so they were visibly annoyed but didn’t say much and the party went on, we stayed up until 6am even tho i wanted to go to bed but i obliged because i know if i go to sleep early they would wake me up with my pots and pans that i would also have to clean

Edit: my pots got cut off my two parts ill make it quick

Last morning i started cooking and cleaning as usual and asked my sister for help in fromt of the others, she said no, like always but i wanted to see if anyone would offer. Idk i feel rude asking. And no one did, i honestly felt so hurt and it’s genuinely just disrespectful to me

Edit 2: to add to the breakfast thing, every one of them is very picky about food, which i get but i ask in advance like hey is everyone okay with pizza, or pasta or anything yk. But everyone wants a different thing and i dont know how to make everyone happy. So i end up cooking 5 different things that they somehow not like even tho they requested it and i get frustrated. I once built up the courage to ask if they could bring some frozen food they liked or anything and i could cook it right there when they got here, but they responded like i asked them to commit murder? Idk they are my only friends, we’ve been friends for 6 years its hard

I feed and bring to the vet around 6 stray cats, one of them is very distant and scared and only comes to eat when im not there so sadly i cant bring him anywhere or give him meds etc. i cant force anything and really dont want to without him being comfy enough. The thing is in the last few days he has been limping, on of his back legs seem to be hurt, like hes walking on three legs. Me and my dad triee multiple times to bring him to the vet but to no avail. Sadly cant do anything since hes so scared and runs away way too quickly. We tried getting other animal help agencies to help us but they cant since he doesn’t stay in one place and only comes by randomly. Im so sad every time i see him but i cant do anything and i feel so guily about it. I live in Romania

So, i’ll keep this short, me (17F) and my friend (18F). We’re on those tea cup spinning rides, but since we were only two people and they needed four on two older ladies got on with us, no biggie. But as they saw my friend (hispanic, yes this is relevant) they out loud said to each other “great, we’re with a brown person, lets hope she doesn’t attack us”(we could clearly hear them) and they were acting like she was going to kill them?? Like wtf.

Anyway idk what the hell went through their minds but as we were spinning one of them pulls out a water bottle and just sprays the fuck of my friend (like on purpose, she tried to make it seem like a mistake but it was obvious) I was honestly in shock, and obviously knew what they were up to.

So this is where i think I might’ve gone too far, because as soon as the ride stopped I told on of the them “I will slap you in the face right now if you don’t get away from us” now im not a violent person at all but idk what made me say that, im still cringing.

Anyway the thing is they reported us to security (should’ve seen that coming) and they rightfully kicked us out, we did tell them this whole story but yeah. So AITA for threatening an old lady?

I guess reality just hit me, as a kid with adhd i never really tried, i just thought i wasn’t meant for school. But recently i realized i need to get it together and actually try (im in 10th grade) but i really actually studied and idk where to start. I’m going to be on medication again but needed a break so only next week for my new dose

In the morning i wake up early and never have too much time to do lots of makeup, especially eyeliner. My question is what can i use to get the same effect it has on my face but without spending that much time, doesn’t necessarily have to be eyeliner just something that gives that effect eyeliner does. Do you know any other techniques?

So, i started prozac about 3 years ago and since then i went from about 45kg to 60kg, not necessarily bad im still in a good weight range but i want to get toned and lose some fat yk. But anything i try while on this medication never works, working out consistently, eating well (3x a day and healthy) in a calorie deficit, nothing works to lose weight. I took a month off the medication and lost 5kg, but i can’t function without it, i literally spiraled. I booked an appointment with my psychiatrist for next week to maybe change the meds but i need some advice, anyone else experience this?