▲ 286 r/Catbehavior+1 crossposts

I regret getting my cat and I don't like him. What do I do

This sucks, mostly for him and I feel terrible. He was originally my friends cat but she was unable to keep him, to prevent him returning to the shelter I took him in. He is aggressive, he often goes extremely deep with his claws and teeth, last night he went for my face and neck. I play with him all the time and am currently harness training him so he can go outside. He will be cuddly and calm and then out of no where attack me, I have booked him in for a behavioural vet consult.

In addition to his issues, unlike any other pet I have had, I just don't like him... I have not built a connection with him and I don't know why. I do not like him at all and it feels so unfair on him. I want to rehome him but I am so worried that he will be mistreated or put down for his behaviour, and I feel so sad and scared at the thought of giving him away even though Ive only had him for 6 months

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u/JazzSighted — 2 days ago

Driving from Germany to Greece, what's the best method?

Me and my friend are planning to drive along the following countries late next year:

Germany

Austria

Slovenia

Croatia

Bosnia/Herzegovina

Montenegro

Serbia

North Macedonia

Albania

Ending in greece

We are in the early stages of planning and of course the biggest issue is getting a car, we are unsure if it's smarter to buy a shitbox or rent a car, every car rental place I've searched for so far does not have drop off points where we need (any place in Germany to any place in Greece)

We will be 20 at the time, which is an issue with car rentals as well, hopefully a car big enough for us to sleep in a fair bit as well but we are both small so that shouldn't be hard. What are some of the best options?

Edit: only want to hear options regarding driving, not alternative methods of travel

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u/JazzSighted — 11 days ago
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UWA social clubs, not all are on the website

What UWA social, activity and sporting clubs aren't on the standard "join a club" page? I'm struggling to find them but want to get involved more

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u/JazzSighted — 24 days ago
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Got home from holiday and found this strange black course stuff on my bed

Definitely not soil

Edit: I have checked my cats fur all over and I see no sign of anything!

Edit: my cats other sleeping spots do not have any signs of this, it's only on top of my bed. It has been a long day so I am going to sleep (in that same bed), so hopefully I don't wake up with a strange rash or any sort of infection

Edit: the stuff is black, the blanket is bright orange, I am not blue, just the way my camera picked up the lighting

Edit: there is nothing above my bed

Edit: cats litter is white, my suitcase is new and not Desintegrating

u/False-Reputation6829 — 2 months ago

[TOMT] movie about a religious man who tortures himself

I watched it with my dad probably when I was 10 around 2017. It featured a man going through religious psychosis, setting was often in a white room with just a bed and a cross above it, he would I believe torture himself (or someone else would torture him), it was extremely graphic, I believe there was also some sort of priest who wasn't a good person involved as well, some church settings. The guy would draw all over his walls too. I can't find anything about it online but I remember it being a good movie. Saw it in Australia but it was likely from the UK or America. I'm pretty sure it was Christian but it could have been something else. I randomly remember scenes from the movie in the white room but have never been able to find it since.

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u/JazzSighted — 2 months ago

I've been offered a huge career opportunity, but I'm worried I'll find it boring and won't stick with it.

Just turned 19 and building my career in marketing, I've been offered a role at a new company, it's a 40k pay increase from what I'm currently working, it's part of a large team, huge career opportunities and room to travel..issue is it's at a mining company and it sounds so goddamn boring, I'm worried if I say yes to the role I'll just keep job hopping because of how boring it will be, I'm very much a person who gets carried away on bouts of fantasy and quite erratic. But the money will change my life right now and I really need those career opportunities, part of me thinks that another job like this will come up soon, I've had no issue finding work since I started going into my field.

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u/JazzSighted — 2 months ago

19m, What can I do?

I look a lot younger than I am, very aware. I am not intending on looking overly masculine or the stereotypical "Chad," that's just not who I am! Super into somewhat alternative 2000s looks, attached a couple of photos at the end. What can I do to make my overall appearance better while still looking like me? Looking for specific advice :-)

u/JazzSighted — 2 months ago

Is what I eat currently okay. How important are the calories

Aiming to lose 7kg, at a healthy weight currently not remotely chubby but wanting to get rid of a bit of face fat. (Currently weight 56 kg. Aiming for just under 50kg, at 5"3)

My eats usually look like: 2 wheetbix for breakfast, often a coffee on my way to the office, salad or a sandwich for lunch and a sweet treat, chocolate bar or muffin, I'll have an afternoon snack maybe a few chips once home, dinner based on whatever ingredients I have currently, usually vege based meals. I'll have takeout maybe once a fortnight. I like my current diet and I love food, as much as I want to lose weight I'm worried about forming a bad relationship with food and I'm worried I'll spend so much of my time thinking about what I eat instead of just having it.

I walk around 10k steps a day, usually more, I've started going to the gym once a week and am planning to up this to be more regularly. Should I be changing my diet, or can I just start excercising more?

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u/JazzSighted — 3 months ago

I have a poster from 2006(?)signed by Andy Nicholson, how much would this be worth if I tried to sell it?

Love it but financial struggles

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u/JazzSighted — 3 months ago

How can I be taken seriously in interviews as a 19 year old?

Applying for marketing roles slightly higher or same level as what I'm doing, 65-70k a year. My biggest issue is my age, and that I look younger than I am. I look about 14, so obviously my experience is immediately discredited. What can I do to amend this?

3 years marketing officer and events manager

6 month temp role as an administration assistant

3 month marketing internship at a not-for-profit company

6 months ongoing role as a marketing and business strategy manager (promoted from the 3 year role as marketing officer)

3 months ongoing role as a marketing coordinator

1 year running a self owned styling business (around 50 clients a year, roughly 20k yearly intake)

Numerous sales roles and bartending roles that I'm no longer in

Ongoing bachelor in media and communications

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u/JazzSighted — 3 months ago

First woman I'm actually interested in building a life with, how do I not screw this up?

Never had a crush before, never been on a date where I've been interested in the person, was thinking I was potentially some kind of aromantic. This girl I'm talking to now is so similar to me, she likes the same music, she has very similar goals and ambitions, she's artistic, she's actually interesting to talk to and is super unique. I feel like she's way out of my league, she's interested in me too, but I'm a 5"3 guy who still looks 16 (I'm 19, she's 21), I'm socially awkward and arguably a total loser. How can I make sure I'm giving good impressions when we hang out?

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u/JazzSighted — 3 months ago

Leading up to a date, following a date, when things start to get more serious, I immediately feel gross, uninterested and resentment towards the person, even if we click. Which obviously is not a good thing. I'm 19 and a guy, this has happened with all 5 dates I've been on in the last year.

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u/JazzSighted — 4 months ago