Confused over how quick a breakup happened
My Girlfriend 18F broke up with me 19m two weeks ago and I’m so confused and heartbroken. Everything felt so good, we never argued during our 6 months together and 9 months of talking altogether. Only ten days before she did it we were laughing and cuddling together on her sofa. She was sending me tiktoks about me only over a week before as-well. We consistently saw each other that whole month and went on plenty of walks and even a nice date. Everything was real and pure until out of nowhere she decided to end it.
April 29th was when she broke up with me. She was at her friends house and texted me saying she wanted to talk about our relationship. Obviously my heart dropped and immediately went to pick her up. We sat in the car for I’d say about 20 minutes when she told me. She said she wanted to focus on herself and that she had a lot going on in her personal life that made her very stressed. She has big exams in June and I was aware that she was stressed about them but not to this extent of a breakup. I asked her if she still loved me and she said yes of course. I also asked how long she felt this way and she said within the last week. She said she was afraid that we would end on an argument because of her own stress that she would take it out on me. She had also told me about how she bought me a Deb’s ticket (Prom ticket basically) for the end of the year around October time. Then not even a month later she breaks up.
There isn’t any bad blood between us but she removed me as a follower on her tiktok account which caught me off guard. I’ve decided to respect her space for a while and let her do her exams and see where my heads at after that on whether I’ll reach out again. I just personally think she’s reacted too fast on her emotions but I can’t say that 100%. I’m just left confused as to how quickly things changed.
I asked her the day after if we could go out and talk about it but she said no and was pretty firm on it. Since then I’ve left her alone completely and gone no contact. I really do want her back so I figured the best thing is to let her complete her exams and then see what happens.
My question is do you think she’s reacted to fast to her emotions or what could be a deeper meaning than just working on herself? Has anyone experienced something similar and did you end up getting back together? Is there value in reaching out after she finishes her exams?