u/Kat_kitTv

Today we discovered my step brother has been using me and my sister's underwear to jerk off with. I'm so used to all his bullshit of being disgusting I don't even feel anything really. I'm disappointed and angry. I'm so so so disgusted. Sorry I wasn't sure how to tag it properly

I've been a lurker for a while, and I do wanna join. /_\ I'm rlly shy and im not sure how to start or join. I don't have a comfortable enough environment to regress in, and I'm not really sure how to properly do it either. Anyone know how I can possibly get started? I want to regress because it's comfortable for me, I also have chronic pain and I think being able to de stress and relax would help me feel a lil better. Uh ye lemme know some stuff get started for beginer. I'm not able to find much good stuff to enjoy, so I would love to hear reccomendations everybody has like shows they watch, or activities they do! Share with me! Sorry it's a bit dum post but I better take advice when it's told directly to me <////>

Pls no nsfw accs interact dni ! 😌 have a good day! Thank u for reading <3

My harvey passed away January 9th. I couldn't believe what was happening, he had a tumour rupture inside him causing internal bleeding. The cost was thousands, and my family is already in financial issues, especially after Christmas. I didn't get to say goodbye to harvey, or go with him, whi h is I'll forever hate myself for not doing, not even attempting to ask. We were best friends. I got him when I moved into my new forever home. And now I'm learning my house is being sold. I'm in so pain, I can't leave him behind here in this house. I miss him with all my soul, it's not the same even with his two brothers still here. Harvey was only 6. I had 3 cats, now down to two. And on the same day my Nana lost her eldest boy, Romeo. In the same month, her cat Artemis passed away too, she was also very young. The pain of it all is so overwhelming. Ty for letting me get this out : ( maybe it will help

My PCOS has put my in severe pain for the past few years, and through all the videos online talking about it I've never heard anyone else talk about the pain. My ovaries would ache every single day, sometimes the pain would make me cry or miss school, it could be flared up for days. After like two years of finding the perfect birth control and antidepressants, I'm pretty much free of the pain on my ovaries, besides occasional small aches and days when I flare up, usually during pms. And so, I am here to ask, does anyone else in this works experience such aching horrid pains due to the cysts on their ovaries. I'm sick of being the only one with no one who can relate, I feel so alone. Also the headaches I get from PCOS are killer, I might die from chronic migraines. So please if ur out there let a Cyster know! Thank u for reading my rant :3

I've never really understood the appeal of TPE. I don't think I'd ever be able to trust someone with that much control over my life, so I'm curious how people navigate it andddd autonomy.

like, if a partner's rules affect friendships or other relationships, how do people handle that? Imagine your best friend cutting you off because their partner told them to 🥲 I genuinely don't think I could process that.

If you don't want to do something one day, or want to make your own decision, can you even after agreeing to have decisions made for you? Luke if you truly actually want to

Some people have contracts too, so do those still leave room for personal freedom, or does the Dom usually get the final say because of what's written down? I sometimes worry that a Dom could "override" someone's feelings because of past consent or agreements and like u just have to take it without much say

I know boundaries are discussed beforehand, but people and situations change. I'm curious how people make sure TPE stays healthy and doesn't become unfair or unsafe.

I'm mostly asking out of curiosity (and for character writing), because whenever I imagine TPE my brain goes "this person is secretly yearning for freedom" lol.

I'm new to learning about this, and personal experiences make it hard for me to fully understand, so I'm just trying to learn how it works, what is usually included, and how people make sure everyone involved is safe, consenting, and genuinely enjoying it. And sorry this is long I tried to shorten it but I have too many questions

PLS NO ONE BE MAD AT ME I'M NEW AND JUST WORRIED ABOUT LIKE HOW STUFF ACTUALLY WORKS THANK YOU pls be nice 💔

Sorry if this doesn't fit this sub but I've always wondered the "psychology" behind doms who are into CNC, or just inflicting pain onto their partner in general. It makes me wonder their true morals and if someone who enjoys "raping" their partner to be a safe person overall. To be real, it mostly concerns me when it's a man, edit: violence is more normalized in boys, causing violence to be acceptible in men. It's a bit scary to think someone is in bdsm because they might actually be desiring to hurt someone in the not so sexy way. As we can tell I'm totally not into it so it's hard to wrap my head around

Just wanna hear other ppls thoughts and inform me if u want to, how it works or whatever. I know it's not a rare kink, so it's gotta be safe and sane son how lmao (again sorry if this doesn't fit i dunno where to ask such things. Also I'm personally not into bdsm so I'm just curious!)