u/Kazimira-darkside

I have progressed from 30 lbs to 130+ lbs on all gym machines but I honestly hate driving there, changing, waiting on machines… I’m way more consistent with my upper body workouts because I do them at home. But I’m afraid that I won’t get the proper stimulation as I can’t physically hold a 130+ lb bar to perform lower body workouts. What else can I do to substitute my gym leg workouts routine for home?
Any recs for someone like me?

Below is my current leg routine

Outer thighs 4x13 175 lbs
Inner thighs 4x13 110 lbs
Leg curls (hams) 4x8 135 lbs
Leg extensions (quads) 5x10 135 lbs
Leg press (glutes) 4x10 140 lbs

I’m looking for a photographer who can shoot most of our wedding on film (Fort Worth, TX).

Looking for 2-3 hours of coverage in January (courthouse ceremony and couple+family portraits before and/or after). No getting ready or reception photos needed.

I searched online and found only one but she hasn’t responded to me. Any options I’m overlooking?

Thanks a bunch.

I need good eyebrow masters recommendations! Looking to shape up my brows, by threading or other methods, no matter. Who are your trusted masters??

Hi, does anyone know of any restaurants (preferably classy looking/slightly upscale) with a private room option? We’re looking to host a 20 person party somewhere in Arlington or Grand Prairie, and the only one we found to be not outrageously expensive was Piccolo Mondo Italian restaurant, but their private dining room seems a little outdated and stuffy.

Since I’ve been hanging out on multiple wedding subs, I’ve come across so many disgruntled guests’ opinions. It seems like people are just tired of weddings. And while sometimes the attendance comes with a big cost attached, it’s not always what they complain about.

For example, having a dress code listed (just the formality level, not even ridiculous requests for a certain color of attire). Or not having a plus-one. Or having to RSVP by mail because they don’t own a stamp and the invite didn’t come with a pre-stamped envelope. Or having to log to a wedding website and press on three buttons to RSVP. Or not leaving their children home for 3 hours because it’s No Kids event (I know this is controversial, because not everyone can hire a babysitter).

I absolutely understand when the couple are asking for lavish gifts, or the drive to the wedding is 5 hours long, or the dress code is “black tie” and you have to rent a ball gown, or yes, you can’t leave your kids at home to attend an adult only event. In which case, it’s perfectly acceptable to just say No and not go.

But why do people complain about, idk, having to put on some nice(r) clothes and eating a perfectly bland chicken meal because someone wanted them to witness a celebration of love? Maybe I’m just bitter because I hardly get invited to weddings (my friends are single by choice or got married in a courthouse), but I’d certainly not prefer staying in and watching Netflix to a wedding. In fact, I’m flying overseas to a wedding of a friend who’s not even especially close - just because her wedding sounds amazing and she wanted me to be there (yes, this is a privilege, but it was in my budget and I’ve always wanted to visit that country anyway).

Is this a post-Covid thing? To RSVP No because of some minor thing, or worse, just skip it last minute because you didn’t feel like going?

I am genuinely curious and not trying to bash anyone. I just want to understand other people’s mindsets, so please don’t get defensive (or do - no harm done! Like I said, I’m just curious!)

Since I’ve been hanging out on multiple wedding subs, I’ve come across so many disgruntled guests’ opinions. It seems like people are just tired of weddings. And while sometimes the attendance comes with a big cost attached, it’s not always what they complain about.

For example, having a dress code listed (just the formality level, not even ridiculous requests for a certain color of attire). Or not having a plus-one. Or having to RSVP by mail because they don’t own a stamp and the invite didn’t come with a pre-stamped envelope. Or having to log to a wedding website and press on three buttons to RSVP. Or not leaving their children home for 3 hours because it’s No Kids event (I know this is controversial, because not everyone can hire a babysitter).

I absolutely understand when the couple are asking for lavish gifts, or the drive to the wedding is 5 hours long, or the dress code is “black tie” and you have to rent a ball gown, or yes, you can’t leave your kids at home to attend an adult only event. In which case, it’s perfectly acceptable to just say No and not go.

But why do people complain about, idk, having to put on some nice(r) clothes and eating a perfectly bland chicken meal because someone wanted them to witness a celebration of love? Maybe I’m just bitter because I hardly get invited to weddings (my friends are single by choice or got married in a courthouse), but I’d certainly not prefer staying in and watching Netflix to a wedding. In fact, I’m flying overseas to a wedding of a friend who’s not even especially close - just because her wedding sounds amazing and she wanted me to be there (yes, this is a privilege, but it was in my budget and I’ve always wanted to visit that country anyway).

Is this a post-Covid thing? To RSVP No because of some minor thing, or worse, just skip it last minute because you didn’t feel like going?

I am genuinely curious and not trying to bash anyone. I just want to understand other people’s mindsets, so please don’t get defensive (or do - no harm done! Like I said, I’m just curious!)

Hey yall, we’re doing a very small (20-25 people) wedding in January in north Texas. The reception is a late luncheon at an upscale restaurant, with no DJ or dancing. What dress code should I put on invites?

Our friends and family are a casual bunch but I’ve known them to go all out for Halloween, so I’d like to assume dressing up won’t be too bothersome for them. Of course, I wouldn’t want anyone to go out of their way to purchase a floor length dress or rent a tux, so Black Tie or even BTO are out of the question. However, if I put “semi-formal” or “cocktail attire”, I’m afraid many might be underdressed for the one “fancy” party we’re throwing our whole lives.

Should I just ask for “formal dress code”? Or provide more details? What wording doesn’t suck, but conveys that we’d like them to put effort into their appearance?

I’m looking for an upscale vibe restaurant that can host 25-30 people for a daytime wedding. I’ve looked into Sanford House and it’s my favorite option so far, but it’s turning out to be a little pricey (almost $4k or so). Is it delusional of me to hope for something cheaper but still classy looking? Also open to nearby towns (GP, Duncanville, Desoto).

Thank you!