Hey everyone! I am looking to move to nj for work, I was thinking around the Sewell / Glassboro area. I found an apartment complex I think it’s called white oak at mantua? If there’s any current residents I love to chat about living there!!
Hi everyone,
We’re in a 6yr relationship but LDR for about 2.5 yrs. For context he has cheated before although he didn’t admit it or understand it was cheating at first but understands. He has been seeing his friend quite often this past week staying at his house, going out smoking apparently and saying late there and even all day. I wasn’t aware that he was so close to this person. I am not convinced he’s telling the truth because his demeanor with me has changed radically and blames me for issues when I’m just reacting to his off behavior. And when he’s on ft and texting I can see his face and you can just tell that face is texting someone not in a guy friend way. A smile, smirk, licking the lips, eyes Beaty.
Yesterday he went over to do fantasy football stuff, I asked how it went he said good only small details and convo was brief. I really couldn’t let this go so I used one of those websites to see if his friend posted while they hung out. He in fact did post but a video of his cat and gf in his room around 9:30, my bf no where in sight and he was there till about 10:40. So I know for a fact he’s been lying.
If ANYONE IN HERE LIVES IN SOUTH JERSEY SEWELL AREA who lives at the white oak apartment at mantua, please I really need to know who he’s actually seeing. It’s a complex so it’s hard to try to look up who lives there but seriously if anyone who currently lives there please help me out. TIA
**yes I know if I already have suspicions I should leave but it’s more complicated than that but that will happen at some point plz no judgement**
Hi everyone, I’m hoping to get some help on seeing if anyone in the apartment complex in white oak at mantua in south jersey is able to help me out trying to find something.
My bf has been spending alot of time there and I don’t believe he has been telling me the truth about who actually lives there. If this isn’t allowed I understand but if someone who currently lives there can help me out thank you. If this isn’t allowed I’m so sorry I just am running out of options being LDR. TIA
In hopes this reaches ppl who live in NJ specifically Sewell.
Hi everyone,
We’re in a 6yr relationship but LDR for about 2.5 yrs. For context he has cheated before although he didn’t admit it or understand it was cheating at first but understands. He has been seeing his friend quite often this past week staying at his house, going out smoking apparently and saying late there and even all day. I wasn’t aware that he was so close to this person. I am not convinced he’s telling the truth because his demeanor with me has changed radically and blames me for issues when I’m just reacting to his off behavior. And when he’s on ft and texting I can see his face and you can just tell that face is texting someone not in a guy friend way. A smile, smirk, licking the lips, eyes Beaty.
Yesterday he went over to do fantasy football stuff, I asked how it went he said good only small details and convo was brief. I really couldn’t let this go so I used one of those websites to see if his friend posted while they hung out. He in fact did post but a video of his cat and gf in his room around 9:30, my bf no where in sight and he was there till about 10:40. So I know for a fact he’s been lying.
If ANYONE IN HERE LIVES IN SOUTH JERSEY SEWELL AREA who lives at the white oak apartment at mantua, please I really need to know who he’s actually seeing. It’s a complex so it’s hard to try to look up who lives there but seriously if anyone who currently lives there please help me out. TIA
In hopes this post reaches ppl who live in NJ specifically Sewell nj.
Hi everyone,
We’re in a 6yr relationship but LDR for about 2.5 yrs. For context he has cheated before although he didn’t admit it or understand it was cheating at first but understands. He has been seeing his friend quite often this past week staying at his house, going out smoking apparently and saying late there and even all day. I wasn’t aware that he was so close to this person. I am not convinced he’s telling the truth because his demeanor with me has changed radically and blames me for issues when I’m just reacting to his off behavior. And when he’s on ft and texting I can see his face and you can just tell that face is texting someone not in a guy friend way. A smile, smirk, licking the lips, eyes Beaty.
Yesterday he went over to do fantasy football stuff, I asked how it went he said good only small details and convo was brief. I really couldn’t let this go so I used one of those websites to see if his friend posted while they hung out. He in fact did post but a video of his cat and gf in his room around 9:30, my bf no where in sight and he was there till about 10:40. So I know for a fact he’s been lying.
If ANYONE IN HERE LIVES IN SOUTH JERSEY SEWELL AREA who lives at the white oak apartment at mantua, please I really need to know who he’s actually seeing. It’s a complex so it’s hard to try to look up who lives there but seriously if anyone who currently lives there please help me out. TIA
Hi everyone,
We’re in a 6yr relationship but LDR for about 2.5 yrs. For context he has cheated before although he didn’t admit it or understand it was cheating at first but understands. He has been seeing his friend quite often this past week staying at his house, going out smoking apparently and saying late there and even all day. I wasn’t aware that he was so close to this person. I am not convinced he’s telling the truth because his demeanor with me has changed radically and blames me for issues when I’m just reacting to his off behavior. And when he’s on ft and texting I can see his face and you can just tell that face is texting someone not in a guy friend way. A smile, smirk, licking the lips, eyes Beaty.
Yesterday he went over to do fantasy football stuff, I asked how it went he said good only small details and convo was brief. I really couldn’t let this go so I used one of those websites to see if his friend posted while they hung out. He in fact did post but a video of his cat and gf in his room around 9:30, my bf no where in sight and he was there till about 10:40. So I know for a fact he’s been lying.
If ANYONE IN HERE LIVES IN SOUTH JERSEY SEWELL AREA who lives at the white oak apartment at mantua, please I really need to know who he’s actually seeing. It’s a complex so it’s hard to try to look up who lives there but seriously if anyone who currently lives there please help me out. TIA
Hey everyone! I am looking to move to nj for work, I was thinking around the Sewell / Glassboro area. I found an apartment complex I think it’s called white oak at mantua? If there’s any current residents I love to chat about living there!!
I’m going through a bit of a situation right now. I apologize if this is a long read but I’m kind of lost and maybe internet friends will help. I am in a 6yr relationship and recently we had a pretty big bump in the road. He was having an emotional connection with someone at work (younger) he says they were just friends, didn’t even like her at first but got to know her and their connection just went from there. To my understanding this all happened within a couple months maybe a few.
Context: early on in the relationship and a couple years into it, I had lied and hid a friendship that I had with ppl from him (1st in high school barely a few weeks in I kept in contact with someone I had a bit of a fling with I know wrong but it wasn’t high school and so early on| 2nd was a friend I made in college our first semester in, we had a few classes together and we were like yea why not be friends, but I didn’t see him as a threat so I wanted my bf to also not see him as a threat, he did ask me to stop talking to him but I didn’t bc there was nothing to worry about but not sure why I couldn’t wrap my head around just listening to a boundary.) and it clearly was wrong but I have apologized since, done my work over the years to rectify hurting him whether that was allowing him to look thru my phone, needing more updates while going out with friends, more FaceTime calls and just more reassurance that I wasn’t doing anything shady. To be fair, I know it was wrong to hide it, there wasn’t in appropriate going on between my self and the other person, it was more so I didn’t feel he had anything to worry about but he was clearly uncomfortable and I should’ve respected it.
Since being long distance (since may 2024) I’ve been the main one traveling (4hr drive) with him traveling to me about 3-4 times since starting. I go to him every other weekend (lining up with my moms work so I don’t miss time with her either) while having to push weekends if there is something going on and doing back to backs when making it up. Sometimes I wouldn’t go for a few weeks and I always had a reason to and sometimes I’d be exhausted from the travel so I have said before I’m too tired etc.
I have tried to carry out a normal routine, work m-f 8-4:30 and immediate FaceTime calls right after work unless I had plans. I am a busy bee, I like to be busy, I have a couple friends and a close cousin who I hang out with a lot. So we would plan things thru out the week sometimes a couple times or on weekends, making sure it doesn’t cut into our calling time but sometimes it did and I would give him at least a week or few days notice of plans happening where we couldn’t be on the phone right away. It started to happen a bit more during the start of spring and summer and he didn’t like that I was always out all the time. I tried to understand and always made sure to call Him after work if the plans were later in the evening so at least we talked for a few hours while working all day. But I guess that wasn’t enough, he felt I wasn’t present and I think bc I was the main one traveling I saw my being present physically as something that counted more than present over the phone. Like yes I would have plans the week I would be heading up but at least I’m coming and we’d have a weekend planned. (Got in Friday nights, he was off Saturday’s and Sunday worked so I leave early) so this was the most recent disconnect between us that lead to what happened. I took accountability and just pulled back on the hang outs, more calls even thru the day at work but noticed him going out more ( he is a homebody). Just a shift in things, which is when I noticed some hangouts were very long into the night and end the night at an address that I didn’t know of. I just felt things out of whack, so I brought to his attention maybe not the correct way but he said no she’s just a friend it’s a friend group after plans they’d end the night at her house having drinks in the yard. I said I didn’t like that bc the energy surrounding it was wrong so I bugged out everytime they hung out. He said my reaction to it made me push him closer to her and cross that like that apparently wasn’t crossed until maybe a month in.
Now back to present day, I went through some of his stuff and found things they’ve sent each other (nothing sexual or physical happened to my knowledge) it was just emotional (videos or TikTok’s u would only send to someone you are tying to get to know on a deeper level) when I confronted him, he was at work and it wasn’t a good conversation. I was fully ready to end it but i didn’t go thru with it. This happened June/July so it’s all pretty fresh. I know invasion of privacy but there’s a lot more details to how I suspected things but this is already too long.
I clearly chose to continue the relationship and try to move forward but it’s been extremely hard. At first he wouldn’t admit it, said it’s nothing you haven’t done before, it’s the same thing you did before. But I didn’t have anything with the college friend. The high school I get but it was so long ago, I thought we would’ve most past it. Same with the college sophomore year so that was 2021. Anyway when I called him to confront him out he took the defensive side and called me every name in the book and tried to justify what he did. He kind of made a fuss at work, claiming some coworkers saw my message bc he was showing them something. From there I chose to continue, he was able to admit after a few days and my questions were non stop, he explained to me why (she listened to him and made him feel understood/seen) over the weeks we’ve had a lot of conversations about it, he’s apologized admitted his wrongs and taken accountability. Provided reassurance but at times would get defensive again when I needed more. We were trying to move on from the situation but I was gutted didn’t know how to feel etc, but he would tell me I messed up one time in 7 years and you’d leave just like that? Anyway, convos would get heavy and sometimes lead to sad convos and him beating himself up and just apologizing all over again. So I was trying to put my best foot forward.
But another incident happened where I found odd messages with another coworker ( I went thru his phone before a hang out and he got extremely mad at me) I know wrong but something was telling me to check bc they kept texting so frequently all of a sudden. His reasoning was he was trying to get in her good graces to get a promotion( unfortunately he did not get it so that was for nothing) and he apologized and told me he will never speak to her again and keep is cordial at work if they need to interact.
It’s August and I’m still having a hard time trusting him and believing him when it comes to hangouts with friends. Hes been very distance these past two days, a complete 180 since I saw him last and is just saying he’s tired from work and it’s been stressful. But this comes after him seeing a friend Friday night, claiming they were gonna smoke and talk as guys do. So he did go but then ended up at another house, an address I’m unfamiliar with and didn’t get home till 1am. Something was telling me he wasn’t being honest about who he was with. And then the next day had another hang out sun up to sun down at another friends house who had a farm. Isn’t texting or calling as usual, it’s just off and every time I’ve tried to talk about it he says I’m ruining his day and we’ve been having bad days everyday. Yes we’ve been having small arguments just bc I’m not entirely convinced about the things he tells me so I ask questions and he gets annoyed. Maybe I don’t express it the right way but I’m trying.
I guess the advice I’m asking is how do I keep pushing from here? He’s been telling me he loves me and says he’s been reassuring me but gets frustrated bc I keep going and going but the words don’t match the actions. I am very frustrated and have been sad everyday since. And he is moving back to our home state for a job, and wants his own place bc he doesn’t want to start off a new lease with the tension of the issues going on. He thinks it will break us rather than keep us strong if we put our selves in the same space after almsot three years of LDR. We need to work our way into it. Another reason he’s been going out more is him moving back here and claiming he won’t be able to maintain the friendships he has there and wants to make the most of it. And he’s moving back to me and we’ll be spending even more time. I know this is super long but to anyone who can give me advice I need it. I am in therapy bc of this so I’m trying to do my part. TIA
Okay so I need some advice guys. I already saw them in CT but I’m heavily considering getting tickets for either show next weekend. I’ve heard that Hamilton??? Had 20$ upgrades (not sure where exactly ppl got upgraded to, if you have insight lmk) do we think MSG will offer that same kind of price upgrade?? I didn’t even think to see if Mohegan had upgrades I was pretty happy with my seat. I’m just thinking how much I wanna spend total if I do go TIA 😝