u/Koalaboxess

Would you rather hit your protein but go over calories majorly, or just miss protein for a day?

E.g If the only protein source was a fatty steak, or cheese, whole yoghurt/milk ECT..

Edit- This is a hypothetical, I don't often have this problem either. If, for example, you were staying with family or in a rural area and ran out of your normal foods is what I meant

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u/Koalaboxess — 4 days ago

Like hey! you can see I have a 600+ day streak, but where are the foods lol? I track my food as an athlete and I need to know what made me perform a certain way... Need the app to work!

Is there a way for this to be fixed?

u/Koalaboxess — 18 days ago

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So me and him went travelling for a month and obvs were living together then and it was great. I stayed overseas, he went back home. Now he's got a thing in the US for sport (he's an NFL guy), and I had planned to meet him there.

The issue is that his parents, seemingly out of nowhere, believe he's not mature enough to go alone, and that they need to be there. He does not want them to. There is copious history with his father and abuse and outbursts that are uncontrollable, and this stresses him out. He doesn't want this opportunity to be ruined by his dad, or to be stressed out. Whatever. He agreed with them in the end, reluctantly, because he did not want to destroy his relationship with them.

Right now he's not speaking to his mum because of how she broke the news to his dad that he didn't want them coming, and he's overall very angry and upset and hurt by what they've said. I'm there for him as much as I can be from across the world and I love him so much.

But I don't want to stay in a house with his parents. Like I'm sorry that's not the same thing as being alone with him. I don't feel very comfortable around, especially his dad (not that they're creepy or anything they're very nice to me I just don't want to), and I don't want to feel like I can't be myself for 2-4 weeks. Also. We haven't seen each other in 2 months, we are going to want to have sex and be together and not have his fucking parents there.

I'm also just angry at them for how they're treating him right now, and for what this has brought up about the past and the things I've learnt happened. I don't think I'll ever be able to look at them the same.

Is it bad to say that? I genuinely don't want to come if it means sharing a house with them. Which sounds so horrible but it's just a gut feeling- I also don't think it would be good for him, he can't relax when they're around and he fuckign needs to to be able to succeed in this... like it's actually ridiculous this whole situation. Meanwhile I'm halfway across the fucking world right now so I can't even talk to him in person.

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u/Koalaboxess — 24 days ago