Got my first Mulberry bag

Got it in Outlet (great deal)
I couldn’t resist haha
It will my perfect work bag
And I chose this bc of strap

u/Lala-Noir — 11 days ago

Orange theory/Pilates/Corefire or Hot yoga?

Hi everyone.
I’m trying to lose weight and I’m considering one of the above options.
Any feedback?
Im not too consistent and I really need to like it or I won’t be motivated to go.

I tried club Pilates at Paramus Park - I didn’t like it (attended for 3mo).

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u/Lala-Noir — 1 month ago

Baby’s appetite decreased

Idk what’s going on. Baby started to eat less. Sometimes he doesn’t eat anything except carbs on his plate like rice, cracker or pasta.
Idk what to do. He used to eat better. He just turned one and idk what to do. I keep offering but he barely eats any veggies or meat

u/Lala-Noir — 1 month ago

Lunch for 11mo old. Need sardines brand recommendation pls

I gave my LO sardines from Whole Foods (Sea Tails)
But I’m open to any other recommendations

u/Lala-Noir — 2 months ago

Surgical NPs here?

Hello.
I’m starting my new role in 3-4 months as a surgical NP. I’ll be working with General surgery team.

Can you recommend a useful book?

I’ll be doing my rounds, preop&postop patients, ER consults etc.
I want to feel somewhat prepared🙌🏼

Thank you🩵

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u/Lala-Noir — 2 months ago

NP work bag

It’s so random but I’m really curious what bags do you use for work?
Looking for suggestions.

I want something fancy and at the same time something I can use for everyday and not be worried that it will scratch.

I’d appreciate if you show me your bag pics😍

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u/Lala-Noir — 2 months ago

Activities for 1yo baby

Hello Bergen county parents.
Any activities to do with baby?
I’m planing yo enroll my baby into swimming class.
But I feel like we can do more stuff.
Any recommendations?
What’s the best developmental activity we can do? Maybe music class? Idk

Thank you

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u/Lala-Noir — 2 months ago

11mo old is not in the mood to self feed

He started and then I helped him finish. He not a fan of butternut but loves avocado and chicken

u/Lala-Noir — 2 months ago

Credentialing process

Can I just complain about long credentialing process… omg what is this? I’m miserable.
Do I have to go thru this every time I change my job?

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u/Lala-Noir — 2 months ago

130 filed for my spouse as LPR.

Hi.
I’ve filed for my spouse as LPR. June 2026.
I’ve also file for citizenship (Newark FO) in June 2026.

In my understating once I become USC how do I update the case?

My spouse has an immigration case in the court.
We have got 2 years for the whole process.
Do you guys think it’s enough time for 130 process?
When can we file for 485?

Also how fast are things moving in Newark for N400?

Thank you in advance.

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u/Lala-Noir — 2 months ago

11mo old learning to self feed.

He ate by himself. I didn’t help him.
Chicken meatball, veggies and pasta

u/Lala-Noir — 2 months ago

11mo old. Lunch.

11 mo old. Barely ate anything. The food was on the floor and he played with it a lot.
He did eat some. I feel like I’m serving a lot and he just doesn’t need this much.

u/Lala-Noir — 3 months ago

Dinner was late I fed baby

11 mo old.
I got late with dinner he became fussy so I had to finger feed him. He also self feed himself with sweet potato and the rest fed by me. I should have known better and not be late next time.

u/Lala-Noir — 3 months ago

11mo old first real plate. Is it ok?

Hi. Baby is 11mo. I’m glad I found this subreddit.
We started with purées at 6mo.
At around 9mo I started small pieces occasionally.
This is his first SELF-FEEDING and Real plate.
Is it ok? I have solid starts app and it says once I start real food and teach him self feeding I should not feed him or give any purées.
That’s what I did.
I’m FTM and nervous is he got enough food.
There was some on his chair.
He looks happy overall. And when I served him meal he was hungry. And I ate the same thing next to him.

u/Lala-Noir — 3 months ago

Baby 11 mo, not self feeding

Hi everyone. I need guidance.
I’m a FTM.
I started baby on purées at 6mo.
Now he’s 11mo we do some purées still (thicker version). He has 3 meals a day:
Breakfast: oatmeal cereal with mango/pear/or peach - cut in small cubes.
Or rice cereals with cube fruits.
Or omelet.

Lunch: Chicken (thick puree version) made with veggies and rice.

Dinner: beef with veggies and rice or buckwheat.

Baby can eat those crunchy sticks by himself.
I guess bc it’s easy to hold.
He would eat a little by picking up a couple cubes of sweet potato or fruit(or whatever I give him) then he starts playing with it and throw it on the floor.
I feel like I’m late with offering different foods and solids. I’m terrified of choking.
I try to show him how to self feed.

How do I teach him to self feed? Self feed with fingers or give him a spoon/fork?
Any advice appreciated

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u/Lala-Noir — 3 months ago