u/LegitimateAd7669

How did you know you were over the person? What did it take to work through it and heal? I'm currently in like my 30th off phase in a 5 year on and off relationship and I finally stopped looking at her social media (for 24 hours lol, and hopefully don't 'relapse', because it truly was an addiction). I really want to do the work and get over this person and start fresh eventually with someone new, but I'm not even sure what getting over a relationship looks like because I never have. I can't see myself not being bothered if I see her with someone new, for example. I'm at my worst in this relationship, but when I'm out of it I want nothing more than to go back.

I've tried manifesting in the past and I want to get back into it, the only thing I'm a bit confused about is making sure your subconscious believes it and you think highly of yourself. How does one practice this and actually believe it so I can start manifesting? I feel like my brain always goes back to negative thoughts. Even if I'm manifesting my SP and trying to 'let go' my brain has a hard time doing that, and goes back to thoughts about them. I understand you should say good things to yourself, but I've tried and it doesn't seem to work for me. I definitely have self worth issues lol but I want to work on that I'm just not sure where to start.

About 7 months ago my ex left me for a guy a day after we broke up, then hooked up with another guy after they broke up. She told me the guy raped her, which turned out to be a lie that I found out about like 2 weeks ago. She then told me she never said he "raped her" just that she "felt uncomfortable". Turns out she saw the guy not once but twice about a week apart. Now she won't talk to ME. How do you deal with not getting closure after being lied to about something like this?!!! I'm like wtf I saw pictures and all this shit and I'm just so out of it.

Does anyone know if MacBooks still don't block a user on messages automatically if you do it from your phone? Do you have to do it manually from the MacBook?

I sent so many texts because I was blocked. Easy way to get it off my chest right? Wrong. I just found out if you block people on messages they still get them on their MacBook. Idk how to feel because I don't even REMEMBER what I said. After I send angry texts I delete the whole message and pretend it never happened just to get it off my chest. I'm so done

My ex and I got back together at the beginning of the year, and on Friday I found out she lied about being raped (to I assume get back together with me). I found out and tried breaking up with her, she followed me and pushed and shoved and grabbed me. I have a bruise from her grabbing me so hard and a cut from falling. I wish I would've played it cool that night and we could've talked about it the next morning. She's left so many times in the past year for other people, but I've done messed up things too. I should've just gave her the benefit of the doubt and talked about it, she tried to call me/talk to me the day after it happened and I ignored it. Then the next day I tried calling her and she ignored it and won't unblock me. I've done nothing but cry and not eat, I just don't understand how to go on without her. I feel so lost

Has anyone tried this? I seem to get most upset at night, so I like to take drives and let it out (especially since I still live with my parents). I'm worried this will do the same thing as like my ex's checking socials, I'll get so used to doing it that my brain will just automatically think of my ex every night. It's also hard because we live in the same town and I have to fight urges to drive past her house, or I get scared we'll see each other on the road. I know it's important to feel the feels, but like I said I don't want to make it a habit that I can't break.

Just wondering if they even do anything about it or check the reports.

Location: CT. Last night me and my ex got into a fight coming home from the club. I ended up getting out of the car about a mile from my house so I could be by myself and just think. She followed me and would. Not. Leave me alone. Next thing I know I'm being shoved, my phone was thrown. The police end up seeing me and my friend on the side of the road while my ex is walking towards my house. I tell them what happened and they send another cop looking for my ex. Turns out she's outside my house, shocker. I say I don't want to make a statement, but this morning I woke up with a scratch from falling and a bruise from being grabbed by the arm. I also found out she told me she was raped and it was a lie, she was just hooking up with another guy (which she initiated), and this is what started the fight in the first place. She said she "never said that" and that I don't listen. I was furious because she had me reporting the guy who she said raped her to his college. Should I get the police involved again? What would happen most likely, is it worth bringing up the false rape report? (I feel horrible for the guy, imagine he got kicked out of school bc of that).