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I wanted to know how the girth plays its role while having sex with a girl. Is the Girth or Length that matter most? And does the girls prefer more length or more girth?

Feels like Nofap is part of my life now. I'll let you know what all changes i feel now.
- No more getting triggered even on small cleavages.
- Visible hair growth happening ( Couldn't say its fully on Nofap though)
- Increased mental clarity
- Less Brain fog
- More productive
- The urge to get better increased
- Increased Confidence
- More eye contact
- No more seeing girls as a sexual object

Things I need to still work on ;
- Fantasizing my previous sex experience in mind.
- Touching and giving some strokes when bored.
- Control being horny sometimes.

Where can I get my car washed for a low budget. I live near West fort area. So any car wash near to the area would be more comfortable. Also please mention what the cost would be.

And one more thing, is there any car wash for 24 hours in thrissur?

I'm a day to day traveller on train in general coach. On my return train, it's mostly rushed. On somedays it used to be girls standing beside me. I felt like some girls enjoy touching me, not with hands but touching or rubbing body each other.
Some of them press themselves on to me. First i thought it could be of the rush on train.But, then i realised it's not. I don't do anything in return as i'm scared. I just stand over there and let them do whatever they want.
No offence on this as i believe everyone have their on lust and all and also they keep their limits.
The hard part is when they do this we get hard and its hard to dismantle it (Boys can relate) or maybe can't be done or i should say its out of our power. When we gets hard and at the time they press against us i feel discomfort as i feel like i'm doing ssomething wrong or maybe things could go wrong or nowadays some girls turn the plate on to us by telling we tried to abuse on them.

Have you guys experience anything like this or is it just me? Let me know and do lemme know how you handle.

I'm a day to day traveller on train in general coach. On my return train, it's mostly rushed. On somedays it used to be girls standing beside me. I felt like some girls enjoy touching me, not with hands but touching or rubbing body each other.
Some of them press themselves on to me. First i thought it could be of the rush on train.But, then i realised it's not. I don't do anything in return as i'm scared. I just stand over there and let them do whatever they want.
No offence on this as i believe everyone have their on lust and all and also they keep their limits.
The hard part is when they do this we get hard and its hard to dismantle it (Boys can relate) or maybe can't be done or i should say its out of our power. When we gets hard and at the time they press against us i feel discomfort as i feel like i'm doing ssomething wrong or maybe things could go wrong or nowadays some girls turn the plate on to us by telling we tried to abuse on them.

Have you guys experience anything like this or is it just me? Let me know and do lemme know how you handle.

Where can I take blood test like Vitamin D,B12 etc in a budget ? Seems too costly for the tests.

27 days is my all time highest and i'm just 1 day away from it. Even though the urges are super hard today. Feels more horny than the past days too. Never thought i'll make it this far this time.
I get hard easily is the problem i have and when i get i touch. i need to learn to control it too.
i dont watch porn but my mind plays visuals with my ex-gf often and it triggers me now and then.Gets the urge to watch porn but i control it.

I got DPN( Small black/brown bumps) on my face and i want to get it removed. Is there anyone who have done this? Also I need suggestions for places for this to be done and what the cost would be

27 days is my all time record that i made 6 years back. I have made it to 25 days before but couldn't break the record. I hope i does it this time.
I still get hit with urges and i goon but not ejaculate. I thought i'll trick my mind by gooning and not ejaculate. But, it's kind of becoming a new habit and its danger. Could slip into relapse if done multiple times. Have got close calls though. I haven't turned the energy into somethinng productive yet.

I'm 28 by last April. I Live in kerala right now. Not married or dont even have any relation. Currently no job too.
I'm doing Interior Designing course right now, On the stage of changing career. I'm an MBA graduate who have almost 3 years of experience working in bank. Then i quits and did nothing for almost 1 and half years.
To the Men who started things late out there. Could you give some advice on what all things i should be aware of? Like, what all challenges will i be facing for being on this situation.

Any advice would do. Thanks

I'm 28 right now. Have an MBA done at Bharathiyar university and almost 3 years of work experience at bank. Then I quit the job and have been jobless for 1 year 8 months and joined Interior Designing as I wanted to pursue a career in it.

-Now that I have started everything from scratch, how do I settle up on life ?

-I clearly don't have a vision right now as I don't know what to do anymore. If the decision I took was wrong or right.

Help me out.

Successfully completed 11 days.
- i feel more mental clarity as of less brain fog. I literally couldn't fetch anything out from my brain. I was dumb.very dumb. It was very frustrating to think. ( I started feeling this from atleast finishing 1 week)
- Cant say about the energy yet, i fall sick with high fever and just recovered.
- Motivation hitting me here and then. Urge to start working out.
- Skin feels better
- Still not happy because i havent diverted the energy into something productive yet. It's pushing me onto depression.

By this time it should have been gone twice. Should I expect it in the coming hours? 🫠

How are you guys coping with the powercuts happening in our day to day life. Is everyone ok with it or have normalized it already?

- For exactly what purpose are these powercuts for?

- Why are these sheddings happening multiple times in a day ?

- We are living in 2026 and seems to be fighting for 1950's problems.

Most girls on Instagram do content by revealing their cleavage for likes and reach. On the other side, boys gets the urges to FAP and makes it hard for them to control No FAP.
What are your thoughts on this?
And is there any way to avoid these type of content from instagram? is there any inbuilt option for it or any other way?

It was hard for me to survive until now, as this is a habit of almost 20 years this is the biggest challenge for me on my life.
Havent watched porn on these past 7 days.
My mind fantasizes on its own when i'm about to sleep (this is the time when i used to fap).As a muscle memory my hands go down on its own pulling the shorts down. i couldn't help with it and i give multiple strokes and then i stop. I dont relapse.
For the last couple of days, its been very hard as i fall sick and for the full time i hhave been resting onn my room. The urge hits me like for every hour or so.
FIrst 2 days gave me hike in confidence and on 3rd day i was hit with reality on where i'm on life for real. It made me depressed onn what kind of life i'm living.