u/LividCategory1847

Image 1 — Plant recs my tank seems empty
Image 2 — Plant recs my tank seems empty

Plant recs my tank seems empty

Tank:17.5gals(80 litres)

Does anyone have any recommendations my tank seems so empty especially in the middle I was thinking of getting a piece of wood in the middle with mosses on it but idk tbh would that be easy to do or not? Like idk if it would be low CO2 as well any recommendations would really be helpful ngl I added some of the ones I was thinking about but I’m honestly so unsure😭but I’m going down tomorrow for some as my fish shop sells all of those ones in the second picture

Btw tank is cycled and parameters are all completely fine so decided not to include

u/LividCategory1847 — 2 days ago

Any of you ever feel not human?

Is basically what is says in the title really ngl here
sometimes I just feel not human it’s weird and idk I was wondering if anyone could relate really or explain it i thought I’d ask here out of anywhere else because maybe y’all could give me an explanation or understand what I’m trying to explain all be it not very well😅 like is this trans ???

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u/LividCategory1847 — 4 days ago

Anyway to get rid of hair algae pls

It always comes back I hate it sm and idk what to do I’ve literally just started to trim the plants when they start getting it but I can’t keep doing that I’ve tried snails and ottos and they do nothing😭is there any way to actually get rid of it or no

Tank light on 6 hours

Fish fed 7 flakes and corys fed 1/2 Hikaru sinking flake because still very young

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u/LividCategory1847 — 5 days ago

Any advice of what to expect on testosterone?

I’m gonna be starting testosterone in September and I’m kinda freaking out a bit about it and want to know any like changes y’all first noticed really so it seems less of a massive deal though am still freaking out lol 😂 I’m mostly worried about my face looking completely different tbh and being more feminine than I look now if that helps at all

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u/LividCategory1847 — 5 days ago

new to weightlifting/routines looking for guidance

Hi everyone I’m (20TM) Rn I’m 45.3kg (99.8lbs for the Americans) and I’m 5’4 if that’s helpful and like pretty skinny which sucks but I think is just 20 year old metabolism but I digress I’m gonna be taking stuff to get my testosterone levels actually good soon in September as well as there being a free gym at my university i thought I’d probably make the most of it and get some muscles and was wondering if there was like a good weight/routines to start at first to lift and anything y’all noticed you needed to change once you started working out really any advice is very much appreciated btw.

Apologies if I Missed any important info btw idk what information is important or not really

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u/LividCategory1847 — 6 days ago
▲ 22 r/gay

Would gay guys actually like me?

First off if this isn’t what this community is about then do feel free to just tell me and I’ll take this post down no problem👍

Basically I’m a 20 transgender gay guy (idk if me being a top matters but I’ve seen it as something people usually include) and I’ve been wanting to start dating like a lot lately as I’m gonna like be moving away from home in September to live university dorms and also because I think it’d be really nice to have a boyfriend but like I really don’t know if i would start offending people more than actually getting interest or anything so i thought I’d ask here first like what y’all experiences are about this or like if y’all kinda stay away from trans people (no judgement ofc btw) because id prefer to know in advance if this is the case or not and don’t see the harm in asking just so i know what people’s opinions are of this in this community before i do try and date.

Also if any of yall have any advice for anything like dating or tbh anything really I’d also really appreciate that as well a ton, thanks in advance btw.

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u/LividCategory1847 — 6 days ago

Choose my betta!

I am getting rid of the rest of my fish before anything okay😭and just have one of these 3 bettas but idk which is best for my tank because they all look so cool

My tank rn
80litres (17.5 gallons)
Is basically completely cycled atp or will be in like 4 days i imagine but will just have the betta on reserve till then

I have kinda everything I think I’ll need but the food which I’ll buy ik rn is not tons of plants but only planted these like 11 days ago so they’re growing trust but if yall have any recommendations for plants as well thats perfectly fine

u/LividCategory1847 — 11 days ago

All my fish are trying to mate even though different species😭

What am I supposed to do with a male guppy that wants to mate but I can’t give him females (will he just attack the males???? If I give him that) and my male rosy tetra is attacking the new females I just got for him so idk what to do anymore i literally just wanna get rid of all of them I tried so hard I swear but now they all in great conditions they all just wanna mate.

Main question is there like something I can put in the water to make them like not wanting to mate or something

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u/LividCategory1847 — 12 days ago

Should I add more fish? Or leave it to grow more?

I currently have
1 male guppy
2 rosy tetras
1 otto
Baby ram and bladder snails as well as one adult I think bladder

Thinking of adding
At least 1 more male guppy (this is because the one I have is freaking out kinda all by himself he’s not sick btw just lonely but attached pic his tail was moving not ripped)
Maybe 1 more rosy tetra but that’s not immediate concern for me

My tank is as of rn (80 litres 17.5 gallons) in a pretty good cycle it’s ammonia is going down and I’m completely on top of the water changes and everything this tank can throw my way really atp I was gonna get Java ferns and other plants but rn I am unsure as the ones I have are growing faster than i thought they would

u/LividCategory1847 — 14 days ago

After 3 long days and £100 lighter it’s finally done with the actual physical stuff and my chemicals are on order to come tomorrow so my fish will definitely not be harmed by 24 hours of waiting but finally can actually be proud and not be depressed every time I go into the living room and I wanna thank everyone that’s offered me advice for what to do and how to best go about this as I knew nothing about fish tanks from a week ago other than clean absolutely everything I can and shove everything back in😭

u/LividCategory1847 — 19 days ago

Plants and snails are officially in btw i know looks cloudy isn’t an algae bloom is just new substrate and water my water is currently clearer than this with more plants in than this photo and the fish are back in it because i simply didn’t have another option but ill be getting my test kit bacteria and sea chem sometime this week and until then my old uncleaned filter is in there anyway as well as mature plants from before and 5 pints of the old water so will definitely be fine till then

u/LividCategory1847 — 20 days ago

This is a part 1 as I have to put a cucumber slice in the water tonight so I can get all the baby snails out safely for when I clean everything out tomorrow and buy all the plants(I’m gonna get some grasses, an Anubis and some java ferns as well as decorations and hiding holes) but this is the basics I got and am so grateful for the amazing advice you all gave me and my dad has agreed to back off from the fishtank🥳🥳🥳🥳I also have found a light timer in my house so the light won’t be one more than 6 hours anymore

u/LividCategory1847 — 21 days ago

Basically my dad bought this fish tank a few years ago and i begged him not to because he wouldn’t take care of it but he got it anyway and i honestly don’t know what to do with it at all as he’s just been keeping the light on constantly (says needs to be on more than 12 hours a day) and doesn’t clean it or take care of it like i said he would and i genuinely don’t know what to do with it or like how to help these fish in this tank is like 2 pink fish can see on left and an orange guppy of some kind and a sucker fish there used to be more but my dad got bored and wanted more one had fin rot and killed the rest (which i guilty say I’m grateful for) and like i have no idea how to take care of a fish tank so any advice is like appreciated on how i can care for this tank now as I’m gonna assume it’s just mine now I’m gonna have to pay for as well.

Sorry that was long basic summary idk what to do to help this fish tank I think the light is to bright and plants keep dying and idk what to do is there anything I can buy or something I can do to improve these fishes lives please🙏

u/LividCategory1847 — 24 days ago