u/Living_Watercress

OK I am a little confused. I intend to sell my house and buy another one. So considering that you don't know when the house will sell, how and when do you make an offer on another house?

So I meet my attorney today. I haven't told H about the divorce yet, I haven't found a good time. But I wanted to prepare him. So I started a conversation and mentioned how he has abused me. He says he doesn't remember. Well sorry I remember. I think he may have dementia so I want to get out now before things get worse. I am just venting.

Was anyone terrified to file for fear of making the wrong decision?

As divorce is painful and expensive I was wondering about the possibility of just permanently separating, thus saving money. Anyone do this?

Ladies what are you looking forward to post divorce? For me it will be no more walking on eggshells, no more criticism, living in a clean place, not listening to spouses noisey poops, being able to come and go at will,

I know thru lines existed, because I have seen them. However I am now trying to find that info and I cant. Did thru lines disappear, or am I just not able to find them? Thank You

You ever just feel bleh.Drank water ate protein still feel bleh?

I am trying to plan a divorce. For example, if I file, do I go home and tell him, because I know he will go berserk. Or will someone else tell him? Do we stay in the same house or does one of us move out? No children. I pay the mortgage 100% but I know he won't move out willingly. Then, if we have to sell the house, should I rent an apt. or look for a house to buy? My finances aren't that strong. Im not sure if I would qualify for a mortgage by myself.

Husband criticizes me constantly. Criticized me in public this eve. And I am so MAD. I hit him because I lost it then he smacked me with his cane. I have told him numerous times "don't criticize me"!. I want to call a lawyer tomorrow but I always chicken out at the last minute. How can I get the courage to file?

I have several trees. On my personal tree people are labeled such as "great grandfather" or other relation. But on my other trees, such as my grandsons father and his lineage, i don't get the labels. Why is this and can I fix it? Thank you