SSS and Proof of incarceration

For those of you who received the letter from slater today, i'm just letting you know that I finally got a hold of slater i review what was wrong with my paperwork, and then they asked me for proof of me being in high school in juvenile hall. So I called LACOE for my records +1 562-922-6111 they informed me that they can send me my transcripts all they needed was a photo of a hand written request with the following:

Request for GED and Transcripts

Your Name

DOB

The Facility you were in

Your email where you want it sent

The Date

Your signature

Send it to studentfilecenter@lacoe.edu

With subject line request for transcripts and ged

Takes 5-7 business days and its free

Hang in there folks🫶🏾

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u/Longjumping-Buy-6174 — 2 days ago

Man im fucking tired

Im tired of waiting on this check

Im not JUST waiting on this check

Im waiting to hear from employers

Waiting on my disability

GR cut me off

Food stamps cut me off

Talking to these damn 4th party settlement buyers is even more stressful

I haven't been this difficeient in 8 years

My dad's death anniversary is this week

My son is being a twat

I feel all the way the fuck alone and im just fucking tired....

I know it will get better

I know things change

But my battery is fried

I might delete this later but it feels good to get it out

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Might delete later when im feeling a little better

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u/Longjumping-Buy-6174 — 3 days ago

Intruder keeps coming back

We recently had an intruder in our home. The police was called and they removed him but this damn opossum keeps coming back. Ive caught him outside my door 4x....any suggestions

u/Longjumping-Buy-6174 — 23 days ago

Can a relationship recover from infidelity when the betrayed partner uses it to avoid accountability forever?

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My partner and I have been together for six years, and we have a 3-year-old together.

I'm curious if anyone has experienced something similar from either side.

I cheated after years of feeling emotionally alone in the relationship. I feel like Im carrying most of the household and parenting responsibilities, while my partner is emotionally unavailable, sleeps a lot, rarely acknowledges me, and doesn't consistently show up as a supportive partner despite me repeatedly communicating my needs.

He decides to stay after discovering the affair, but none of the behaviors that contributed to the unhealthy relationship change. He is still emotionally unavailable, still doesn't contribute the way i needs, and still avoids working on his own flaws.

Instead, he seems to believe that being the victim of infidelity permanently absolves him from having to take accountability for his own behavior. He uses the affair as leverage to guilt, shame, punish, or control me, while dismissing the unhealthy environment that existed long before the cheating happened.

I'm not saying cheating is justified. It wasn't, and the I take responsibility for my choice to cheat.

can reconciliation actually work if only one person is expected to change? Can a relationship heal when the affair becomes the only issue that matters, and everything that led up to it is treated as irrelevant?

For those who have been through this, did things ever improve? Or does resentment and imbalance eventually make reconciliation impossible?

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u/Longjumping-Buy-6174 — 1 month ago
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Black Enough(?)

Ive spent a majority of my life trying to prove how "Black" i was. When I was little it was clear but I was teased for having "good hair". Id explain that dad is black and native from Texas and my mom is Creole Black and Native from Louisiana at 10 and 11 that meant nothing so I stopped hanging with the kids who liked (mostly Mexicans who listened tonalternative rock) music I was allowed to listen to outside rb and oldies (no rap lol in my parents homes) there was really no problem the mexicans at that age were for the most part chill, then I went to high school and shit hit the fan....im from la and my home school wasnt good at the time so my mom enrolled me in a magnet in Westchester (still public and I was coming from 8yrs of private) so boom culture clash now its "WHAT ARE YOU" "YOU THINK YOU WHITE" Mexicans became TOO COOL WITH THE N word and I just wanted to belong. So on top of that my bus came from a rivaling neighborhood so as I sought the need to belong i also faced accusations of being a Crip or affiliated so I embraced it I entered an environment that tore me up and spit me out in the name of "proofing what I thought was blackness" I ended up in prison where I saw so many girls like me just wanting to belong and who had learned to be themselves, I only did a year but I that time I reflected and decided I wouldn't let anyone else define me. So I come home same questions but I no longer cared I was me I was brilliant I knew what I wanted and where I wanted to go and did it! Fast forward i go to South Africa for a Black Healing Fellowship and of corse race and color are a big part of South Africa with the Blacks, Whites, Afrikaans, and Coloreds. I received so many questions about why "I" had been chosen with the other 12 in our group to participate when in fact to them I was colored and not black. Of corse it devastated my little pride once again and I returned home again with a bit of a complex to prove how Black I was especially in my leadership space. Ive since found my peace again but wonder why it urks me so all these years later.....

Question:

can you tell im black?

Why is it almost always men thinking im Indian, Hispanic, but NOT BLACK?

Has this ever happened to you?

Side note I rarely ever get braids but feel a little silly when I have cornrow styles(like im from set it off and the lemonades make me feel like a stripper lol)but other people wear it so well

Pic 2 is me regularly

u/Longjumping-Buy-6174 — 1 month ago

Najie Ali saying this who killed Eric Washington

But folks in the post comments say its the wrong guy.....Najie Ali is now saying he's going to the police with proof. Do you think he for real or just trying to be the next al sharpton or Jessie Jackson? Clout chasing for attention?

#LA

u/Longjumping-Buy-6174 — 1 month ago

Hawthorne PD what's the problem?

My cousins car was towed for absolutely no reason other than not having plates (he is waiting for them to come in the mail) in hawthorne. His car was registered and parked but for some reason they towed him. Now we are working to get the truck back but how and why is this ok? They lurk on our block often trying to find people with expired tags, we have drones flown over our house constantly and it just seems super predatory.....

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u/Longjumping-Buy-6174 — 2 months ago

Everything triggers me

I smell windex sad

I wash dishes sad

I wait on hold and jazz comes on sad

Eat pecan praline pie sad

My son graduated hs and seen a man that looked like my dad sad

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I just dont know how I keep going forever like this

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Please tap me out already😭

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u/Longjumping-Buy-6174 — 2 months ago

First time poster 3yr survivor of a baby menace w/ a senior in hs🤣

So my toddler racked up 1100 dollars total on my Amazon account I didnt even know was active. Amazon has agreed to give me 615 back. Im just sad I didnt catch this sooner. I did deactivate when I noticed suspicious activity just didnt know where it was coming from \*cant post screenshot here idky\*

Side note no merch just apps I thought were free

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u/Longjumping-Buy-6174 — 2 months ago

Loving my NinjaCrispi Portable!!!

So first I tried a batch of fries just to learn the settings (not my best work) next was the skinless chicken breast and baby potatoes (a little dry but baby potatoes was popping) finally i decided to test a ribeye ( i cut it seasoned and placed on the rack on air fryer for 20 min at 10 min tossed for even browning)🥰🎊🦸🏾‍♀️😍 10/10 my favorite appliance

u/Longjumping-Buy-6174 — 3 months ago