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I'm 22f ,I'm just totally drained, I've been in this LDR for the longest time and am attached, currently going through a rough patch with them. I'm just vying for connection but it's not possible and I've been in this LDR for long enough to now feel extremely lonely and everything feels difficult. Just receiving a text back is tough, feeling intimacy when I want is tough, having a routine is tough, and I'm crying every other day. I'm heavily attached and they are my best friend but in my heart I know I need to end this or else I'll keep setting myself up for disappointment as if it's the theme of my life.

From last year when I looked back I saw whatever I did is not worth what I get, we met a few times but it was so restricted they make me feel like they are so helpless that they can do anything for meeting and all making family the reason. Even if I travel to the city to meet they sometimes where busy not able to meet and the meeting has also felt so restricted and less not satisfied some times.

And a few times it feels like they are happy busy with stuff and i am the one who is magging up on them. I am also quite frustrated now, i am out of my routine waiting for message or just to talk, it's been an year and i see things could be more better.

I tell myself if it ever happen again i will out of this, but I also think maybe I am loosing my patience.

Maybe in the next 2-3 months they will be here in the city for their stuff(I told them to come here), as they are saying (i am telling myself not to believe as if it won't happen it will break my heart hard)

So in hope that everything will be good in the upcoming time (like major 2-3month thing) should I continue this or should I get out, coz I am really very frustrated now, and i think it will take a lot to be normal.

I'm 23f ,I'm just totally drained, I've been in this LDR for the longest time and am attached, currently going through a rough patch with them. I'm just vying for connection but it's not possible and I've been in this LDR for long enough to now feel extremely lonely and everything feels difficult. Just receiving a text back is tough, feeling intimacy when I want is tough, having a routine is tough, and I'm crying every other day. I'm heavily attached and they are my best friend but in my heart I know I need to end this or else I'll keep setting myself up for disappointment as if it's the theme of my life.

From last year when I looked back I saw whatever I did is not worth what I get, we met a few times but it was so restricted they make me feel like they are so helpless that they can do anything for meeting and all making family the reason. Even if I travel to the city to meet they sometimes where busy not able to meet and the meeting has also felt so restricted and less not satisfied some times.

And a few times it feels like they are happy busy with stuff and i am the one who is magging up on them. I am also quite frustrated now, i am out of my routine waiting for message or just to talk, it's been an year and i see things could be more better.

I tell myself if it ever happen again i will out of this, but I also think maybe I am loosing my patience.

Maybe in the next 2-3 months they will be here in the city for their stuff(I told them to come here), as they are saying (i am telling myself not to believe as if it won't happen it will break my heart hard)

So in hope that everything will be good in the upcoming time (like major 2-3month thing) should I continue this or should I get out, coz I am really very frustrated now, and i think it will take a lot to be normal.

Would you be in LDR or find someone in your city.

I am in a relationship LDR from 1 year for seems like it's not working. Thinking of finding someone in the city im in what would you advise me?

Would you like to be in ldr or find someone in your own city?

Like in my mind I got a perception like every one is like not trust worthy or cheating on each other these days , is it really hard to find a partner which shows Commitment, loyalty, respect like this or every one just wants to have fun , if you know something about this scene share your views.