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I was driving home (legit JUST got her back from the shop) and my left turn signal started doing the faster blinking. Now I’m aware it’s typically a light out, but my dad checked all of them and they’re all fine. It’s only the left side, not the right and the only change is the speed.

All I got fixed at the shop was an EVAP line and I think the valve cover. Which I don’t think are associated with turn signals at all.

It’s a 2012 base model beetle

For anybody who cares and saw my previous post, the organizer I ordered is in fact out of stock and discontinued. So there’s no way they can send me the organizer I ordered and I will just have to accept a refund.

Does anybody perchance have a link to a decent dupe on Amazon? I ordered the pocket size and still received all my inserts and would like to use them

Legit just got my filofax order, 3 refills and a domino soft pocket. It's genuinely missing the whole entire binder. Like all of the order stuff and emails say that it's all been completely shipped together, no package just laying on the side of my porch hidden, it came sealed without literally the most expensive part of my order

is this a common filofax thing? is there mailing system usually bad or is this just a one time thing? and I emailed their customer service already but i don't know how long that's gonna take either.

i know there's a hole punch made by filofax on their website but i wanted to know if anybody knew of any dupes for it (cheaper or same price), preferably on amazon, just looking for quicker shipping

Ok so I just bought a DSi today, it’s completely stock from what I know. I wanna mod it to where all that’s different is I can put games on the Home Screen so I don’t have to just rely on my R4 card.

That’s all I want out of it, I want everything stock except for being able to put games on it.

I was just wondering if anyone had any idea if this was possible and if so a link or anything

I have experience modding my 2DS as well so I’m not a total newbie to this.

Just bought a DSi and I was wondering if there’s a way to mod it without changing the whole entire Home Screen and everything.
I just wanna be able to download the games to the Home Screen without having to shove everything on an R4 card

I feel like playing JD4 my whole life has caused me to not be able to actually really like any of the other Just Dances. Tbf, a lot of the ones I’m trying are the newer ones (up to 2020 tho, so not new new) but none of them really have good choreography like JD4 does imo.

I’m looking for JD games most similar to JD4 but it can’t be newer than 2020, as I only play on my Wii.
Similar as in choreography styles mainly, but music too a little bit.

My biceps have gotten noticeably bigger since I started doing just dance frequently and I googled it and it makes no sense but like I don’t do anything else exercise wise other than walking.

Is this from the Just Dance or am I like secretly curling weights in my sleep

Edit: just thought abt it a bit more and I play on Wii and the Wiimote is a decent weight (no more than like 1.5 lbs) but that could def play into it, bc my right is bigger than my left

Warnings for things like divorce, suicide (attempted), self harm, parent almost dying/road accident, probably more just b careful thx

Skip to bottom if you don’t care abt back story

My parents have been in the process of splitting for maybe two years almost. It started as a dissolution because my Dad truly did not want to screw my mom over but she has made it as hard as it possibly can be. She has constantly been trying to postpone it by not paying her lawyer and saying “she has no money” (while CONSTANTLY getting her nails done and her hair dyed professionally and styled, etc.), saying that his lawyer never sent anything (while he had proof he did), just basically refusing to cooperate, etc. and none of what dad wanted her to agree to was to screw her over. All it basically was for them to split proceeds from selling the house and he gets his furniture and items from his room, office, and his tools basically, along with mine and his cats.

Another thing she would do is use my dads motorcycle accident last year to say “he was gonna realize he needs her” while he literally almost died, spent days in ICU and couldn’t go to the bathroom easily and preferred that he had her take him to the bathroom as she’s a nurse and yk personal reasons I’m assuming. She also used my two suicide attempts at the beginning of this year to say that him “tearing the family apart was causing it” and that “they needed to work on things so I could get better” while my main reasons are rooted in how she treats me.

She has ALWAYS blatantly favored my older brother since we were little. She hardly cared about me unless it made her look good, and her caring especially became bare minimum after I developed my mental disorders. She has a long history of forcing reasons to scream at me and my older sister and to use the silent treatment against me especially, but she never did that to my older brother.

She won’t do things for me like buy me pads unless either I ask multiple times or she’s on her cycle. She also allows my older brother to constantly steal my belongings (he’ll steal anything basically, makeup, collectibles, games for systems he doesn’t even have, etc.) She also only buys food that he will want, which is mainly things like junk food and little to no proper meals. Me and my dad typically have to buy our own stuff unless we want to survive on garlic bread, noodles, and little Debbie. As well as she allows him to eat basically the whole pantry in the middle of the night and refuses to talk to him about it. If I had any hope of some of the decent shit to be left in the morning, i have to be extremely prepared for disappointment because it’s likely all gone in the morning. And I mean whole boxes, not just a couple, the whole damn box. And the things that me and my dad buy specifically for us are at risk too and she continues to either yell at my dad for saying something and refuses to say something herself.

Adding in to that, I’m a minor and have been working to find a job to combat this, while my brother is 19 years old. Quit their job at McDonald’s because they didn’t want to stand and do dishes even though they complained all the time about having to work drive thru or something else there. That’s also the only job they’ve had and they now refuse to find another.

Recently he has switched it to a full divorce, he also got a new lawyer as his og one was kind of an ass. This lawyer has worked significantly quicker and already has the papers sent out for my mom to pick up at the post office, which she again, flat out refuses to do which is going to likely cause my dad to have to pay more to have them physically delivered to her, likely at work, which is going to cause way more problems. (Along with she’s gonna go full batshit once she realizes).

On to the main problem I specifically have, I’m on a strict safety plan due to my attempts earlier this year. All meds and sharps have to be locked in secured boxes that I’m not supposed to know the code to. My mom has left both the meds box and the sharps box open on countless occasions (I have photo evidence for a lot of them) and she’ll go into ie. The laundry multiple times in a row and never think to close it. It’s not like it’s a few times accident. It’s almost daily. I have to have my dad come lock them again because even though I now know the code due to her doing this, I’d like to still try to work towards not going for it.

That’s the main reason I’m upset with her as of right now. I typically try to not say anything to her as saying things to her never helps, no matter if I say it politely, text it, email, call, yell it, have a therapist say it, have my dad say it, etc. (I have in fact tried all of those multiple times). She refuses to understand boundaries and she will go into a rampage about how she’s either trying her best to be better and she’s not perfect and nobody is or she’ll go into how terrible of a mother she must be.

**START READING HERE IF TOU DONT CARE ABT THE BACKSTORY**
There’s also been a few more significant events the past few days.

Last Sunday me and my dad went out on what we call side questing which is where we go to a ton of retro game stores and comic book stores and just a lot of smaller businesses in our area. We typically pick up food on the way home because we’re usually out all day. This time I wanted to get Little Ceaser’s instead of what we usually do (McDonald’s or go to my friends work if she’s on shift). Keep in mind, **I** picked this, Dad was just getting whatever at wherever I wanted. So we took it home because from what I’ve seen, there’s really not indoor seating and it’s hot as balls rn. Mom took this as Dad purposely trying to prove a point against my older brother. Who again, is an adult and knew we were going out and knows we typically get food and could easily ask if we could get them some. We didn’t bring any for anybody else, yes, but it wasn’t a hate crime, we legit got a pizza and some crazy bread to share bro.
What I think happened with this was mom told my brother there was food and when they saw there was only stuff me and my dad liked left, they got upset and told Mom.
Mom went on to tell me that dad should be ashamed and should be embarrassed and that he is embarassing for this. Because apparently we should’ve known it’s their favorite and that we were trying to show that we don’t like them, whatever.
She then asked my brother (grown adult btw) what they wanted and went to go get it, and made a show of coming into the living room where we were both sat and asking me if I wanted anything. She also continued to text me multiple times asking if I was sure I didn’t want anything (I legit just ate btw).

Then yesterday, I was awake pretty early so she hadn’t left for work yet, as I was hanging out with my bf and his friend to get tf out of there, and she saw me coming out of the bathroom and said good morning and I ignored her, so I assumed she’d figure it out I don’t wanna talk. She then later comes into my room with my morning med, that my Dad has been giving me for a while now, and when I told her to get out because she came in acting like we’re best friends and asking me my plans, she word for word said “you know you can love both parents, right?” And to which I went on about asking her if she knows she can love both kids and went on about how I was the one who picked food, etc.
Later that day she then texted dad this whole apology saying she wasn’t feeling like herself, not acknowledging that she was just being wrong.

And today, Day like, 2 of ignoring, and she comes home, asks if the dogs have been fed and neither me or Dad answered and she said it was “borderline ridiculous”. Typically she takes dad just saying nothing as a no, as it usually is because she always asks us like twenty minutes before their feed time.

Then, I had already ate dinner because I had dad make me ramen, and without asking me (at least trying, wouldn’t have answered) she made me food and hit me with the “I made you food, I can either bring it out to you or you can come get it, whatever you prefer, or if you don’t want it, you don’t have to have it”. And I didn’t answer her or move or anything and so like 15min later she got up in front of me and repeated the same rant and said “You can answer your mother” and proceeded to walk away going on a rant about how she “didn’t do anything to warrant this silent treatment but she understands that that’s all she’s shown in the past so she gets it and that she appreciates the gesture”. Again, nobody responded. Idek what appreciating the gesture means tbh.

She then gave up on that and got her own food and while going to go outside to eat, she word for word said, “I love you guys, your silence doesn’t change that, if anything that just makes me wanna work harder. I will not walk away from what I have with my family”. Again, nobody answers and last thing she said was she was eating outside bc it’s beautiful out, again nobody cares.

Later that night she went on to tell me “no matter how hard I make it she’s using me acting this way to get better, even if I don’t see it. And that if I ever want to talk to her again I can and I shouldn’t feel like I can’t because I haven’t for a few days.”

Before she went to bed she told me “I love you even though you make it hard to”.

Warnings for things like divorce, suicide (attempted), self harm, parent almost dying/road accident, probably more just b careful thx

Skip to bottom if you don’t care abt back story

My parents have been in the process of splitting for maybe two years almost. It started as a dissolution because my Dad truly did not want to screw my mom over but she has made it as hard as it possibly can be. She has constantly been trying to postpone it by not paying her lawyer and saying “she has no money” (while CONSTANTLY getting her nails done and her hair dyed professionally and styled, etc.), saying that his lawyer never sent anything (while he had proof he did), just basically refusing to cooperate, etc. and none of what dad wanted her to agree to was to screw her over. All it basically was for them to split proceeds from selling the house and he gets his furniture and items from his room, office, and his tools basically, along with mine and his cats.

Another thing she would do is use my dads motorcycle accident last year to say “he was gonna realize he needs her” while he literally almost died, spent days in ICU and couldn’t go to the bathroom easily and preferred that he had her take him to the bathroom as she’s a nurse and yk personal reasons I’m assuming. She also used my two suicide attempts at the beginning of this year to say that him “tearing the family apart was causing it” and that “they needed to work on things so I could get better” while my main reasons are rooted in how she treats me.

She has ALWAYS blatantly favored my older brother since we were little. She hardly cared about me unless it made her look good, and her caring especially became bare minimum after I developed my mental disorders. She has a long history of forcing reasons to scream at me and my older sister and to use the silent treatment against me especially, but she never did that to my older brother.

She won’t do things for me like buy me pads unless either I ask multiple times or she’s on her cycle. She also allows my older brother to constantly steal my belongings (he’ll steal anything basically, makeup, collectibles, games for systems he doesn’t even have, etc.) She also only buys food that he will want, which is mainly things like junk food and little to no proper meals. Me and my dad typically have to buy our own stuff unless we want to survive on garlic bread, noodles, and little Debbie. As well as she allows him to eat basically the whole pantry in the middle of the night and refuses to talk to him about it. If I had any hope of some of the decent shit to be left in the morning, i have to be extremely prepared for disappointment because it’s likely all gone in the morning. And I mean whole boxes, not just a couple, the whole damn box. And the things that me and my dad buy specifically for us are at risk too and she continues to either yell at my dad for saying something and refuses to say something herself.

Adding in to that, I’m a minor and have been working to find a job to combat this, while my brother is 19 years old. Quit their job at McDonald’s because they didn’t want to stand and do dishes even though they complained all the time about having to work drive thru or something else there. That’s also the only job they’ve had and they now refuse to find another.

Recently he has switched it to a full divorce, he also got a new lawyer as his og one was kind of an ass. This lawyer has worked significantly quicker and already has the papers sent out for my mom to pick up at the post office, which she again, flat out refuses to do which is going to likely cause my dad to have to pay more to have them physically delivered to her, likely at work, which is going to cause way more problems. (Along with she’s gonna go full batshit once she realizes).

On to the main problem I specifically have, I’m on a strict safety plan due to my attempts earlier this year. All meds and sharps have to be locked in secured boxes that I’m not supposed to know the code to. My mom has left both the meds box and the sharps box open on countless occasions (I have photo evidence for a lot of them) and she’ll go into ie. The laundry multiple times in a row and never think to close it. It’s not like it’s a few times accident. It’s almost daily. I have to have my dad come lock them again because even though I now know the code due to her doing this, I’d like to still try to work towards not going for it.

That’s the main reason I’m upset with her as of right now. I typically try to not say anything to her as saying things to her never helps, no matter if I say it politely, text it, email, call, yell it, have a therapist say it, have my dad say it, etc. (I have in fact tried all of those multiple times). She refuses to understand boundaries and she will go into a rampage about how she’s either trying her best to be better and she’s not perfect and nobody is or she’ll go into how terrible of a mother she must be.

START READING HERE IF TOU DONT CARE ABT THE BACKSTORY
There’s also been a few more significant events the past few days.

Last Sunday me and my dad went out on what we call side questing which is where we go to a ton of retro game stores and comic book stores and just a lot of smaller businesses in our area. We typically pick up food on the way home because we’re usually out all day. This time I wanted to get Little Ceaser’s instead of what we usually do (McDonald’s or go to my friends work if she’s on shift). Keep in mind, I picked this, Dad was just getting whatever at wherever I wanted. So we took it home because from what I’ve seen, there’s really not indoor seating and it’s hot as balls rn. Mom took this as Dad purposely trying to prove a point against my older brother. Who again, is an adult and knew we were going out and knows we typically get food and could easily ask if we could get them some. We didn’t bring any for anybody else, yes, but it wasn’t a hate crime, we legit got a pizza and some crazy bread to share bro.
What I think happened with this was mom told my brother there was food and when they saw there was only stuff me and my dad liked left, they got upset and told Mom.
Mom went on to tell me that dad should be ashamed and should be embarrassed and that he is embarassing for this. Because apparently we should’ve known it’s their favorite and that we were trying to show that we don’t like them, whatever.
She then asked my brother (grown adult btw) what they wanted and went to go get it, and made a show of coming into the living room where we were both sat and asking me if I wanted anything. She also continued to text me multiple times asking if I was sure I didn’t want anything (I legit just ate btw).

Then yesterday, I was awake pretty early so she hadn’t left for work yet, as I was hanging out with my bf and his friend to get tf out of there, and she saw me coming out of the bathroom and said good morning and I ignored her, so I assumed she’d figure it out I don’t wanna talk. She then later comes into my room with my morning med, that my Dad has been giving me for a while now, and when I told her to get out because she came in acting like we’re best friends and asking me my plans, she word for word said “you know you can love both parents, right?” And to which I went on about asking her if she knows she can love both kids and went on about how I was the one who picked food, etc.
Later that day she then texted dad this whole apology saying she wasn’t feeling like herself, not acknowledging that she was just being wrong.

And today, Day like, 2 of ignoring, and she comes home, asks if the dogs have been fed and neither me or Dad answered and she said it was “borderline ridiculous”. Typically she takes dad just saying nothing as a no, as it usually is because she always asks us like twenty minutes before their feed time.

Then, I had already ate dinner because I had dad make me ramen, and without asking me (at least trying, wouldn’t have answered) she made me food and hit me with the “I made you food, I can either bring it out to you or you can come get it, whatever you prefer, or if you don’t want it, you don’t have to have it”. And I didn’t answer her or move or anything and so like 15min later she got up in front of me and repeated the same rant and said “You can answer your mother” and proceeded to walk away going on a rant about how she “didn’t do anything to warrant this silent treatment but she understands that that’s all she’s shown in the past so she gets it and that she appreciates the gesture”. Again, nobody responded. Idek what appreciating the gesture means tbh.

She then gave up on that and got her own food and while going to go outside to eat, she word for word said, “I love you guys, your silence doesn’t change that, if anything that just makes me wanna work harder. I will not walk away from what I have with my family”. Again, nobody answers and last thing she said was she was eating outside bc it’s beautiful out, again nobody cares.

Later that night she went on to tell me “no matter how hard I make it she’s using me acting this way to get better, even if I don’t see it. And that if I ever want to talk to her again I can and I shouldn’t feel like I can’t because I haven’t for a few days.”

Before she went to bed she told me “I love you even though you make it hard to”.

I absolutely adored this movie. Going in I had pretty much no prior knowledge on Supergirl as a whole (recently bought the Woman of Tomorrow compact and held off on reading it as I wanted to go in blind).

I’m fairly new to really getting into DC, and I’m very excited that the DCU is being rebooted at the same time which helps me get into it better.

As for the movie, it was really good to me. I always love a movie with female leads who are strong and I feel as though Milly did amazing at portraying that.

I loved how different the tone of the movie was compared to Superman which I also saw when it first came out. It was nice to see DC using darker themes. I loved that they kept the bad guy bad with basically no redeeming qualities. He stayed bad throughout the whole movie which I feel like is rare in this era of movies.

I also love how they didn’t make Kara a picture perfect superhero and had her be messy but still good (see what I did there?).

The story as well was amazing and I loved Superman’s inclusion in it as I was a huge fan of his movie last year. I think it was very meaningful and I personally loved Ruthye’s character even though I’ve seen a lot of people calling her an annoying sidekick. Lobo didn’t mean a whole lot to me though and I was kinda bummed about that as I saw a lot of hype for him. I felt like his character was just there to keep it pushing but I did like him in the scene where Ruthye was captured and she got out. But I also like that they didn’t give too much spotlight to him.

As for the actors and actresses, I loved Milly as Supergirl and I think she portrayed her very very well. She seems like such a good fit for Supergirl and I’m really excited to see what she can do in the future. Jason Momoa was also great as usual, he seemed to like playing Lobo in the movie and I love when you can tell the actor is having fun with their role. I also loved Eve Ridley and David Corenswet a lot.

I feel like the CGI for Krypto could’ve been a lot better though. Especially in the beginning you could see a clip where it just looked so fake and I feel like with how big DC is, there could’ve been a little more done there. But I loved all of the fight scenes and obviously those aren’t gonna be super realistic but I think they did good with making it as real as possible.

I also loved the soundtrack but the cover of The Middle was not it to me. I can see the vision they had, like maybe making it more of Ruthye’s perspective? I don’t know, I just didn’t like it and I think the original would’ve been a better fit especially with the rest of the soundtrack. Other than that I’d love to see the soundtrack on vinyl (it very well could be already and I’m just dumb) as I would love to add it to my collection.

Overall, I think it was a wonderful movie and both me and my dad had a lot of fun watching. Personally I’m a big cry baby at movies, maybe it’s because I just love them a lot, I don’t know, but I definitely cried because I loved it.

Ok so to preface: I’m moderately new to getting fully into DC so if I say something stupid I apologize

But,, is the Superman from 2025 restarting the DCU?? And if so then where does Batman (2022) play into that or does that not yet have anything to do with the current DCU?

And is there any comics that are currently going along with the new DCU?